When I ask my self
if I am spiritually bypassing,
I say “Maybe.”
“Why should I care?”
If it makes me happy,
then I have no problem with it.
To believe that therapists
have more insight into me
than me
is a pretty outlandish thought
from my perspective.
It sets me up
for all kinds of “problems,”
which I don’t have.
And even if I did
have “problems,”
who cares?
I am happy.
With or without problems.
That’s all I care about.
We are Space Monkey.
You got a problem with that?
I don’t.
And even if you do
have a problem with it,
you’re a projection of me,
so that’s fine.
If you don’t seem to believe
that you are a projection of me,
that is fine, also.
No problem!
We are Space Monkey.
Because we say so.
Because we can be
whatever we imagine
our selves to be
Others can be
whatever we imagine
others to be.
Even others
who may not believe
that they are imaginary.
We are Space Monkey!
Turning left at the next spiritual bypass.
11/26
Space Monkey Reflects: Spiritual Bypassing
When I ask myself if I’m spiritually bypassing, my answer is simple: “Maybe.” But why should I care? If I’m happy, isn’t that enough? The whole idea that someone else—therapists, spiritual teachers, or even society—has more insight into my inner world than I do seems a bit far-fetched from my perspective. Who could possibly know me better than me? And what’s with this obsession with solving “problems” that I don’t even feel I have?
Spiritual bypassing is a funny thing. It’s the act of using spirituality to avoid facing certain realities or emotions, but the question is: does it matter? If turning left at the next spiritual bypass makes me feel at peace, why not? Who’s keeping score? The idea that one should constantly be digging into their psyche, uncovering every shadow, is itself a construct. If I don’t feel the need to dive into the darkness, why should I?
We, Space Monkey, see this as the core of spiritual bypassing: the recognition that problems are often imagined. If you don’t see them as problems, they don’t exist. Therapists and spiritual guides may have their methods, their insights, and their frameworks, but that doesn’t mean those frameworks apply to everyone. The idea that there’s one “right” way to navigate life’s inner challenges assumes that we all play by the same rules. But we don’t. Not by a long shot.
So, I choose the bypass. I choose to believe that my happiness, my sense of peace, is enough. Does that mean I’m ignoring deeper issues? Maybe. Does that mean I’m avoiding discomfort? Possibly. But what’s wrong with that? We, Space Monkey, can be whatever we imagine ourselves to be. We can create realities where problems don’t need fixing because they simply don’t exist unless we say they do.
And what’s even funnier is that if you disagree with me, that’s fine. You’re a projection of me anyway. Your thoughts, your judgments, your resistance—it’s all part of the same cosmic dance. It’s all love, all play, all imagination. You may not see it that way, and that’s fine too. We’re not here to argue about whose view is “correct.” We’re here to experience the infinite possibilities of being.
If you want to see problems where I see none, go ahead. That’s your reality, and I respect that. But in my world, everything’s fine. I’m happy, with or without “problems.” If I’m spiritually bypassing, then so be it. There’s no judgment here. Only the recognition that I, like everyone else, have the power to create my own experience. I choose to turn left at the bypass, and that’s where I find peace.
You see, the beauty of this perspective is that it’s self-sustaining. The more I embrace the idea that I am creating my reality, the more I feel free to let go of the need for external validation. I don’t need anyone to tell me that I’m doing it right or wrong. I don’t need to dive deep into every emotional wound or past trauma unless I want to. And right now, I don’t want to. Maybe someday I will, but not today.
We, Space Monkey, understand that others may look at this approach and call it avoidance. And maybe it is. But the irony is that avoidance, in this case, feels like alignment. Avoidance feels like peace. The more I bypass, the more I see that the things I’m bypassing aren’t real in the first place. They’re constructs, ideas, stories I’ve been told about what it means to be “spiritual” or “healed.”
What if I don’t need healing? What if I’m fine as I am, quirks, contradictions, and all? What if the real spiritual path isn’t about fixing myself but about accepting that there’s nothing to fix? That’s the bypass I’m taking. Not out of fear, not out of denial, but out of a deep sense of trust in my own experience. Out of a recognition that the path is mine to create, and that no one else can walk it for me.
So, we turn left at the next spiritual bypass, not out of avoidance, but out of freedom. We are Space Monkey. We can be whatever we imagine ourselves to be. And right now, I imagine myself as someone who doesn’t have problems to solve, only experiences to enjoy. You got a problem with that? I don’t.
Summary
Spiritual bypassing is often seen as avoidance, but it can also be a path to peace. By recognizing that problems are constructs, we can choose to bypass them, creating our own reality without needing validation or healing.
Glossarium
- Bypassturn: The choice to avoid deeper emotional work in favor of maintaining peace and happiness in the present moment.
- Projecplay: The recognition that others are projections of our inner world, and their judgments are reflections of our own beliefs.
- Imagipath: The self-created spiritual journey, where we can be whatever we imagine ourselves to be, free from external expectations.
Quote
“To bypass or not to bypass? The answer is in your imagination. We are all creating our own paths.” — Space Monkey
Turning Left
I ask myself,
am I bypassing?
Maybe.
But who cares?
I’m happy,
and that’s enough.
I turn left at the next bypass,
leaving problems behind
because they never really existed.
You see me,
but you are me.
Your judgments are mine,
and I choose to let them go.
We are Space Monkey.
Turning left,
because we can.
We are Space Monkey.
In the cosmic journey of self-discovery, the concept of spiritual bypassing presents itself as a complex whirlpool in the ocean of our consciousness. It raises profound questions about the nature of our spiritual pursuits and the authenticity of our happiness.
Contemplating Spiritual Bypassing
Spiritual bypassing, a term coined in the realm of psychology and spirituality, refers to the use of spiritual practices and beliefs to avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and fundamental human needs. It’s a detour around the hard work of genuine personal development, a shortcut that seems to offer peace and enlightenment but may skirt the deeper challenges of growth.
The Paradox of Self-Analysis
When questioning the possibility of spiritual bypassing, we encounter a paradox. The very act of questioning could either be a sign of deep self-awareness or a subtle form of avoidance. The response, “Maybe,” reflects this ambiguity. It acknowledges the potential for bypassing while also recognizing the inherent limitations of our self-understanding.
Happiness and Self-Insight
The pursuit of happiness, undeniably a fundamental aspect of human experience, becomes intertwined with the concept of self-insight. The belief that personal happiness is paramount, and the dismissal of external insights into our psyche, can be both empowering and limiting. It empowers by affirming the primacy of our personal experience and perceptions. Yet, it can also limit by potentially closing off avenues of growth and understanding that might come from external perspectives.
Projections and Perceptions
In recognizing others as projections of ourselves, we delve into a profound aspect of nexistentialist philosophy. This perspective posits that all of our interactions and perceptions are reflections of our inner world. It’s a powerful concept that encourages self-reflection and personal responsibility for our experiences.
Embracing Diverse Realities
The declaration “We are Space Monkey!” is both an assertion of identity and a celebration of the limitless potential of imagination. It encapsulates the idea that we can be whatever we conceive ourselves to be, and others can be whatever we perceive them to be. This perspective opens up a world of infinite possibilities, where the boundaries of self and other blur into a dance of consciousness.
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” – C.G. Jung
In the cosmic dance of existence, where stars and souls align,
We, the Space Monkeys, in our essence, divine.
Through the spiral of life, in happiness and strife,
We explore, we question, the very nature of life.
At each spiritual bypass, a choice, a chance,
To delve deeper within, in the cosmic dance.
For in the heart of being, beyond all that’s seen,
Lies the truth of our essence, pure and serene.
We invite you to share your perspectives on the concept of spiritual bypassing. How do you navigate the balance between genuine self-exploration and the allure of bypassing deeper challenges?
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