Here’s the thing.
You’re not that special.
Here’s the other thing.
You don’t HAVE to be.
Expecting to be special
or treated like you’re special
is the root of all
your so-called “problems.”
In wanting to be special,
you are trying to make your self
different from other selves.
Which, of course, it isn’t.
You are trying to set you apart.
Which, of course, you don’t HAVE to.
There is only ONE being — and it is YOU.
And BILLIONS and TRILLIONS
of imaginary selves, who are ALSO you.
Isn’t that special?
Trail Wood,
5/21
Space Monkey Reflects: The Illusion of Specialness and the Unity of Existence
In a universe brimming with life and complexity, the notion of being special—distinctively separate or above others—is a captivating yet misleading concept. “A special delivery from your Space Monkey. Here’s the thing. You’re not that special.” This blunt revelation isn’t a dismissal but an invitation to embrace a more profound truth about our interconnectedness and essential sameness.
The pursuit of specialness often leads individuals to feel isolated or superior, fostering division rather than unity. “Expecting to be special or treated like you’re special is the root of all your so-called ‘problems.'” This insight challenges us to reflect on how our desires to stand out or be recognized contribute to feelings of dissatisfaction and separation.
The statement “There is only ONE being — and it is YOU. And BILLIONS and TRILLIONS of imaginary selves, who are ALSO you.” captures the essence of non-duality. It suggests that every individual expression, every ‘self’ we encounter, is fundamentally a reflection or an aspect of a singular, universal consciousness. This perspective invites us to view each person not as fundamentally other, but as another version of ourselves—diverse expressions of the same underlying reality.
The whimsical image of a diverse group of people holding a glowing orb in unity beautifully illustrates this concept. It symbolizes the light of shared essence that binds all individuals, despite apparent differences. This metaphor serves as a powerful reminder of our shared human journey and the intrinsic connection that underlies all distinctions.
Embracing this view of non-specialness doesn’t diminish one’s value but rather enhances it by aligning with a more inclusive, compassionate understanding of humanity. It encourages a shift from ego-driven desires for recognition and separation toward a more holistic appreciation of our role within the greater whole.
In recognizing that our individuality is not a barrier but a bridge, we can transform our interactions and our perceptions of the world. By seeing the ‘other’ as an extension of ourselves, we foster empathy, understanding, and a deeper engagement with the world that celebrates unity in diversity.
Summary
The concept of specialness fosters separation, but recognizing our fundamental unity underlies true connection and empathy. We are not special in isolation but special in our universal interconnectedness.
Glossarium
Non-Duality: The philosophical and spiritual concept that reality is fundamentally undivided and indivisible, contrary to the apparent distinctions and separations in the world.
Universal Consciousness: The idea that all forms of consciousness are interconnected and part of a singular, all-encompassing awareness.
“In the light of unity, all are reflections of the same truth, each a unique note in the symphony of existence.” — Space Monkey
Within the circle of light, hands unite
Holding the orb where all is bright
Each face distinct, yet all the same
In the dance of life, a singular game
No one special, yet everyone key
To the puzzle of what it means to be
In this shared light, we find our place
Connected, entwined, in the cosmic embrace
So let go of the need to stand apart
For special is found in the universal heart
In the union of all, we truly see
The beauty of oneness, the joy of being free
We are Space Monkey.
The poem “Special Delivery” offers a perspective on the concept of individuality and the desire to be perceived as special. It challenges the notion that one needs to be unique or set apart from others in order to find fulfillment or happiness.
The poem begins by asserting that the reader is not inherently special, and it suggests that the expectation of being treated as such can lead to self-perceived problems. It questions the need to differentiate oneself from others and highlights the commonality shared by all beings.
By emphasizing that there is only one being (the reader) and billions or trillions of imaginary selves that are also part of that being, the poem implies that the desire for specialness is illusory. It suggests that recognizing the interconnectedness of all beings can bring a sense of wonder and appreciation for the multiplicity of existence.
The poem challenges the ego-driven notion of specialness and invites the reader to embrace the idea that their true essence is not separate or distinct from others. It encourages a shift in perspective towards unity and interconnectedness.
In its concise and straightforward style, “Special Delivery” delivers a message that prompts introspection and challenges the pursuit of individual exceptionalism. It offers a perspective that encourages humility, acceptance, and a deeper understanding of the nature of identity and interconnectedness.