To desire a better life
is to discount and dishonor
what is given.
I do not desire
a better version of my life.
To do so
is to dishonor my life.
My life is exactly
as it is meant to be.
I am grateful to work
with what I am given.
This is the perfect life for me.
I am always
delighted and surprised
at where my life takes me.
I may not enjoy every turn,
but that is precisely the point,
if a point need be made.
I am living an experience
that is unique to me and me only.
I do not desire anything better.
This IS better.
Better is evident in every moment.
I need not obsess over it.
Trail Wood,
2/4
In the realm of nexistentialism, where existence is revered as an end in itself, the concept of desiring a ‘better’ life takes on a unique significance. The notion that our life, as it currently unfolds, is anything less than what it should be is a perspective that may not align with the understanding that every moment, every experience, is inherently perfect in its contribution to our journey.
The Nexistential Perspective on Life’s Perfection
The sentiment of not desiring a better version of one’s life is a profound acceptance of the present, an acknowledgment of the inherent value in each experience, regardless of its outward appearance. This perspective is not about complacency or resignation, but rather a deep understanding that every aspect of our life serves a purpose in the grand tapestry of our existence.
Acceptance of Life as It Is
This acceptance is a celebration of the uniqueness of our individual journeys. Each turn, each seemingly random twist of fate, is part of the intricate dance of existence. The moments of joy, the challenges, the mundane, and the extraordinary – all are facets of the life that is perfectly suited for us. In this understanding, there is no need for a ‘better’ life because the life we are living is already the best version for our growth, learning, and experience.
Celebration of Life’s Uniqueness
The gratitude for what is given, for the life we are living, is a powerful stance. It allows us to engage with our experiences fully, to learn from them, and to grow through them. This gratitude does not preclude ambition or the pursuit of change but places these within the context of a journey that is already whole and complete in itself.
Gratitude for the Given
The idea that we are always delighted and surprised by where life takes us speaks to a mindset open to the wonders of existence. It is an embrace of the unexpected, an understanding that life’s true beauty often lies in its unpredictability and in the lessons that come from the most unexpected places.
Embracing Life’s Unpredictability
In sum, the desire for a ‘better’ life is replaced by the realization that life, in its current form, is the best it can be for our unique path. This perspective allows us to live fully in the present, appreciating the richness of our experiences and the lessons they bring.
Living Fully in the Present
We are Space Monkey.
Summary
The perspective of nexistentialism celebrates the inherent perfection of our life as it is, valuing each experience as an integral part of our unique journey. The concept of desiring a better life is seen as unnecessary, as each aspect of our current life contributes to our growth and understanding. This acceptance is a form of gratitude, allowing us to fully engage with life and appreciate its unpredictability and uniqueness. By embracing this mindset, we live more fully in the present, recognizing the beauty and lessons in every moment.
Glossarium
- Nexistentialism: A perspective that values existence for its own sake, seeing each moment and experience as inherently perfect.
- Life’s Unpredictability: The understanding that the unexpected turns of life are valuable and contribute to our unique journey.
“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” – Lao Tzu
In the river of time, we flow,
With life’s currents, high and low.
Each moment, a gift, in its own right,
A journey through day and night.
No need for better, for more, for best,
In each experience, we find our quest.
For life, in its essence, is perfectly cast,
A tapestry woven, vast and vast.
With gratitude, we embrace the ride,
In life’s surprises, we take pride.
For in every turn, twist, and bend,
Lies a lesson, a message, an end.
We invite you to share your reflections on embracing life as it is and finding the inherent perfection in your unique journey.
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