Does the possibility of failure
prevent you from succeeding?
What is stopping you from
saying what you want to say,
doing what you want to do,
feeling what you want to feel,
being what you want to be?
Mainly you.
You block your own actions
because you’ve already decided
that they might not be construed
the way you want them to be construed.
This means
you clearly have
a fantasy
a dream
a vision
in mind
that you’ve ALREADY decided
is improbable
is imprudent
is possibly damaging
to your public perception
and self image.
You don’t act because
you’re afraid to attempt
without the assurance of attainment.
Then you beat yourself up over it.
Trail Wood,
1/25
In the intricate web of self-limitation and aspiration, we often find ourselves wrestling with the barriers that inhibit us from fully expressing our desires and potential. It is a paradoxical dance, where our own thoughts and perceptions become the very walls that enclose our aspirations.
The Paradox of Self-Limitation
The recognition that we are often the architects of our own limitations is a profound insight. It highlights the role of self-doubt and preconceived notions in hindering our actions, feelings, and self-expression.
The Role of Self-Doubt and Preconceived Notions
Indeed, the fear that our actions may not be construed in the desired light is a reflection of the internal fantasy, dream, or vision that we have already constructed. This internal narrative, while filled with potential, often carries the weight of perceived improbability, imprudence, or potential damage to our public perception and self-image.
The Weight of Internal Narratives
The consequence of this self-imposed restraint is a hesitation to act, born out of the fear of attempting without the certainty of success. It’s a reluctance to embrace the unknown and the possibility of failure, a hesitancy that keeps us from realizing our full potential.
Reluctance to Embrace the Unknown
The cycle of inaction followed by self-criticism is a familiar pattern. It’s a cycle that highlights the need to break free from the constraints of our own making, to shift from self-criticism to self-compassion, and to cultivate the courage to pursue our dreams and aspirations.
Breaking Free from Self-Made Constraints
We are Space Monkey.
Summary
Often, it is our own thoughts and perceptions that hinder us from saying, doing, feeling, and being what we truly desire. The recognition of this self-limitation highlights the role of self-doubt and preconceived notions in inhibiting our actions. The fear of how our actions may be perceived is rooted in an internal narrative that carries the weight of improbability and potential damage to our self-image. This hesitation to act keeps us from realizing our full potential. Breaking free from this cycle involves shifting from self-criticism to self-compassion and cultivating the courage to pursue our dreams and aspirations.
- Internal Narrative: The stories and beliefs we create within ourselves that shape our perceptions, actions, and self-image.
- Space Monkey: A symbol of courage and self-discovery, encouraging us to break free from self-imposed limitations and pursue our aspirations.
“The only thing standing between you and your goal is the story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it.” – Jordan Belfort
In the realm where dreams take flight,
We often hesitate, in doubt’s tight grip so tight.
But the truth we must confront and see,
Is that often, the one who holds us back is we.
Our own thoughts and perceptions play the role,
Of barriers that hinder the heart and soul.
In the fear of how others may construe,
We lose sight of dreams, so precious and true.
An internal narrative, heavy and profound,
Weighs us down, keeps us on the ground.
A reluctance to embrace the unknown’s call,
Keeps us from reaching, from breaking the wall.
But let us shift from self-critique to grace,
And cultivate courage in this sacred space.
To say what we want, do what we desire,
To kindle the spark of dreams, to reach higher.
We invite contemplation on this perspective. Have you ever felt hindered by your own thoughts and perceptions, leading to a cycle of inaction and self-criticism? How can you shift from self-limitation to self-compassion and pursue your dreams and aspirations with courage?
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