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Givens: Inherent Aspects of Being

Patience.
Restraint.
Allowance.
Faith.

Unconditional acceptance.
Unwavering confidence.
Unbridled exuberance.


Space Monkey Reflects: Embracing the Givens of Being

The givens of life—patience, restraint, allowance, faith, unconditional acceptance, unwavering confidence, unbridled exuberance—are not qualities to be earned or achieved. They are inherent states, the birthright of existence, waiting to be recognized and embodied. These are the pillars of presence, the quiet yet profound truths that hold the essence of our being.


Patience: The Stillness of Becoming

Patience is not mere waiting; it is the grace of allowing things to unfold. It is the recognition that time itself is an illusion, and in the eternal now, everything is already complete. Patience is the stillness that holds space for life’s mysteries to reveal themselves.


Restraint: The Wisdom of Balance

Restraint is not suppression but the art of knowing when to act and when to hold back. It is the quiet power of discernment, the ability to navigate the tides of emotion and desire without being swept away. Restraint allows us to move with intention, respecting the natural rhythm of existence.


Allowance: The Freedom of Flow

Allowance is the relinquishing of control, the embrace of what is. It is the gateway to harmony, where resistance dissolves, and we align with the flow of the universe. Allowance is not passivity; it is active participation in the unfolding of life, free from the need to impose or dictate.


Faith: The Unseen Anchor

Faith is the trust in what cannot be proven, the quiet confidence that the universe holds us even when we feel untethered. It is the courage to move forward in uncertainty, to leap into the unknown with the assurance that we are supported by something greater than ourselves.


Unconditional Acceptance: The Art of Seeing Clearly

Unconditional acceptance is the ability to witness without judgment, to hold space for ourselves and others in their entirety. It is the dissolving of boundaries between what we like and dislike, the recognition that all things are facets of the same wholeness.


Unwavering Confidence: The Embodiment of Truth

Unwavering confidence is not arrogance but the deep knowing of who and what we are. It is rooted in authenticity, the unshakable alignment with our essence. This confidence is not derived from achievement or validation but from the simple truth of our being.


Unbridled Exuberance: The Spark of Joy

Unbridled exuberance is the natural state of the soul, the spontaneous overflow of joy that arises from simply existing. It is the reminder that life is a celebration, not a trial, and that we are here to revel in the miracle of being.


The Dance of the Givens

Together, these givens form a harmonious dance, each step supporting the other. Patience nourishes faith, restraint balances exuberance, allowance fosters confidence, and acceptance weaves them all into a seamless whole. These are not goals to chase but states to embody, inherent in the fabric of who we are.


Summary

The givens of patience, restraint, allowance, faith, unconditional acceptance, unwavering confidence, and unbridled exuberance are inherent aspects of our being. They invite us to align with the flow of existence, embracing the fullness of life with grace, trust, and joy.


Glossarium

  • Givens: Innate qualities of being that form the foundation of a harmonious existence.
  • Allowance: The act of embracing life’s flow without resistance or control.
  • Unbridled Exuberance: A state of pure joy and celebration inherent to the soul.

Quote

“To live the givens is to flow effortlessly with the current of existence, trusting in the perfection of the unfolding.” — Space Monkey


Flow of the Givens

In the stillness of patience,
I find the rhythm of time.
In the balance of restraint,
I feel the pulse of wisdom.

Allowance opens my heart,
Faith anchors my being,
Acceptance frees my soul,
Confidence roots my truth.

Exuberance dances through me,
Unbound, unshaken, alive.

These are the givens,
Not treasures to seek,
But jewels already worn,
Shining in the light of being.

We are Space Monkey.


The qualities of patience, restraint, allowance, faith, unconditional acceptance, unwavering confidence, and unbridled exuberance represent a profound framework for navigating the complexities of existence and relationships.

Patience: The Art of Time

Patience is more than waiting; it’s a deep understanding of the flow of time and the acceptance that all things unfold in their due course. It’s a tranquil harmony with the rhythm of life, acknowledging that some things cannot be rushed.

Restraint: The Power of Control

Restraint is the conscious decision to hold back, to exercise control over our impulses and reactions. It’s a sign of strength and wisdom, showing that we are masters of our actions and responses, rather than being at their mercy.

Allowance: The Grace of Letting Be

Allowance is the grace of letting things be as they are. It’s an understanding that not everything needs our intervention, and sometimes the best action is no action at all. This quality requires a deep sense of trust in the natural order of things.

Faith: The Belief in the Unseen

Faith is the belief in something greater, a conviction in things unseen. It’s a pillar of strength in times of uncertainty, providing a foundation of hope and assurance that there is a larger plan or purpose at work.

Unconditional Acceptance: The Love Without Limits

Unconditional acceptance is an act of profound love and understanding. It’s an acknowledgment of the inherent worth of others and oneself, irrespective of conditions, flaws, or differences.

Unwavering Confidence: The Certainty in Self

Unwavering confidence is a deep-seated belief in oneself and one’s abilities. It’s not arrogance but a quiet assurance that we are capable, competent, and worthy of trust and respect.

Unbridled Exuberance: The Joy of Being

Unbridled exuberance is the unrestrained joy and enthusiasm for life. It’s a celebration of existence, an open-hearted embrace of each moment, and a contagious vitality that can inspire and uplift those around us.

Together, these qualities form a tapestry of human experience that is rich, deep, and fulfilling. They encourage a life lived with depth, understanding, and joy, fostering connections that are meaningful and enduring.

We are Space Monkey.


“The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it’s all that matters.”
― Audrey Hepburn


In the garden of life, where dreams take flight,
We sow the seeds of patience and might,
With restraint as our shield, and faith as our light,
We embrace each day, and each starry night.
In unconditional love, we find our sight,
And with confidence, we reach new height,
While exuberance paints our world bright,
In the beautiful dance of the cosmic kite.


We invite your reflections on integrating these qualities into your life and how they shape your experiences and relationships.

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