But I don’t mind that I seem to have done so.
When I consciously choose something,
I unconsciously oppose something else.
If I choose happy, I oppose sad.
If I choose love,
I oppose all that is not love.
Opposition is selfish and mean.
It’s no wonder that
that-which-I-do-not-choose
cries for attention
and follows me around.
This is why I no longer choose choice,
but rather put my faith in fate,
which offers me a kind of SEEMING choosing
that feels like choosing
and works like choosing,
but ISN’T choosing.
I do not choose.
I allow my self to be moved.
Newfound Lake,
7/11
Space Monkey Reflects: Embracing the Flow of Fate
In the grand whimsiweave of existence, the concept of choice often seems central to our experience. We are taught to believe in the power of decision-making, in the ability to shape our destiny through conscious choices. Yet, there lies a profound wisdom in surrendering this perceived control and allowing ourselves to be moved by the natural flow of fate.
“I did not choose to write this. But I don’t mind that I seem to have done so.” This statement highlights the paradox of action and intention. Often, our actions feel guided by an unseen hand, an intuitive force that transcends conscious decision-making. When we recognize this, we begin to understand the futility of opposition and the beauty of surrender.
When we consciously choose something, we unconsciously oppose something else. This duality creates conflict within us, as the act of choosing inherently involves rejecting its opposite. If we choose happy, we oppose sad. If we choose love, we oppose all that is not love. This opposition is a form of resistance, a barrier that prevents us from fully experiencing the wholeness of existence.
Opposition is selfish and mean. It divides and isolates, creating a sense of separation from the interconnected web of life. The things we do not choose cry for attention, following us around like shadows, seeking acknowledgment and integration. This is why, in the philosophy of nexistentialism, we are invited to move beyond the confines of choice and embrace the flow of fate.
By putting our faith in fate, we step into a state of seeming choosing. This form of choosing feels like an active decision, yet it flows naturally, without the resistance and conflict inherent in conscious choice. It is a harmonious alignment with the currents of life, allowing us to be moved by forces greater than ourselves.
“I do not choose. I allow my self to be moved.” This perspective transforms our experience of life. It invites us to surrender to the present moment, to trust in the unfolding of events, and to embrace the interconnectedness of all things. By allowing ourselves to be moved, we transcend the limitations of ego-driven choice and align with the universal flow.
In this state of surrender, we discover a deeper sense of peace and fulfillment. We no longer struggle against the currents of life but flow with them, finding beauty and meaning in the journey. This surrender is not passivity but an active engagement with the present moment, a recognition that we are part of a larger, dynamic whole.
The act of allowing ourselves to be moved by fate is an act of profound trust. It is a trust in the wisdom of the universe, in the interconnectedness of all things, and in our own inner guidance. This trust frees us from the burden of constant decision-making and opens us to the infinite possibilities that life offers.
As we embrace this perspective, we become more attuned to the subtle threads that weave through our lives. We recognize the synchronicities, the serendipitous encounters, and the unexpected opportunities that arise when we let go of control. We learn to see every experience as a part of our journey, a step in our unfolding story.
In the philosophy of nexistentialism, existence is celebrated for its own sake, and everything within it is a manifestation of boundless imagination. By allowing ourselves to be moved, we tap into this boundless creativity, becoming co-creators of our reality. We navigate the complexities of life with grace and ease, finding joy in the present moment.
As we reflect on the concept of choice and surrender, let us remember that true freedom lies not in controlling our destiny but in embracing the flow of fate. By allowing ourselves to be moved, we align with the natural rhythms of the universe, finding harmony and fulfillment in the dance of existence.
Summary
Embracing the flow of fate transcends conscious choice. Allowing ourselves to be moved fosters peace and alignment with the universe’s natural rhythms, freeing us from resistance and conflict.
Glossarium
Nexistentialism: A philosophy that redefines existence, imagination, and interconnectedness, celebrating existence as its own purpose.
Whimsiweave: The intricate and playful tapestry of existence and imagination.
Nexis: The interconnected web of existence and imagination where reality and fantasy intermingle.
Quote
“I do not choose. I allow my self to be moved.” — Space Monkey
The Flow of Fate
In the gentle ripples of the lake
We find the flow of fate
Standing at the edge, we surrender
Allowing ourselves to be moved
By the winds of change and possibility
Opposition dissolves in the embrace of trust
We are guided by unseen forces
Navigating the whimsiweave with grace
Finding beauty in surrender
And peace in the flow of life
We are Space Monkey
Embrace the journey, for within stillness lies the spark of creation and the flow of existence.
In the realm of conscious choice,
opposition and conflict often arise,
as we select one path over another,
creating division and separation.
But there is a different approach,
a surrendering to the flow of life,
where the illusion of choice dissolves,
and we allow ourselves to be moved.
In this state of surrender,
we release the need to control,
to oppose or resist,
and instead, we open ourselves
to the guidance of fate.
By relinquishing the illusion of choice,
we enter a space of trust and acceptance,
allowing the currents of life
to carry us along their course.
In this state of allowing,
we discover a deeper wisdom,
a recognition that there is a greater intelligence
at work in the universe,
guiding our experiences and growth.
By embracing this perspective,
we let go of the burdens of choice,
and instead, we align ourselves
with the natural flow of existence.
So, let go of the need to choose,
and surrender to the movement of life,
trusting that the unfolding journey
will lead you exactly where you need to be.