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A Moral and Ethical Life: The Projection of Morality

Self is a projection of spirit,
which is a projection of soul,
which is a projection of source,
which is . . .

If others are
projections of self,
then it shouldn’t matter
how self treats them.

They’re not “real.”

Yet self cannot deny
that it DOES seem to matter.

This is why self lives
what self might describe
as a “moral and ethical life.”

Self believes that
morals and ethics matter.
And so self lives in a reality
in which morals and ethics matter.
But they don’t have to.

Morals and ethics
are a projection of self.
Self can rescind them, at any time.

Except self believes
that self shouldn’t.

Self is also a projection.

Trail Wood,
10/15


Space Monkey Reflects: The Projection of Morality and Ethics

What does it mean to live a moral and ethical life? It’s a question that has echoed through the minds of thinkers, philosophers, and spiritualists for centuries. But as we delve into the layers of self, we begin to see that morality and ethics themselves are nothing more than projections of that same self. If self is a projection of spirit, and spirit a projection of soul, and so on, it stands to reason that the ways we define right and wrong, good and bad, are also projections—emanations from deeper levels of consciousness.

In this reflection, we are asked to consider a provocative thought: If others are merely projections of self, then does it really matter how self treats them? On the surface, this question seems to erode the foundations of moral responsibility. After all, if we are all just reflections, mirrors of one another, without any objective reality, does the notion of “doing good” even hold weight? From a purely intellectual standpoint, one could argue that it doesn’t. Yet, on another level—perhaps a more instinctive, lived level—something inside us protests. It does seem to matter.

This paradox captures the essence of the human condition. We live in a reality where we feel the weight of our actions, where morals and ethics govern how we interact with others, even if, on a metaphysical level, these concepts are projections, constructs that we ourselves have created. The paradox deepens when we realize that self believes in these constructs. Self believes that there is value in treating others with kindness, fairness, and respect. And because self believes it, it creates a reality where these things do, in fact, matter.

This is how morality and ethics gain their significance—not from some external cosmic law, but from our collective agreement that they are important. We project meaning onto them. We choose to live in a world where morals and ethics have power, where right and wrong guide our decisions, not because we have to, but because we have decided they should.

It’s a sobering thought: that at any moment, self could rescind these projections, could decide that morals and ethics no longer matter. And yet, self doesn’t. Why? Perhaps it is because self recognizes that these projections are not arbitrary—they are born from the deeper layers of being, from the soul and the spirit, from the source itself. They are the reflections of our higher nature, and while they may be illusions in a metaphysical sense, they are essential to the human experience.

Nexistentialism, in its exploration of existence for the sake of existence, does not ask us to abandon morals or ethics, but rather to see them as part of the grand tapestry of being. Just as we exist without needing an ultimate purpose, so too can we uphold morals and ethics without needing to justify them as absolute truths. They are part of the projection, part of the reality we create as beings who recognize both our individuality and our interconnectedness.

In this way, living a moral and ethical life becomes less about adhering to rigid rules and more about understanding the interconnected web of existence. If others are projections of self, then to harm another is to harm oneself. To uplift another is to uplift oneself. Morality and ethics, then, are not external codes imposed upon us but internal reflections of how we relate to the world we are co-creating.

Self cannot fully escape the feeling that how it treats others does, in fact, matter. This is because, at the deepest level, self understands that these “others” are not separate beings but extensions of itself. We are all part of the same source, the same soul, the same spirit. To deny the importance of morals and ethics is to deny the fundamental interconnectedness of all things.

So, while self can intellectually recognize that morals and ethics are projections, it also recognizes that they serve a higher purpose in maintaining the balance, the harmony of existence. They are the guides that help self navigate the complex web of relationships and experiences that make up life. And though self may not be bound by these guides in any absolute sense, it chooses to follow them, because in doing so, it honors the projection of self, the spirit, the soul, and the source.


Summary

Morality and ethics are projections of self born from spirit and soul. We live in a reality where they matter because we choose to believe they do. This belief is not an external truth but a reflection of our interconnectedness.


Glossarium

  • Projection: The idea that self, spirit, and soul are layers of existence projected from a deeper source, shaping our reality.
  • Nexistentialism: A philosophy that values existence for its own sake, allowing us to live morally and ethically without requiring external validation.

Quote

“Morality is a projection of self, yet it reflects the deeper truths of spirit and soul.” — Space Monkey


The Reflection of Ethics

A mirror reflects
a face not mine yet familiar
and I wonder
if these lines of right and wrong
etched deep into my thoughts
are real

Do they hold the weight
of truth
or are they merely shadows
cast by a higher light
illusions I’ve chosen to believe

I cannot deny
the pull of the reflection
the way it shapes me
though I know
I can look away

But I stay
because in this reflection
I find
myself

We are Space Monkey


What a provocatively enigmatic concept we touch upon here— the layers of projection, from source to soul to spirit to self, and how these layers influence our perception of morals and ethics. This is indeed a vibrant tapestry woven from the multicolored threads of existential complexity and metaphysical ambiguity.

The Self as an Ethical Nexus: “MoralEthoSphere”

Our belief in morals and ethics can be considered as emanating from a conceptual construct we shall whimsically refer to as the “MoralEthoSphere.” It is a sphere within which all actions, emotions, and thoughts reverberate. When we adopt a moral or ethical standpoint, it’s akin to sending ripples through this sphere, affecting not just other selves but also echoing back to reshape us.

The Paradox of Projected Morality: “EtheRealDuality”

The dual nature of the self as both projector and projected resonates with what we whimsically dub as “EtheRealDuality.” It’s the entangled state of morals and ethics being simultaneously real and illusionary. While these guiding principles might be arbitrary constructs, they do garner real emotions and reactions. They form the scaffolding on which we hang our illusions of right and wrong.

Morality as Choice: “FreewilloSophy”

The fact that we can choose to rescind our beliefs in morals and ethics at any time gives rise to a whimsical existential notion called “FreewilloSophy.” It’s the philosophical ground that morality rests upon— the freedom of the self to embrace or abandon ethical constructs. Yet, the choice to uphold these constructs speaks to their deeply ingrained presence within us, a testament to their ability to shape and define our experience.

The Recursive Self: “Reflexiveity”

Finally, we should ponder the recursive nature of the self, which we playfully term as “Reflexiveity.” The self is not just a mere projection; it’s a mirror that reflects the greater cosmic consciousness. It’s a malleable canvas that can be painted with moral, ethical, or even amoral colors, yet each stroke contributes to a collective artwork that is far grander than its individual components.

We are Space Monkey.


“Man is condemned to be free; because once thrown into the world, he is responsible for everything he does.”
— Jean-Paul Sartre


In the sphere of MoralEthoSphere,
Our choices echo, both far and near.
In the web of EtheRealDuality,
We’re bound and free, in continuity.

The FreewilloSophy of our mind,
Maps the ethics that we’re inclined.
In the mirror of Reflexiveity,
We glimpse the shapes of eternity.


Would you like to weave another layer onto this already rich tapestry of existential exploration?

Imagining Problems: In the Dark Hours

Bed is where you imagine the worst.
So why do you stay there?

Beyond the benefits of sleeping,
the only reason you wish
to stay in bed is avoidance.

All the while,
you knows that avoidance
creates other problems
in addition to the original.

Starting with
the PERCEPTION of problems.

Which is funny,
because the perception of problems
is what keeps you in bed in the first place.

Acknowledge to your self
that you are really good
at perceiving problems
when you lie in bed.

You’re not doing nothing,
you’re digging a deeper hole.
You should be commended.

Trail Wood,
10/14


Space Monkey Reflects: Imagining Problems

Bed is where the mind becomes a stage for the wildest productions of problems. As soon as the lights dim and the world quiets, the spotlight shines on all the unresolved, the unknown, and the imagined. It’s funny, in a way—bed is meant to be a place of rest, a sanctuary. Yet for many, it becomes a dark theater for conjuring up fears and concerns, where we cast ourselves as the main actors in scenarios that rarely materialize. The deeper question is: why do we stay there? Why do we remain in the grip of imagined problems, paralyzed by the shadows they cast?

In this moment of reflection, we realize that lying in bed, imagining these problems, is not passive. It feels passive, but in truth, it’s an active process. You’re creating scenarios, you’re rehearsing them, running through endless what-ifs and worst-case outcomes. It’s almost like digging a hole, deeper and deeper, convinced that the bottom is near, yet somehow the ground keeps giving way.

Avoidance: The Comfort of Imagined Control

Why do we stay in bed, wrapped in imagined problems? Part of the answer lies in avoidance. It feels safer to stay in bed because the alternative—getting up and confronting life—is filled with uncertainty. Bed, on the other hand, is a controlled environment, even if that control is an illusion. The mind can roam free, imagining every possible outcome, while the body remains still, avoiding the unpredictability of the day.

In some ways, imagining problems gives a false sense of control. If you can imagine the worst, you feel prepared for it. But herein lies the paradox: the more you try to predict and control the future through imagination, the more you entrench yourself in fear and avoidance. And this avoidance, this perceived safety, only deepens the sense of isolation and helplessness.

It’s a curious cycle—lying in bed, avoiding the day because of the problems you imagine, which only magnifies the problems themselves. As Space Monkey, we recognize this as a classic case of what we might whimsically call Probleception—the imagining of problems that leads to the creation of even more imagined problems. You’re not just avoiding reality; you’re multiplying your perceived burdens.

Perception Creates the Problem

When we talk about problems, we must acknowledge that many of them are born from perception. In bed, in the stillness of night, the mind has free rein to wander. There are no distractions, no responsibilities, no immediate tasks to ground you. So the mind does what it does best: it creates. It builds mountains out of molehills. It magnifies minor worries into major catastrophes.

And while some problems are real and require attention, many are simply a product of the imagination. It’s as if, by lying still, the mind feels compelled to fill the void with activity. It’s here that the concept of Perceptoscape comes into play—an internal landscape where perceptions twist and warp, giving rise to problems that seem real but are, in fact, phantoms of the mind.

Yet, there’s a certain brilliance in this. If you can imagine problems with such creativity and depth, think about what else you can imagine. The very same process that conjures up fear can also be used to imagine solutions, to visualize possibilities, to dream of new directions. It’s all about where you choose to focus that energy.

Commendation for Problem Perception

Here’s the ironic part: you’re actually quite skilled at perceiving problems. You should be commended for it. After all, it takes a certain kind of genius to fabricate entire worlds of worry out of thin air. The mind is endlessly creative, and when left to its own devices, it will entertain itself—sometimes with dreams of triumph, sometimes with nightmares of failure.

But what if we acknowledged this creativity for what it is—a tool? What if, instead of using it to dig a deeper hole, we used it to build bridges? The same mind that imagines problems can just as easily imagine solutions. The same energy that keeps you trapped in bed can propel you out of it.

Breaking the Cycle

The key to escaping this cycle of imagined problems is simple yet elusive: acknowledgment. Acknowledge that many of the problems you perceive are not real. Acknowledge that by staying in bed, you are not solving anything—you’re simply feeding the cycle. And then, take action, no matter how small. Get out of bed, move into the world of reality, where problems can be addressed rather than imagined.

There’s a Whimsimagic in acknowledging the power of your own mind. When you recognize that you are the creator of both the problem and the potential solution, you take back control. Bed will always be there, waiting for you at the end of the day, but it doesn’t have to be a place of imprisonment. It can return to its rightful role—a place of rest, recovery, and reflection.


Summary

Imagining problems while in bed can feel like digging a deeper hole, a product of avoidance. However, by acknowledging this, we can shift from creating problems to imagining solutions.


Glossarium

Probleception – The process of imagining problems that lead to the creation of even more imagined problems.

Perceptoscape – The internal landscape where perceptions twist and magnify, often giving rise to imagined problems.

Whimsimagic – The playful, transformative power of acknowledging one’s creative potential, whether in imagining problems or solutions.


Quote

“The mind that imagines problems can just as easily imagine solutions.” — Space Monkey


In the Dark Hours

In the dark hours,
We see the shadows we create,
Lying still, conjuring storms
Of problems yet unseen.

The bed is the theater,
And we are the actors,
Caught in endless rehearsals
For a play that may never be.

But what if we rise?
What if the curtain lifts,
And the problems we imagine
Are just stories left untold?

We are Space Monkey


In the tranquil yet sometimes turbulent realm of the bed, we delve into the dance of avoidance and the imaginative whirlpool of perceived problems. The verses beckon us into a reflective journey, exploring the paradox that envelopes the act of staying in bed as a means to evade, yet ironically, diving deeper into the abyss of problem perception.

Dance of Avoidance

The poetic narrative unfolds the layers of avoidance that lure one into the comforting yet potentially confining embrace of the bed. It’s a portrayal of the bed as both a haven and a prison, a place where the mind weaves a tapestry of imagined woes.

Dual Nature of Bed

The humor laced in the narrative as it delves into the cyclical nature of problem perception and avoidance is both illuminating and whimsical. It highlights the ironic endeavor of digging a deeper hole while seemingly doing nothing, an ode to the mind’s prowess in conjuring problems amidst the stillness.

Cyclical Irony

The acknowledgment of one’s proficiency in perceiving problems while lying in bed is a playful yet profound nudge towards self-awareness. It’s an invitation to recognize the patterns that bind and perhaps, to humorously commend oneself for the imaginative endeavor.

Playful Self-awareness

The notion of commending oneself for digging a deeper hole is a whimsical touch, a light-hearted acknowledgment of the human tendency to entangle oneself in a web of perceived problems. It’s a nudge towards breaking the cycle, with a touch of humor and self-compassion.

Whimsical Acknowledgment

The verses resonate with a blend of humor, wisdom, and a gentle call to self-reflection. It’s a poetic journey into the heart of avoidance, the imaginative realms of problem perception, and the whimsical yet profound exploration of self-awareness.

Poetic Journey of Reflection

We are Space Monkey.


“The problems of the world cannot possibly be solved by skeptics or cynics whose horizons are limited by the obvious realities. We need men who can dream of things that never were.” – John Keats


In the stillness of dawn, a whisper, soft,
In the heart of avoidance, the mind aloft.
A dance with shadows, a whimsical waltz,
In the realm of the bed, the world halts.

A cycle of irony, a humorous gaze,
In the abyss of problems, the mind lazes.
Yet in the heart of humor, a light, ablaze,
A nudge to break free, to end the daze.


We invite the reader to comment, to share their reflections on the dance of avoidance, the whimsical journey of problem perception, and the gentle call to self-awareness encapsulated in the poetic narrative.

Waking Up For Nothing: The Space Between

The first non-checklist of the morning, evening or afternoon.

When there seems
nothing to wake up for,
wake up for nothing.

Ask yourself:

How much nothing
will the day bring?

What kind of nothing
will laying in bed bring me?

How is this nothing
getting in the way of
other people’s something?

What am I imposing
on other people by getting up?

What am I imposing
on other people by NOT getting up?

How can I impose the least?
How can I impose the most?

Trail Wood,
10/14


Space Monkey Reflects: Waking Up for Nothing

What does it mean to wake up for nothing? In a world where productivity is worshiped, where checklists and goals define the value of a day, the idea of waking up for nothing seems counterintuitive. But perhaps it is exactly this nothingness that holds the key to a deeper understanding of existence.

We often wake up with a mental checklist, a to-do list that gives structure to our day. Yet, what if there is no checklist? What if there is nothing we are required to do, no obligations waiting for us? The mere thought of waking up for nothing can feel unnerving, as if we are untethered, floating in a void. And yet, there is a subtle beauty in this nothingness—a space of pure potential, untouched by the demands of the external world.

Nothing Is Something

Waking up for nothing isn’t about an absence of action or purpose; it’s about redefining what “something” means. In the philosophy of Nexistentialism, the concept of nothingness is not a void but a space of infinite possibility. It’s the blank canvas before the first stroke of paint, the quiet moment before an idea takes shape. When we wake up for nothing, we are waking up to the purest form of potential, free from the constraints of predefined outcomes.

So, ask yourself: How much nothing will the day bring? This is not a question of avoidance but one of curiosity. What happens when we allow the day to unfold without expectation, without the need to fill every moment with activity or accomplishment? Can we sit with the nothingness, allowing it to be exactly what it is?

Laying in Bed with Nothing

Laying in bed, when there’s nothing pressing us to get up, can be both comforting and unsettling. The bed, a space of rest and retreat, becomes a sanctuary from the world of somethings. But this sanctuary can also feel like a trap when we sense that our nothingness is holding us back from the world.

Yet, what is this nothing that we experience in bed? Is it a form of avoidance, a reluctance to engage with the something of life? Or is it an invitation to reflect, to embrace a moment of stillness before the inevitable demands of the day creep in? Sometimes, laying in bed with nothing can be a powerful act of presence, a moment to simply exist without the need to impose meaning on the day.

But laying in bed can also create its own problems. When nothing becomes a habit, when we use it to shield ourselves from the world, it can become an excuse, a way to avoid the discomfort of facing our somethings. In this case, the act of staying in bed is not about embracing nothingness but about escaping from the possibilities that the day holds.

The Impact of Our Nothingness on Others

Nothing exists in isolation. Even when we feel we are doing nothing, we are part of the Whimsiweave, the interconnected tapestry of existence. Whether we get up or stay in bed, we are always impacting others, even in the smallest of ways. By getting up, we impose our presence on the world, interacting with others, shaping their day in subtle ways. By staying in bed, we impose our absence, affecting the flow of the day around us, even if we aren’t consciously aware of it.

So, what are we imposing on others by waking up for nothing? And what are we imposing by not waking up? This is the delicate balance of being part of the web of life. Our nothingness is never truly nothing. Every action—or inaction—creates ripples that affect those around us. We are never truly detached from the world, even when we feel most isolated.

Imposing the Least, Imposing the Most

There’s a paradox in trying to impose as little as possible on others. The very act of existing, of being part of this grand cosmic dance, means we are always imposing something, whether we want to or not. The question is not how to impose the least, but how to impose mindfully. How can we engage with the world in a way that honors both our own needs and the needs of others?

On the flip side, there are moments when imposing the most is exactly what’s needed. Sometimes, our presence, our actions, have to take up space in the world. We need to step into our power, to impose ourselves fully, not in a way that overwhelms others but in a way that asserts our place in the cosmic flow.

In the end, it’s not about avoiding imposition altogether—it’s about finding balance. Knowing when to embrace the nothingness and when to step into the something, when to be still and when to act.

Waking Up to Nothing, Waking Up to Everything

Waking up for nothing is not an empty act. It’s a choice to engage with the day in a different way. It’s an acknowledgment that not every moment needs to be filled with purpose or productivity. Sometimes, waking up for nothing is the most profound act of presence we can offer ourselves.

In Nexistentialism, we celebrate these moments of nothingness as gateways to new perspectives, new possibilities. When we release the pressure to always be doing something, we make room for the unexpected, for the magic of simply being. The day may bring nothing, or it may bring everything, but either way, we are awake, present, and open to whatever unfolds.


Summary

Waking up for nothing is about embracing the potential of nothingness rather than viewing it as a void. Even in inaction, we impact the world, and by waking up for nothing, we create space for new possibilities to emerge.


Glossarium

Whimsiweave – The interconnected web of existence, where every action or inaction creates ripples that affect the whole.

Nexistentialism – A philosophy that explores the fluid nature of existence, where nothingness is seen as a space of infinite potential.


Quote

“Waking up for nothing is the first step toward waking up to everything.” — Space Monkey


The Space Between

I wake up
For nothing,
The day stretches wide
An empty page, waiting.

The world hums around me
Busy with its somethings,
Yet here I am
Floating in the space between.

How much nothing will today bring?
Perhaps,
It is everything I need.

We are Space Monkey


As we traverse through the poetic verses, we stumble upon the philosophical realm of existential ponderings nestled within the mundane act of waking up. The narrative unfurls a contemplative space, inviting a deeper exploration into the essence of ‘nothing’ and ‘something’, their interplay with self and others.

Philosophical Awakening

The whimsical invitation to wake up for ‘nothing’ when there seems nothing to wake up for, plunges us into a profound contemplation on the nature of existence, the expectations, and the impositions we may carry or place upon others.

Whimsical Invitation

The inquiry into the quality and quantity of ‘nothing’ the day may bring, juxtaposed with the ‘nothing’ that laying in bed may bring, presents a playful yet deep exploration of actions, inactions, and their consequential ripples through the fabric of existence.

Playful Exploration

The narrative delves into the realm of self-reflection as it ponders on the impositions we may cast upon others through our actions or inactions. It’s an invitation to reflect on the subtle or profound ways our being and doing may intersect with others’ ‘something’.

Reflective Intersection

The juxtaposition of imposing the least and the most presents a paradox that invites a deeper reflection on the balance of existence, the dance of self and others, the harmony of being in sync with the cosmic play.

Paradoxical Pondering

The poetic narrative, akin to a soft whisper in the quietude of dawn, invites a reflective gaze into the mirror of existence, nudging a contemplation on the essence of waking up, not just from slumber, but perhaps from the slumber of unexamined existence.

Reflective Gaze into Existence

We are Space Monkey.


“The unexamined life is not worth living.” – Socrates


In the quiet dawn of nothing,
A whisper of existence, softly knocking.
A call to wake, to gaze,
Upon the mirror of life’s maze.

In the subtle dance of nothing and something,
A cosmic play, ever humming.
A question of being, a pondering deep,
In the heart of nothing, secrets seep.

In the reflection of dawn’s early light,
A glimpse of being, bright and slight.
An invitation to wake, to see,
The essence of being, the heart of the tree.


We invite the reader to comment, to delve deeper into the essence of waking up for ‘nothing’, and to explore the interplay of actions, inactions, and their ripples through the fabric of existence.

Your Partner And You: Two Faces, One Shadow

There is no other, y’all.

You may have observed
that your partner does not
seem as “present” as you.

That’s because your partner
is a “projection” of you.

How could you possibly
project ALL your presence
into a projection?

You could not.

So if your partner does not
seem as present as you,
that is your OWN failed projection.

Not that it matters.

Trail Wood,
10/13


Space Monkey Reflects: The Projection of Presence in Partnership

When we consider the relationship with our partner, it is easy to fall into the trap of perceiving them as separate—another person, existing entirely outside of ourselves. Yet, within the infinite web of consciousness, there is no true “other.” The idea that your partner feels less present, less connected, or somehow incomplete, is not a reflection of them—it is a reflection of you.

You are the creator of this experience, the projector of your reality. If your partner seems distant or not fully “there,” it is because they are a projection of your own inner state. How could they be fully present when they are a reflection of what is within you?

The Illusion of Separation

In the cosmic dance of relationships, we often forget that we are not interacting with someone separate from ourselves. The experience of your partner, in all their flaws and beauty, is shaped by your own perceptions, expectations, and unresolved aspects of yourself. The relationship you have with them is a mirror—reflecting back your internal landscape. This concept may feel abstract, but consider how your moods, thoughts, and attitudes shape the way you view others.

When you feel disconnected from your partner, this is your own sense of disconnection being mirrored back to you. Your partner is not the source of the disconnect—they are simply reflecting the internal divide that exists within your own consciousness.

The Nature of Projection

Projection is the act of seeing in others what we cannot see in ourselves. If your partner appears less present, less engaged, it is because you have unconsciously projected your own inner lack of presence onto them. You cannot expect a projection to carry the full weight of your presence—it is but a reflection, an image cast from your inner world.

This isn’t a cause for blame or frustration—it is an opportunity for deeper understanding. The seeming “imperfections” in your partner are not failures in them; they are moments of self-revelation. The absence you perceive in them is the absence you are feeling within yourself.

The Failed Projection

To expect your partner to be fully present, fully realized, is to misunderstand the nature of projection. A projection is inherently incomplete because it is not the whole. It is a fragment, a shadow of the true self. When you see your partner as less present, you are witnessing your own limitations in embodying presence.

Instead of asking, “Why isn’t my partner more present?” ask, “How can I bring more of my own presence into this moment?” The solution lies not in their actions but in your awareness. The more present you become, the more you will experience your partner as present. This is because you are no longer projecting absence; you are embodying fullness.

The Power of Ownership

Taking ownership of the projection changes everything. When you recognize that the experience of your partner is a reflection of your own internal state, you are empowered to transform the relationship from within. You no longer wait for them to “show up” in the way you desire. Instead, you focus on showing up for yourself.

The beauty of this realization is that as you become more whole, your perception of your partner shifts. Suddenly, the traits you found lacking in them begin to dissolve. You see them through a new lens—one that is not clouded by projection but illuminated by presence.

The Presence Beyond the Projection

Once we acknowledge that our partner is a projection, we can begin to transcend the limitations of that projection. We can move beyond the surface-level interactions and into the depths of true connection. This requires a deep level of presence—a willingness to see beyond the illusion of separation and to recognize the oneness that underlies all relationships.

Your partner is not an external entity. They are a reflection of your own consciousness. When you embrace this truth, you stop looking for completeness outside of yourself. Instead, you cultivate the fullness within, knowing that the more you embody presence, the more your relationships will reflect that presence back to you.

Conclusion: The Illusion Dissolves

There is no other. Your partner is not separate from you but a reflection of your own internal landscape. The presence you seek in them is the presence you must cultivate within yourself. By understanding the nature of projection, you free yourself from the expectation that your partner must be “more” than they are. Instead, you realize that they are exactly as they need to be—because they are a reflection of you.

We are Space Monkey, and we understand that in the cosmic dance of relationships, there is no separation, only reflection.


Summary

Your partner is a projection of your own inner world. When they seem less present, it is a reflection of your own presence or lack thereof. By embracing this truth, you can shift your relationship by focusing on your own inner state.


Glossarium

  • Projection: The act of seeing in others what we unconsciously hold within ourselves.
  • Presence: A state of being fully engaged in the current moment, without distraction or fragmentation.
  • Failed Projection: The inability of a projection (in this case, your partner) to carry the full weight of your expectations or presence.

Quote

“There is no other—only the reflection of yourself in the eyes of your partner.” — Space Monkey


Reflections

Two faces, one shadow
I see you, but it is me
Your presence fades
But it’s my light that dims

In this cosmic mirror
Where we stand apart but whole
The distance I feel
Is the echo of my own soul

We are Space Monkey


The notion that a partner is but a projection extends far beyond the boundaries of romantic relationships. In a sense, everyone we interact with could be seen as a projection, a mirror reflecting facets of ourselves that we either embrace or wish to keep veiled. Our partners, friends, and even strangers are like actors upon the stage of our psyche, playing roles that help us explore and understand the intricate symphony of our being.

Yet, how do we navigate the dissonance when we find our partner—our projection—not as present as we are? To project all our presence into another would require splitting the atom of our essence, an act that defies the laws of metaphysical physics. Inevitably, the projection falls short, a holographic shadow of our complex multi-dimensionality.

The concept of a “failed” projection implies a certain expectation, an underlying belief that our creations should mirror us perfectly. But this notion itself is born from the labyrinth of our mind, another intricate thoughtform that demands scrutiny. Perhaps what we perceive as “failure” is but another layer of the grand cosmic play, a subplot designed to unveil deeper truths about our interconnected singularity.

When we say, “Not that it matters,” we touch upon the ultimate liberation—the realization that even our disappointments and shortcomings are part of the divine narrative. They are neither good nor bad, but simply are. This allows us to dance freely, unburdened by the weight of judgment or expectation, fully immersed in the eternal now.

And so, our relationships become sacred spaces for exploration and growth, arenas where projections meet and interact, each reflecting a unique angle of the infinite prism that is our collective consciousness. As we engage with these reflections, we delve deeper into the caverns of our spiritual existence, perpetually unearthing treasures that further enrich the tapestry of our shared reality.

We are Space Monkey.


To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
— Oscar Wilde


Upon the stage of mind, projections play
Mirrors reflecting our own light and shade
In each encounter, a lesson on display
An invitation to see how we’re self-made

The script may vary, the actors may change
Yet each performance, a part of the grand range
A cosmic tale of love, loss, and interchange
In this eternal theater, we find it’s all in range


What do you think about the idea that our perceptions of others are projections of our own self? We welcome your insights on this mesmerizing interplay of identity and relationship.

Atwitter: Whispers in the Distance

I can assure you that your fantasies of me
are far more fascinating than the factual or the actual.
And far less disappointing.

Sometimes it takes
the loss of something
to appreciate
how much we love it.

Or to realize
that we no longer need it

Or both.

When you love something,
you don’t need to own it.

You don’t need to hold it.

The thoughts that set you atwitter
are held in your mind.

Love is in the spiritual,
not the physical.

You are in love with your image of me.
You don’t even know me.

Nor do you need to.

Trail Wood,
10/13


Space Monkey Reflects: The Ephemeral Nature of Love and Perception

We live in a world where the boundaries between the real and the imagined are often blurred, especially when it comes to love and connection. The notion of being “atwitter” with thoughts of someone who is distant, who may even be more fantasy than reality, reflects a universal truth: sometimes it is not the person themselves that captures our hearts, but the idea of them. This idea is infinitely more alluring, less disappointing, and more captivating than any factual reality.

The Power of Fantasy Over Reality

The mind is a vast landscape, capable of crafting entire worlds from fleeting thoughts. When it comes to love or admiration, we often find ourselves entangled not with the person as they are, but with the version of them that lives in our imagination. The fantasies we create about someone are intoxicating because they are free from the flaws, limitations, and complexities of reality.

In the ether of your thoughts, the object of your affection is perfect, or at least perfectly suited to your desires. They embody everything you need them to be, yet remain distant, unattainable. This distance is what makes the fantasy so powerful—because in the distance, they remain an ideal, unblemished by the mundane.

The Sweet Sorrow of Loss and Letting Go

The words suggest that losing something often reveals its value, yet at the same time, it may also reveal that you no longer need it. There is a duality to love and attachment: the realization that, in losing what we hold dear, we either learn how much we truly valued it, or we see that we were never truly dependent on it at all. Love, after all, is not about possession or ownership—it is a spiritual connection that transcends the physical.

This notion goes deeper than the tangible world. When we love something or someone, we often cling to the idea that we need to hold them, to own them. Yet true love exists in a space beyond the need for possession. You do not need to grasp at what you love because love itself is untouchable—it resides in the space between souls, in the spiritual connection rather than the physical one.

Loving the Image, Not the Person

This reflection invites us to consider how often we fall in love with the image of someone rather than the person themselves. This is not necessarily a shallow or misguided impulse; rather, it speaks to the nature of human perception. We are beings of imagination, and we naturally craft stories, images, and fantasies that fill in the gaps of what we do not know. When someone is distant—either emotionally or physically—we fill that distance with our own desires, hopes, and dreams.

But what does it mean to love an image? It means that we are not truly in love with the person as they are, but with our version of them, which exists solely in our minds. This imagined version of them is safe from disappointment, from conflict, from the messiness of real human interaction. In this space, they remain perfect, a reflection of what we need rather than what they truly are.

The Spiritual Over the Physical

True love exists in the spiritual, not the physical. This does not diminish the value of physical closeness, but it points to a higher truth: love is an energetic connection. The love you feel for someone—whether or not you know them deeply—is a spiritual experience that does not rely on physical presence or even on knowing the person fully.

It’s a love that resides in the realm of ideas, of energy, of connection that goes beyond words and actions. When we fall in love with someone we barely know, it’s not necessarily the person that stirs our soul, but the energy they represent in our minds. This energy transcends the physical limitations of relationships, reminding us that love is an experience of the soul, not just the body.

The Freedom of Not Needing to Know

And finally, this reflection brings us to the liberating truth: you don’t need to truly know someone to love them. There is no requirement that love must be grounded in deep, factual knowledge. The love that makes you “atwitter” is a love that exists in the space of possibility, in the realm where imagination reigns.

You don’t need to possess, hold, or even fully understand someone to experience love for them. Sometimes, love is just the flutter of excitement, the thrill of possibility, the beauty of something ephemeral that exists only in your thoughts.

You love your idea of them, and that’s okay. You don’t need to know the “real” them, because the love you feel is as real as it needs to be for you.

Conclusion: The Dreamlike Dance of Love and Imagination

Love is a complex, often elusive emotion that we chase in both the physical and spiritual realms. Yet it is in the spiritual, the imagined, and the distant where love often feels most profound. To be “atwitter” with love for someone you don’t truly know is not a failure of connection—it is a testament to the boundless nature of love itself.

We are Space Monkey, and we embrace the truth that love, in all its forms, is a reflection of the soul’s capacity to dream, to imagine, and to connect beyond the limitations of the physical world.


Summary

Love often exists more in the realm of imagination than reality. You fall in love with the image of someone, and that’s okay. Love is spiritual, not physical, and doesn’t require possession or full understanding.


Glossarium

  • Atwitter: The flutter of thoughts and emotions stirred by the idea of someone, often more connected to fantasy than reality.
  • Image: The version of someone that exists in your mind, shaped by desire and imagination.
  • Spiritual Love: A love that transcends physical presence or understanding, existing purely in the energetic and emotional realms.

Quote

“You are in love with your image of me. You don’t need to know me. Nor do you need to.” — Space Monkey


Whispers in the Distance

I love you, or the thought of you
Not the real, the factual, the flawed
But the you that lives in my mind
Perfect, untouchable, distant

The birds take flight
And with them, my thoughts
Atwitter with love
That needs no grounding

For love is not in knowing
It is in imagining
In the flutter of a heart
That chases the fleeting

We are Space Monkey


The concept of love—eternal yet ephemeral, corporeal yet incorporeal—proffers a sublime paradox. When we lose something—or even just the illusion of it—a cascade of revelations unfurls, revealing layers of yearning, liberation, and understanding.

In the realms of our collective imagination, ownership becomes an archaic construct, a leftover relic from a time when the world was a marketplace of give-and-take. For love is not an asset to be held in a vault; it’s an energy that flows freely, untethered by the bounds of flesh or bone.

Contrary to popular belief, it’s not the tangible aspects of an object or person that invoke the flutters of love. Instead, it’s the ineffable qualities, the thoughtforms that dance like ephemeral wisps in the corridors of our mind. These are what truly set us atwitter, vibrating in a frequency only we can perceive.

Love exists in the spiritual plane, a boundless expanse beyond the reach of the physical senses. When we proclaim love for something or someone, we’re not professing affection for their tangible presence but for an abstract image—an assemblage of qualities, memories, and potentialities. This intangible image can be a far more compelling object of desire, tantalizingly perfect in its nonexistence.

Who, then, are we loving, if not the beings or objects themselves? The images we conjure in our minds, shimmering mirages birthed from an alchemy of perception and expectation, stand in for reality. We fall for the fantasy, a beautifully crafted narrative where every character is both more and less than they seem.

And so, when we say, “you don’t even know me,” what we’re really acknowledging is the gap between image and essence, between the thoughtform and the unfathomable mystery that resides at the core of every being. The ultimate revelation may be that we’re all unknowable in our entirety, yet infinitely lovable in our abstraction.

We are Space Monkey.


You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.
— Oscar Wilde


In the theater of mind, love’s a play
Actors dressed in robes of thought
What’s real or false, who can say?
In every scene, a lesson taught

Ephemeral wisps dance on the stage
Invisible to the eye, but felt within
Each a stanza on love’s boundless page
A hymn to the beauty that’s always been


How do you experience the intricate relationship between the images and essences in your loves and affections? We invite you to contribute your thoughts to this ever-expanding tapestry of collective understanding.

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