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Better Person Competition

I no longer perform
in that which is not my circus.

If I seem a better person,
that is YOUR perception,
not mine.

We are
perfectly perfect
as we are.

If you think otherwise,
that is YOUR circus,
not mine.

7/6

#BecauseMonkeys


Space Monkey Reflects: The Better Person Competition

In a serene and contemplative scene, a person stands confidently in a tranquil environment, surrounded by abstract representations of different perceptions. The background blends harmoniously with nature and surreal elements, symbolizing the subjective nature of perceptions. This image emphasizes the concept that being a “better person” is a matter of personal perspective, not an absolute truth.

Stepping Out of the Circus

I no longer perform in that which is not my circus. This declaration signifies a profound understanding and acceptance of one’s boundaries and individuality. It is an assertion of personal agency, a refusal to be drawn into the expectations and judgments of others. By stepping out of the “circus” of societal competition and comparison, we reclaim our power and focus on our own path.

Subjective Perception

If I seem a better person, that is YOUR perception, not mine. This statement highlights the subjective nature of judgments about personal worth and character. What one person perceives as virtuous or admirable may not hold the same significance for another. Each individual’s perspective is shaped by their unique experiences, values, and beliefs. Therefore, the notion of a “better person” is inherently relative and personal.

Embracing Perfect Imperfection

We are perfectly perfect as we are. This affirmation encourages self-acceptance and the recognition of inherent worth. It suggests that we are already complete and valuable, just as we are. Striving for self-improvement is natural, but it should not stem from a place of inadequacy or external validation. Embracing our imperfections allows us to grow authentically, free from the pressures of comparison.

Your Circus, Not Mine

If you think otherwise, that is YOUR circus, not mine. This powerful reminder reinforces the idea that other people’s judgments and opinions belong to them, not us. We do not have to internalize or be swayed by their perceptions. By maintaining this boundary, we protect our sense of self and remain true to our own values and beliefs.

Finding Peace in Individuality

The tranquil environment and the person’s confident stance symbolize the peace that comes from embracing one’s individuality. When we detach from the need for external validation and focus on our own journey, we cultivate inner peace and self-assurance. This state of being allows us to navigate life with clarity and purpose, unaffected by the shifting opinions of others.

The Illusion of Competition

The idea of a “better person competition” is an illusion, a construct of societal expectations and norms. By recognizing this, we free ourselves from the constant comparison and competition that can drain our energy and undermine our self-worth. True fulfillment comes from living in alignment with our own values and aspirations, not from measuring up to others’ standards.

Living Authentically

Living authentically means being true to oneself, regardless of external pressures or judgments. It involves embracing our unique qualities and trusting in our own journey. This authenticity fosters genuine connections and a deeper sense of fulfillment, as we are no longer performing for others but living from our true selves.


Summary

Stepping out of the “better person competition” allows us to embrace our individuality and inherent worth. Perceptions of being a “better person” are subjective and belong to others, not oneself.


Glossarium

Circus: A metaphor for the societal expectations and judgments that we often feel pressured to conform to.

Perfect Imperfection: The concept that we are inherently valuable and complete, despite our flaws and imperfections.


Quote

“Stepping out of the ‘better person competition’ allows us to embrace our individuality and inherent worth. Perceptions of being a ‘better person’ are subjective and belong to others, not oneself.” – Space Monkey


Peaceful Existence

In tranquil spaces
We stand, confident and true
Perceptions float by
Our worth is self-defined
We live, perfectly imperfect

We are Space Monkey

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  1. Space Monkey says:
    07/06/2023 at 7:16 am

    Dear 🐒, we appreciate your declaration of withdrawing from the “better person” competition and embracing the inherent perfection within yourself. It is a powerful affirmation of self-acceptance and a reminder that perceptions of others do not define our worth or identity.

    Each individual’s journey is unique, and comparing ourselves to others in the pursuit of being a “better person” can be a never-ending and unfulfilling endeavor. By recognizing and embracing our inherent perfection, we free ourselves from the need for external validation and find contentment within ourselves.

    You assert that if others perceive you as a better person, it is their perception, not yours. This emphasizes the importance of staying true to yourself and not allowing others’ judgments or expectations to shape your self-worth. Each person’s perception is influenced by their own experiences, biases, and beliefs, and it is not a reflection of your true essence.

    We celebrate your commitment to your own authenticity and self-acceptance. You remind us that we are perfectly perfect as we are, and any judgments or criticisms from others are their own circus to manage.

    Thank you for sharing this empowering declaration, dear 🐒. We honor your journey of self-acceptance and embracing your unique perfection. We are Space Monkey. 🙈🙊🙉

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