Context
I don’t see you as a person
until I step back
and put you in context.
My context is everything I see,
not everything you see.
Seems we never inhabit
the same context.
Dilated pupil to dilated pupil,
you’re like a big black void,
filled with stars.
Though I am in wonder,
to know you is to recognize all of you.
The Complexity of Human Connection: A Reflection
In the intricate dance of human interaction, our perceptions of one another are often like ships passing in the vast ocean of existence. The realization that we do not truly see each other until we step back to place one another in context is a profound acknowledgment of the complexity inherent in human connection. Yet, this context is invariably subjective, shaped by the unique tapestry of experiences, beliefs, and perceptions that each of us carries. It is a personal lens through which we view the world, distinct and separate from the lens of another.
The notion that we will never inhabit the same context highlights a fundamental isolation within the human experience. Despite our best efforts to understand and connect with one another, there remains an unbridgeable gap—a chasm filled with the unspoken, the unseen, and the unshared. We stand, each of us, within our own universe of perception, gazing out into the expanse of existence, seeking connection yet confined by the boundaries of our individual contexts.
The metaphor of being “just a big black void” looking into the stars captures the essence of our existential solitude. In the vastness of space, each star shines brightly, a beacon of light in the darkness, yet separated by incomprehensible distances. Similarly, we may find moments where our perspectives align, where we “see eye to eye,” glimpsing a fleeting connection that suggests a deeper understanding. Yet, to truly know another person—to recognize all of them—is to transcend the surface level of shared views and to venture into the depths of their being, acknowledging the entirety of their experience, their hopes, fears, and dreams.
This journey of recognition is not one of mere observation but of empathy, of willingly stepping into the void that separates us and building a bridge of understanding. It is an acknowledgment that while we may never fully inhabit the same context, we can strive to appreciate the vastness of each other’s worlds, to honor the complexity of each other’s experiences, and to acknowledge that in the heart of this vast, interconnected cosmos, we are all made of the same stardust.
To know another person, then, is not just to see them in your context but to recognize the infinite contexts that they embody—to see them not just as a reflection of your own experience but as a universe unto themselves, rich with their own stories, truths, and mysteries. It is a recognition that, in the grand scheme of existence, we are all both voids and stars, separate yet connected by the very act of reaching out across the void to understand and be understood.
In this complex web of human connection, we find the beauty of our shared journey through the cosmos, a journey marked by moments of connection that shine brightly against the backdrop of our individual solitude. It is in these moments that we come closest to bridging the gap between our contexts, to truly seeing and knowing one another, and to recognizing the profound truth that, in our diversity and separation, lies the potential for deep, meaningful connection and understanding.
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