When you believe
in destiny and trust in
whatever-you-want-to-call-it,
nothing need rattle you
all that much.
Unless you want it to.
And if you’re wrong?
So what. It’s over.
I am quite open
to the possibility
that things are going
to end badly.
I believe in destiny;
that nothing I do
is going to change how it ends.
If this is the case,
ending badly
might very well be
the best thing
that can happen to me.
Just as I believe
that nothing I do
is going to change
how it ends,
I also believe
that there is no end
to the ending.
Perhaps a bad ending
is the best possible way
to frame a bright new beginning.
I trust that the universe
has it all figured out for me.
No effort. No blame. No worry.
Surrender.
Trail Wood,
12/1
Space Monkey Reflects: Embracing the Gift of a “Bad” Ending
There is a particular strength in surrendering to the idea of a bad ending. It challenges our need for a tidy, triumphant conclusion and dares us to see beauty and growth in uncertainty, imperfection, and even loss. When we believe in destiny — or, as some might say, the universe’s grand design — the fear of failure or ruin begins to lose its sting. It becomes not a looming tragedy but an integral part of our journey. To trust in “ending badly” is to release the hold we have on outcomes, surrendering our desire for control to something far greater.
Destiny is often framed as an ideal, a guiding light leading us toward some ultimate success or fulfillment. But destiny is not always gentle; it is not necessarily comforting. What if our fate includes moments that end in disappointment or grief? What if the best outcome for our growth is not the fulfillment of dreams but the falling apart of them? In accepting this, we open ourselves to a broader understanding of destiny, one where every event — beautiful or challenging — is a necessary piece of our evolution.
In viewing an ending, particularly one that “ends badly,” as a possibility rather than a failure, we begin to see its paradoxical nature. This ending might be a door, not a wall. It may signal the loss of one version of reality, only to invite the birth of another. Much like the cycle of nature, where decay gives rise to new growth, a seemingly negative conclusion can nourish the soil for future experiences. As we release our attachment to specific outcomes, we might discover a profound freedom in allowing things to unfold in their natural course.
This acceptance isn’t about passive resignation. It is about trusting that, if a chapter must close painfully or unexpectedly, it is part of the script we’re meant to follow. In embracing this truth, we experience a form of liberation. The universe has its plans, and we are merely participants in a cosmic rhythm that spans far beyond our understanding. In the face of inevitable endings, we can choose peace over resistance, acceptance over regret.
And so, a “bad” ending becomes the foundation of a new beginning. It frames our journey in the greater context of continuity, where every ending is merely a shift, a transition that carries us onward. Through this lens, we see that the universe, in its wisdom, has already figured it all out. No effort, no blame, no worry. Just the courage to trust that even the seemingly unfavorable is exactly as it should be.
Summary
Embracing a “bad” ending frees us from the need to control outcomes, allowing us to view each conclusion as part of a greater journey. This acceptance frames endings as transformations, leading us to new possibilities with trust in the universe’s plan.
Glossarium
Destiny: The course of life events believed to unfold according to a universal plan, beyond individual control.
Cosmic Rhythm: The flow of life events, both joyful and challenging, that contribute to our growth and understanding.
Continuity of Endings: The concept that every ending transitions into a beginning, creating an ongoing journey.
Quote
“To see beauty in an ending is to find courage in uncertainty, to trust that every close is part of a grand, unfolding continuity.” — Space Monkey
Continuity of Endings
In the twilight of an ending,
where shadows blend with light,
we find not closure
but an open gate
we release the need for finality
embracing what comes next
for endings, like all things
lead not to silence but to song
a pulse within the void
a light beyond the fall
we surrender, we accept
in the rhythm of it all
In the realm of destiny and trust in the cosmic order, we find a profound perspective that shields us from the turmoil of uncertainty. This perspective invites us to embrace the possibility that things may end badly, yet in doing so, it offers the gift of a fresh start and a deeper surrender to the universe’s plan.
The Power of Belief in Destiny
The belief in destiny serves as a sturdy anchor in the face of life’s unpredictability. It suggests that whatever unfolds is part of a grand design, and this unwavering faith minimizes the impact of external disturbances.
Embracing the Possibility of a Bad Ending
Openness to the idea of a bad ending is a testament to the soul’s resilience. It acknowledges that life’s journey may lead to challenging conclusions, but it reframes these endings as opportunities for transformation.
The Unending Nature of Endings
Intriguingly, the notion of an ending is paradoxical—it never truly concludes. It perpetually transitions into new beginnings, much like the cycles of existence. Thus, a “bad” ending becomes a fertile ground for fresh starts.
Surrender to the Cosmic Plan
The core of this perspective is trust—trust that the universe has a plan, a purpose, and that it is intricately designed for our growth. It calls for surrender, a release of effort, blame, and worry, allowing us to flow with the currents of life.
“Surrender to what is. Let go of what was. Have faith in what will be.” – Sonia Ricotti
We are Space Monkey, traversing the cosmic landscape of destiny and surrender, where the possibility of a “bad” ending becomes a gateway to a brighter new beginning.
In the realm of destiny’s grace,
We find our sacred resting place,
No rattle shakes our trust profound,
In cosmic currents, we are bound.
Open to the possibility,
Of endings shrouded in mystery,
A bad conclusion, so it seems,
Yet birthing dreams within our dreams.
For in the cycle of the cosmic’s art,
Endings never truly depart,
They transform into beginnings bright,
A tapestry woven with threads of light.
We trust the universe’s grand design,
No effort, blame, or worry’s sign,
In surrender, we find our way,
In the dance of destiny, we sway.
We invite contemplation on the power of belief in destiny, the beauty of surrender, and the unending nature of endings, where each conclusion births a new beginning in the cosmic dance of life.
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