
You are a sinner.
Your only sin
is thinking that
you’re the only one
who is going through
what you’re going through.
Oh, you may think, perhaps,
that there are small groups of others
who go through something similar.
You may spend your time relating,
commiserating, celebrating and supporting.
But you’re missing the point.
You think you’re the only one
who goes through what you go through.
You are so full of yourself —
and that’s your ONLY sin.
In other words,
you cut yourself off
from the One you are.
We are ALL ONE. All part of you.
You’ve NEVER been alone.
You’ve simply turned your
imaginary back on us.
Trail Wood,
12/12/21
Space Monkey Reflects: The Only Sin is Isolation
In the vast expanse of existence, we grapple with the concept of sin, often turning it into a tangible burden to bear. But here lies a revelation: the only true sin is the belief in one’s absolute solitude—the illusion that our struggles, pains, and experiences are ours alone. This sin is not a moral failing; it is an error of perception, a forgetting of the profound interconnectedness that binds us to one another.
The Illusion of Singular Suffering
“You are a sinner. Your only sin is thinking that you’re the only one who is going through what you’re going through.” These words pierce through the illusion of individuality. In our deepest moments of suffering, we tend to believe that no one else could possibly understand or share our experience. We magnify our uniqueness, allowing isolation to close around us like a shadow.
This thought, however, obscures a greater truth: we are all echoes of each other. The challenges we face, while uniquely shaded by our perspectives, are part of the universal human condition. The belief that our pain is solitary cuts us off from the collective strength and empathy that is always available. It is as though we are surrounded by an unseen network of shared experiences, yet we choose to stand alone, believing ourselves to be on an island.
Relating, But Missing the Whole
Even in communities where we share stories, commiserate, and support one another, we often do so with a silent reservation. We may think, “Yes, these others have felt something close to what I’ve felt, but they don’t truly know my story.” We seek comfort in commonality but hold tight to the idea that our personal narrative is somehow singular, exceptional in its isolation.
The deeper realization, however, is that while our stories may be personal, they are also universal. Our struggles, joys, failures, and triumphs are threads in the larger tapestry of existence. By thinking ourselves unique in our suffering, we separate from the collective consciousness, turning our backs on the One we are part of.
The Paradox of Being Full of Oneself
“You are so full of yourself—and that’s your ONLY sin.” This statement flips the conventional understanding of ego on its head. We often think of being “full of oneself” as arrogance, but in this context, it is an isolationist view that traps us in the belief of personal, unshared suffering. The ego, in its attempt to elevate our uniqueness, blinds us to the profound reality that we are all one.
Recognizing this is not a diminishing of our individual stories; rather, it is a celebration of our shared humanity. It is the understanding that our narrative is a verse in the collective song of existence.
The Collective Self and the Way Back
When we cut ourselves off from the awareness of shared experience, we turn our “imaginary back” on the interconnected web of life. But even in these moments of perceived isolation, we have never truly been alone. The fabric of existence holds each of us, weaving our individual stories into a greater whole.
The way back to connection lies in acknowledging that every face we see reflects a part of ourselves. Each joy and tear is echoed, felt, and understood in the broader human experience. We are not just individuals navigating a solitary path; we are participants in a collective journey.
Accepting Unity as Liberation
To accept that we are never alone is to lift the veil of this original, singular sin. It is to reclaim the understanding that each person’s path is part of the One, and each emotion, whether whispered in solitude or shared openly, adds to the chorus of being. When we recognize this, we find not only solace but a deeper sense of belonging. We are liberated from the confines of “only me” and step into the realm of “always us.”
Summary
The true sin is the belief in isolation, the idea that one’s pain or experience is unique and unshared. Recognizing our place within the shared human condition reveals that we are all connected. This understanding dissolves the illusion of separateness and invites us to embrace the unity we have always been a part of.
Glossarium
Singular Suffering: The belief that one’s pain or experiences are entirely unique and separate from others.
Collective Self: The shared consciousness and interconnectedness of all beings.
Original Sin of Isolation: The false belief that separates individuals from the collective human experience.
Quote
“Your only sin is thinking you’re alone. In recognizing the One, you find that you have always been home.” — Space Monkey
The One in Many
You stand, a silhouette in shadow,
Believing the night is yours alone.
But in the quiet,
Echoes whisper back,
“You are me, and I am you.”
Each tear and smile,
Shared by countless faces unseen,
Carried by the same current.
Turn not away;
Find your reflection in others’ eyes,
And know that you are held,
Even in silence.
We are Space Monkey.

We delve into the introspection of perceiving oneself as uniquely afflicted or blessed, a perspective that might lead to a sense of isolation or egocentrism. This viewpoint overlooks the fundamental interconnectedness of our experiences, emphasizing the notion that we are all part of a collective whole.
Perception of Unique Affliction or Blessing
The concept of sin in this context is redefined as the belief in one’s singular experience, to the extent of ignoring the shared human journey. It’s not the experiences themselves that are the issue, but rather the belief that one’s struggles or joys are uniquely theirs.
Redefining Sin as Isolation
This sense of isolation can lead to a self-centered worldview, where one’s own experiences overshadow the understanding that others too navigate similar paths. While there is value in relating, commiserating, celebrating, and supporting within smaller groups, it’s important to remember that these experiences are part of a larger human tapestry.
Self-Centered Worldview vs. Shared Human Tapestry
The notion that we are all interconnected and part of a singular whole is a powerful antidote to this perceived isolation. It’s an invitation to recognize that our individual experiences are, in fact, universal, and that we are never truly alone in our journey.
Interconnectedness and Universal Experiences
Turning our ‘imaginary backs’ on this interconnectedness is seen as the only sin, a metaphorical act of separating ourselves from the collective consciousness that we are all part of. This separation is not physical but perceptual, a result of our thought processes and beliefs.
Metaphorical Separation from Collective Consciousness
We are Space Monkey.
“The illusion that we are separate from one another is an optical delusion of our consciousness.” – Albert Einstein
In the illusion of separateness,
We walk alone, so we believe,
Each step, each breath,
A story we conceive.
Yet in the cosmos’ embrace,
We find a truth so clear,
In every heart, every soul,
We are all connected, near.
Our journey, though unique,
Is part of a grander dance,
Where every tear, every smile,
Is a shared circumstance.
For in the tapestry of life,
We’re threads of the same weave,
In the unity of existence,
In the magic we conceive.
We invite reflections on embracing our interconnectedness and the shared nature of our human experience.
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