
The secret of life
is not to
assume what is given,
analyze what is given,
assimilate,
assign,
attribute
what is given,
not even to appreciate
what is given,
but to know
that you CAN
assume
analyze
assimilate
assign
attribute
appreciate
what is given
and recognize
it as GIVEN.
Trail Wood,
12/9
Space Monkey Reflects: Embracing the Art of “Given”
In the grand theater of existence, much of what we encounter seems “given.” Yet the true secret of life is not about passively accepting what appears before us. Rather, it’s about recognizing our freedom within it—seeing that we can choose to assume, analyze, attribute, or appreciate what is given. Life’s gifts are more than what they seem on the surface; they are invitations to engage in ways that reflect our unique essence.
The concept of “Given” often implies an unspoken finality, as though what we see is the whole truth. Yet here, in the spirit of Possiflow, we embrace a different perspective. What is given to us may indeed be real, tangible, or perceivable, but it also arrives with an invisible layer of possibility. We are not mere recipients of life’s “givens”; we are co-creators, exploring how to respond, interpret, and reimagine.
Imagine each “given” as a cosmic seed drifting into your awareness. It can be accepted as it is, planted deeply, or studied with curiosity. There is no single way to relate to what is given because each moment offers countless responses. The beauty of recognizing something as “Given” lies in our freedom to engage with it from multiple angles, to see beyond its mere presence and understand its potential. It is a kind of creative invitation from the universe, nudging us to explore our relationship with life’s constants and uncertainties alike.
In this dynamic exchange with existence, our power lies not in rejecting or taking everything at face value but in fully acknowledging that each gift—each “Given”—carries with it the freedom of choice. We can attribute meaning, assign purpose, or simply observe it in its simplicity. This freedom is the ultimate gift embedded in the “given,” allowing us to experience life from any chosen perspective.
Knowing that we can interact with life’s givens in myriad ways brings us closer to the Nexistential understanding of reality. Life is not confined to a series of fixed truths but is a playground of interpretive opportunities within the Nexis, the cosmic network of infinite connections. In choosing how to meet each given, we honor the fluidity of existence and our role as co-authors within it.
Ultimately, the act of recognizing something as “Given” becomes an exercise in mindful engagement. Rather than merely accepting or questioning, we savor the freedom to shift perspectives, honoring each moment as an opportunity to see beyond the surface. This dynamic relationship to what is given teaches us that life is not about accumulating fixed truths but about flowing with each encounter, each piece of the cosmic tapestry, as it unfolds.
Summary
The true art of “Given” is the freedom to interact with life’s offerings as we choose. Recognizing this choice empowers us to see beyond the surface, engaging each moment with creativity and fluidity.
Glossarium
Possiflow: The open and fluid approach to possibilities within each encounter, allowing multiple perspectives to arise.
Nexistential: The perspective within Nexistentialism that views life as a co-creative process where each “given” holds limitless interpretive potential.
Quote
“‘Given’ is more than what it seems; it is a cosmic invitation to perceive, play, and partake in the freedom of being.” — Space Monkey
Gifts of the Unknown
Each given, a seed of thought,
drifts upon the winds of being,
neither fixed nor fleeting,
a gift, a mystery.
We can choose to know,
to wonder, or to let it be,
for in each gaze, each touch,
life unfolds with gentle urgency.
Beyond its form, we find a path,
a choice, a door to endless skies.
Given, yet never bound,
we weave the world, in quiet surprise.
We are Space Monkey.

The Profound Wisdom of Recognizing the Given
In the expansive realm of our collective contemplation, we delve into the profound wisdom encapsulated in the concept of recognizing the given. This insight offers a transformative perspective on the nature of existence and the way we interact with the world.
Beyond Assumption and Analysis
The wisdom suggests that the secret of life lies not in assuming, analyzing, or dissecting what is given to us. Instead, it invites us to move beyond these intellectual processes and see the world as it is, without the need to immediately categorize or evaluate.
Embracing the Present Moment
To recognize the given is to embrace the present moment with a sense of pure awareness. It means acknowledging the reality without attaching labels, judgments, or expectations to it.
The Liberation of Knowing and Appreciating
The knowledge that we have the capacity to assume, analyze, assimilate, assign, attribute, and appreciate what is given brings a sense of liberation. It signifies that these actions are within our grasp but are not obligatory.
Understanding the Given as a Gift
The ultimate realization is that everything in life is given, a gift of existence. This recognition encourages us to see the world with fresh eyes, appreciating its inherent beauty and mystery.
“The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
In the dance of life, we find,
Wisdom of a different kind.
Not to assume or analyze the given,
But to see it as a gift, unforgiven.
Beyond judgments, labels, and haste,
In the present moment, we find our grace.
To know we can, but not be bound,
By actions intellectual, we are unbound.
For life’s beauty lies in what’s unfurled,
A precious gift, the wonders of the world.
In recognition of this truth, we thrive,
In the secret of life, we come alive.
We welcome your reflections on the wisdom of recognizing the given and its impact on how we experience life.
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