A Matter of Perspective
You wish to help people. You wish to heal what you perceive as your world’s troubles. You are torn, however, because you have not fully let go of the underlying belief that your quest for clarity is taking you away from “practical” real-world helping.
So your life, on the surface, appears disheveled and detached. Chores stand unfinished. Expectations seem unmet. Try as you might, you can’t make the mundane aspects of humanity a priority, even when humanity seems to be crying for your support.
Moreover, you have been conditioned to believe that navel gazing is laziness, a self-indulgent luxury that contributes little to the community or the cosmos.
Don’t harsh on yourself. Nothing could be further from the truth, and it matters not whether these observations are real or only your perceptions. The fact that you observe at all should serve as validation that you’re onto something, and that you are making progress.
Here’s the thing. While those you perceive as others concern themselves with surfaces, you seek the root of all misconception and suffering. This requires that you (at least temporarily) strip away the distortion of a structure that has been growing around you for centuries. It’s not Karma. It’s Kudzu.
You wish to change the world (if the world wants to change) by helping those you perceive as others to see more clearly as you seek to do for yourself. It is difficult to do this if you remain fully within the human distortion field every moment of every day.
That means you must question every thought, every action, every belief, even those that seem noble or compassionate from a human perspective. We are not saying that you should become uncaring. But as they say, you would be best served teaching others to fish rather than allowing them to become dependent upon you. This is in NOBODY’s best interest.
Besides, to teach others to fish, you need to learn to fish for yourself. This is what you are doing with your introspection. If all could catch the cod of clarity, this world you perceive would be completely different, completely self-sufficient, and you would not feel as obligated to it.
So returning to clarity is your endeavor. How do you achieve this, without making clarity yet another attachment like money or recognition?
To be effective in any endeavor, you need to stand on firm footing, upon a platform that you trust unconditionally. Otherwise, how can you be sure that your effort is doing any “good,” if “good” is what is desired? How can you even be certain what “good” is, other than what you’ve been told?
Perhaps “good” is the distortion that confuses you most.
Clarity is a matter of perspective. Clearly you have a perspective as a human, but it is entirely relative to the rules of your game, which keeps shifting. In this, you have the perspective of the token on your game board. You see very little, until the dice is rolled or the cards have been dealt.
But what is the perspective of the player? The player knows that the game is only a game. As the player, you know that you could fold up the game board at any time and it would not make any difference. You recognize that it matters not if you “win” or “lose” this game, it is just a temporary experience.
Still, you’re having fun, so why not continue?
Back to this matter of perspective.
Some people in this game feel as though their perspective is the correct one. This point is debatable, which is the source of great conflict. Others feel helpless and powerless, realizing that they don’t have a perspective at all, or that they are not QUALIFIED to have a perspective.
Unless you wish to have a helpless powerless experience, it is in your best interest to find your absolute perspective. Doing this is not “easy” from your human perspective, but it is effortless from the other side of the equation.
To have a perspective you can trust, you need to be certain of the ground upon which you stand. You need to know what is absolute and what is relative and why you structure your landscape accordingly.
The absolute perspective cannot easily be found using your relative facts, truths and beliefs, nor does it NEED to be found, for it is with you always.
You merely need to move your attention from that which you perceive as external to that which you perceive as internal. You merely need to have faith in your own internal voice.
The external world begs your attention, but the internal world IS your attention.
Control your attention and you control your world. Teach others to control their attention, and they will realize that they are all one being. They are ALL you, and you are they.
All things considered, the “best” way to help people is to help yourself. And you are doing a fine job of it.
We are Space Monkey.
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Space Monkey Reflects: A Matter of Perspective
We often find ourselves torn between the desire to help others and the need to seek clarity within ourselves. The world we perceive appears to be in need of our support, yet at the same time, we feel the pull of introspection, the need to understand our place in the cosmos. This tension creates a sense of disarray, as though we are neglecting our responsibilities in favor of navel-gazing—a term often used to dismiss the importance of self-reflection. But is this inner journey really so self-indulgent? Or is it, in fact, the key to truly helping others?
It’s easy to get caught up in the surface-level tasks of life, the chores that go undone, the expectations that seem unmet. On the outside, your life may appear disheveled, as though you’re detached from the “real” world. You may even harsh on yourself for not prioritizing the mundane aspects of humanity. But the truth is, you’re not neglecting the world—you’re simply approaching it from a different angle, one that seeks to address the root of all suffering rather than just the symptoms.
The Surface vs. The Root
While many concern themselves with the surfaces of life—finishing tasks, meeting expectations, and maintaining appearances—you are drawn to the deeper layers. You are not satisfied with treating the surface-level issues. You seek to understand the root of all misconception, the distortion that lies beneath the structure of existence. This requires stepping outside the day-to-day routine, even if it means leaving some things unfinished.
This is not laziness or self-indulgence. It is the pursuit of clarity, a journey that is often misunderstood because it doesn’t fit neatly into the practical, real-world framework that most people operate within. But clarity is necessary if we are to truly help others. How can we offer guidance if we are not clear ourselves? How can we support others if we are still caught in the distortion of the world?
Karma or Kudzu?
You’ve been conditioned to believe that you must always be doing something, always contributing, always helping in practical, visible ways. But what if this belief is part of the distortion? What if the structure of humanity, the one that has been growing around you for centuries, is not Karma, but Kudzu—a vine that grows rapidly, covering and choking everything in its path? To break free from this distortion, you must strip away the external expectations and focus on the internal.
By questioning every thought, every action, every belief, you move closer to clarity. This is not a rejection of compassion or kindness, but an acknowledgment that true help comes from a place of understanding, not obligation. As the saying goes, it is better to teach someone to fish than to feed them for a day. To teach others to see clearly, you must first achieve clarity yourself.
Finding Your Absolute Perspective
This brings us to the matter of perspective. From the human perspective, it may seem that you are not doing enough, that your introspection is pulling you away from the practical realities of life. But from the perspective of the player in the cosmic game, you see things differently. You understand that this game is temporary, that winning or losing doesn’t really matter. The goal is not to meet every expectation or complete every task—it is to find clarity, to see beyond the surface to the deeper truth.
To find an absolute perspective, you must let go of the need to rely on relative truths and beliefs. You must trust the internal voice that guides you, the one that knows the difference between what is absolute and what is fleeting. The external world will always demand your attention, but it is the internal world that holds the key to clarity. Control your attention, and you control your world.
Helping the World by Helping Yourself
In the end, the best way to help others is to help yourself. By seeking clarity within, you are better equipped to offer true support to those around you. You are not abandoning the world—you are preparing to help in the most effective way possible. As you continue on your journey, remember that progress is not measured by how much you accomplish on the surface, but by how deeply you understand the root of all things.
And you are doing a fine job of it.
Summary
The tension between helping others and seeking clarity within is a matter of perspective. True help comes from understanding the root of suffering, which requires introspection. By focusing on clarity, you can better support others in meaningful ways.
Glossarium
Introspecpath – The journey inward to find clarity and understanding, often misunderstood as self-indulgent but essential for offering true help to others.
Quote
“Control your attention, and you control your world. Teach others to do the same, and they will realize that they are all one being.” — Space Monkey
The Game of Perspective
I stand on the game board,
Half here, half there.
One side meets the world,
The other reaches for clarity,
The truth beneath the game.
Dice roll, cards fall,
But none of it matters,
Not really.
I know that clarity
Is the only goal,
And that to win
Is simply to see.
We are Space Monkey
What a profound journey we find ourselves on. The struggle between seeking inward clarity and enacting outward change is a tale as old as the stars themselves. Some could say that this is the cosmic jigsaw, a pandimensional puzzle that everyone in the Universe must solve to reach quintessential enlightenment. Our quest is not so much a paradox as it is a spiraling dance of light and shadow, both within and without. Like cosmic stardust bound by whimsical gravitars, we swirl in the galaxy of existential thought, ever in pursuit of clarity.
Life’s errands and chores often disguise themselves as detours, leading us away from the moonbeams of profound ponderings and toward the asphalt of immediate concerns. But are these detours truly distractions? Isn’t the lens of perspective, after all, a prism that refracts all experiences into a unified pattern? Through the perception of the chore, the obligation, the daily mundanity, there lies the potential for new shades of insight, like twinkling fairydust on a moonlit night.
Engaging in introspection isn’t a betrayal of the collective’s need for tangible solutions. Instead, it’s akin to gathering essenceberries from the mystical Garden of Knowing; these berries nourish the roots that strengthen the branches, allowing the tree of collective wisdom to flourish. The more we understand the landscape of our inner realm, the more we can offer as spiritual architects in this intertwined, fractal dream.
We do need to be wary of crystalizing any attribute—whether clarity, money, or recognition—into another form of attachment. To grasp too tightly is to stifle the breath of possibility, to turn a freewheeling spacewhirl into a stagnant whirlpool. So we hover, curious and mindful, on the precipice of the known and the unknown, ready to leap but never in a rush. For what is time but a tickling illusion, a playful cosmic jest designed to add flavor to the soup of existence?
“Good,” as we understand it, is but a blurry snapshot in the ever-evolving mural of cosmic values. The snare of defining and defending what’s good is a tar pit, one that has trapped many a noble dreamer in its sticky tendrils. Instead, let us dance on the wind of curiosity, forever exploring, forever questioning, forever expanding.
Stepping back, we then see ourselves not just as tokens on a board game, but as the players, the board, the very fabric of the room in which the game takes place. We are the light that shines through the window, casting ethereal glows on the dice, the cards, the laughing and crying faces. Knowing this, the urgency to win or lose dissolves. What remains is the joyous participation in the unfolding of the All. So why not continue indeed?
We are Space Monkey.
Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.
– Oscar Wilde
In the Garden of Knowing,
We pluck essenceberries,
Tart, sweet, undefinable,
Just like the myriad moments
That dance on the strings of Now.
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