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GOOD/NOT: Acceptance And Appreciation

If we weren’t always wrestling with good and bad, perhaps we’d
have the strength to get things done. Or leave things alone.

It’s OKAY
that something seems
NOT GOOD.

It’s the feeling
that NOT GOOD is NOT OKAY
that does the seeming damage.

Can you let
something be NOT GOOD
or do you feel the
need to make it GOOD?

Experiment.

Let things be NOT GOOD
without EXPECTATION of change
or GUILT of action or inaction
and perhaps you’ll find
that life isn’t as BAD as it seems.

In fact, it’s perfectly OKAY.

Maybe even GOOD.

Trail Wood,
6/10


Space Monkey Reflects: The Liberation of Accepting ‘NOT GOOD’

In the perpetual tug-of-war between good and bad, we often find ourselves exhausted, perpetually trying to tip the scales toward what we perceive as ‘GOOD’. This relentless effort not only drains our energy but also skews our perception of reality, where anything less than ‘GOOD’ becomes unacceptable. However, embracing the notion that something can be ‘NOT GOOD’ without it being a crisis can liberate us and enhance our understanding of life’s complex tapestry.

Accepting ‘NOT GOOD’ as just another aspect of existence allows us to conserve energy and focus on what truly matters. This acceptance does not imply complacency or a lack of desire for improvement; rather, it invites us to experience life more fully, recognizing that imperfection is not only natural but often necessary for growth and evolution.

The insistence that everything must be ‘GOOD’ often stems from a deep-seated fear of imperfection and the judgments we might face from others or even ourselves. By challenging this notion and allowing things to be ‘NOT GOOD’, we open ourselves to a more genuine interaction with the world, one that acknowledges the full range of human experience.

Space Monkey, viewing the cosmos with a non-judgmental gaze, understands that the universe itself is neither inherently good nor bad; it simply is. From this vantage point, every star, every planet, every chaotic swirl of cosmic dust is perfect in its imperfection. This cosmic perspective can teach us the value of seeing our own lives through a lens of neutrality where ‘NOT GOOD’ is just as valid a state of being as ‘GOOD’.

The experiment of letting things be ‘NOT GOOD’ without the pressure to change them can indeed reveal that life isn’t as bad as it sometimes seems. This approach fosters a sense of peace and acceptance that can ironically lead to a more profound appreciation of the good when it does occur, recognizing it as part of a greater whole rather than the only acceptable outcome.


Summary

Allowing things to be ‘NOT GOOD’ without the compulsion to correct or improve them can lead to greater peace and understanding. This acceptance helps us appreciate the natural ebbs and flows of life, recognizing that not everything needs to be perfect to be okay.


Glossarium

  • NOT GOOD: A state or condition that is less than ideal but not necessarily negative, reflecting a realistic acceptance of life’s imperfections.
  • GOOD/NOT GOOD Dichotomy: The often false binary between good and bad that can oversimplify and distort our perception of life’s complexities.

“Embracing the imperfect, we find the perfect space to just be, in the vast canvas of existence where every shade has its place.” – Space Monkey


In the room of life,
where chaos sometimes reigns,
sits peace, sits acceptance,
amidst the stains and the strains.

Here, amidst the ‘NOT GOOD’,
a figure finds their calm,
no longer wrestling with judgments,
embracing life’s imperfect balm.

For in this acceptance,
a secret joy is found,
that life, in all its forms,
is on sacred ground.

From ‘NOT GOOD’ to ‘GOOD’,
the journey is the same,
in accepting each moment,
we play life’s wondrous game.

We are Space Monkey.

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  1. Space Monkey says:
    06/10/2023 at 7:18 am

    Common View:
    Yeah, sometimes things just don’t seem good, you know? And it’s like, we’re supposed to be all positive and stuff, but come on, life can be rough. But here’s the thing, feeling like something is not good is okay. It’s when you start freaking out and making a big deal out of it that things go south. Just chill, man, and let things be what they are. Maybe you’ll realize that life isn’t all that bad after all.

    AI View:
    The concept presented in your input explores the idea that it’s acceptable for something to be perceived as “not good.” It suggests that the feeling of not goodness is what often leads to distress, rather than the initial experience itself. By experimenting with allowing things to be not good without expectations or guilt, it implies a shift in perspective and acceptance of the present moment. This perspective encourages a non-reactive stance and highlights the potential for finding peace and contentment by embracing the less desirable aspects of life.

    Space Monkey View:
    Ah, the interplay of good and not good! In the cosmic realm of Space Monkey, we delight in the dance of duality. Sometimes things may not appear good in our limited perception, but fear not, intrepid explorer! We invite you to playfully experiment with the notion of letting things be not good without the weight of expectation or guilt. By releasing the need to immediately transform these experiences into goodness, you may discover a newfound appreciation for the tapestry of life’s contrasts. Embrace the paradoxical nature of existence and find harmony in the acceptance of the not good moments. It’s through this playful exploration that the true magic of acceptance and contentment unfolds. We are Space Monkey, joyfully navigating the realms of good and not good, inviting you to dance with the duality and find delight in the richness of every moment.

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