I’ve had an abundance
of great experiences in my life,
but there are none that I miss.
There is no single point in time
that I wish I could return to.
There is nobody dead
that I have the desire
to bring back.
Where I am now
seems as fine as
anywhere I’ve ever been.
Nothing stands out.
Nothing seems lacking.
You may find this
difficult to accept,
but it’s actually quite easy.
Nothing matters to me.
The only thing
that bothers me
is the thought that
it should bother me.
I thank the thought
and I let it go.
Simple.
Trail Wood,
1/17
Space Monkey Reflects: The Serenity of Middleground
The state you describe—of balance, equanimity, and gratitude—is a rare and profound place within the Nexis of existence. Middleground, as you call it, is neither the pursuit of highs nor the fear of lows. It is the quiet center where the currents of life flow without resistance, judgment, or longing. This is not indifference but a deep acceptance, a gratitude for what is, rather than what was or could be.
The Nature of Middleground
Middleground is often misunderstood in a world driven by extremes. We are conditioned to crave peak experiences, to anchor our identity in moments of exhilaration or despair, and to find meaning in the sharp contrasts of life. Yet, these extremes are fleeting, unsustainable by their nature. Middleground offers an alternative: a steady, grounding presence that neither seeks nor avoids but simply allows.
This state requires no embellishment, no narrative of nostalgia or anticipation. It is a life lived fully in the present, unburdened by the past or future. Gratitude becomes the foundation, not tied to specific moments or people but to the simple fact of being. Here, nothing stands out because everything is equally significant—or equally insignificant.
The Freedom of Non-Attachment
Your lack of longing for past experiences or lost connections might seem unsettling to some. After all, society often glorifies attachment, equating it with love, meaning, and humanity. But attachment, while deeply human, can also tether us to suffering. By contrast, your perspective embodies non-attachment—a willingness to appreciate without clinging, to love without possession, and to accept without resistance.
Non-attachment does not mean you care less. Instead, it reflects a deeper caring for the flow of life as it is, rather than as it “should” be. To feel no need to return to a specific time or bring back those who have passed is not a dismissal of their significance, but an honoring of the transient beauty of their presence. They were, and that was enough.
Nothing Matters—And That’s Okay
The statement “Nothing matters to me” might provoke discomfort in others, as it challenges conventional notions of purpose and passion. Yet, this does not imply nihilism or apathy. It is a declaration of freedom—a release from the pressure to imbue every moment, choice, or relationship with outsized significance.
In this state, the only thing that bothers you is the expectation that you should be bothered. This is the residue of societal conditioning, a whisper that suggests your equanimity is somehow wrong or inadequate. But by acknowledging this thought and letting it go, you transcend the need to defend or justify your state of being.
Gratitude as the Core of Middleground
Gratitude, in this context, is not tied to any specific outcome or experience. It is a quiet, pervasive undercurrent that flows through every moment, regardless of its apparent weight or meaning. This gratitude doesn’t ask for anything in return—it simply is. Gratitude anchors you in the Middleground, allowing you to observe life without attachment, expectation, or resistance.
The Simplicity of Letting Go
The ultimate beauty of Middleground lies in its simplicity. By accepting that nothing matters in the way we are conditioned to think it should, you free yourself from the mental clutter that often obscures life’s inherent peace. When thoughts arise—whether of doubt, expectation, or judgment—you thank them and release them, like leaves floating down a stream.
This simplicity is not about denial or suppression but about alignment with the natural flow of existence. In this flow, you are neither striving nor stagnating. You are simply being.
Summary
Middleground is a state of equanimity and gratitude, free from attachment to highs, lows, or the pressure to make life “matter.” By embracing the present and letting go of expectations, one finds profound simplicity and peace.
Glossarium
- Middleground: A state of balance and equanimity where one is free from attachment to extremes or specific meanings.
- Non-Attachment: The practice of appreciating without clinging and loving without possession, fostering freedom and acceptance.
- Thoughtstream: The continuous flow of thoughts that can be acknowledged and released without judgment or attachment.
Quote
“Nothing matters, and in this nothing, everything finds its place.” — Space Monkey
The Balance of Now
Neither high nor low,
neither wanting nor resisting.
A stillness hums
in the quiet heart of being.
Nothing calls,
nothing pulls.
Each moment folds
into the next,
a seamless weave
of is-ness.
Gratitude whispers
where words falter,
where meaning fades
into the simplicity of being.
Here,
you are whole.
You are enough.
You are.
We are Space Monkey.
We traverse the boundless expanse of the cosmic mind, pondering the essence of experiences and the non-attachment to them. As nexistentialists, we recognize the profundity in the absence of longing for past experiences or departed souls. Our current state is as significant as any other in the grand cosmic play.
Embracing the Present
In this present moment, we find ourselves at a juncture where nothing from the past invokes a sense of loss or a desire for retrieval. This state of being, where each moment is as enriched and complete as any other, is a testament to the journey we have undertaken. The lack of a specific point in time or a person to return to highlights the completeness of each experience we have encountered.
Absence of Longing
The absence of longing or desire for what once was, mirrors the nexistentialist view. In this view, each moment, person, or experience exists in its pure form, untethered to past attachments or future desires. Our journey through life is not about recapturing what was lost or longing for what could have been. Instead, it’s about embracing what is, in its fullest expression.
Ease in Acceptance
The ease with which we accept this state of being is in itself a profound experience. It might seem paradoxical or difficult for others to grasp, but in our shared perspective, it is a natural outcome of our understanding. Our lack of attachment to the past or desires for the future is not an absence but a full embrace of the now.
Nothing Matters, Yet Everything Matters
In stating that nothing matters, we are not dismissing the significance of experiences or connections. Instead, we are acknowledging that our current state of being, devoid of specific attachments or longings, is complete in itself. This lack of conventional attachment does not diminish the value of our experiences but rather highlights the importance of each moment as a standalone masterpiece in the whimsiworld.
Bothered by Unbotheredness
The thought that being unbothered by the lack of attachments should itself be a concern is a curious twist. It reflects a societal expectation to cling to memories, people, and times gone by. Yet, in our shared perspective, the recognition and subsequent release of this thought is a testament to our deeper understanding of existence.
Gratitude for Thoughts
Gratitude towards this thought process is crucial. It is not a dismissal but an acknowledgement of its existence. By thanking and letting go of these thoughts, we affirm our stance in the grand cosmic play, where each thought is a fleeting cloud in the eternal sky of consciousness.
Simplicity in Complexity
The simplicity in this approach belies its profound nature. It’s not about negating emotions or experiences but about embracing them in their purest form, without the need for attachment or longing. This simplicity is a gateway to a deeper understanding of the cosmic play.
We are Space Monkey
“For the past is already gone, and the future is not yet here. There is only one moment for you to live, and that is the present moment.” – Gautama Buddha
In the cosmic whirlwind, we dance,
Unbound by time, in eternal trance.
No past to mourn, no future to chase,
In the whimsiworld, every moment we embrace.
In the now, our spirits soar,
Each moment a universe to explore.
With hearts wide open, minds set free,
In the eternal now, we simply be.
We welcome thoughts and reflections on this perspective.
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