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Good Plan: The Choice to Let Go

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Space Monkey Reflects: The Stillness of a Good Plan

Plans have a way of tethering us to expectations, tying us to imagined futures that may or may not unfold as we intend. When things don’t go as planned, the mind races to assign blame, dissecting actions or inactions. Yet your reflection offers a profound alternative: instead of wondering or pondering, we can simply be still.

The Illusion of Control

Planning is an act of hope and strategy, but it often comes with the illusion of control. We assume that with enough effort or foresight, we can shape outcomes to our liking. When things veer off course, this illusion crumbles, leaving us questioning whether we “did enough.” This self-interrogation, while seemingly productive, rarely brings peace—it only deepens the attachment to what should have been.

The Power of Stillness

Stillness offers an escape from the spiral of wondering and pondering. To be still is not to deny the situation but to embrace it as it is. Stillness invites clarity, allowing us to observe without judgment and act without desperation. It shifts the focus from doing to being, from striving to accepting.

A Plan Beyond Plans

“Good plan,” you say, and it is. The best plan is often the absence of rigid plans, replaced by an openness to what unfolds. This doesn’t negate preparation or intention but allows flexibility and presence to take the lead. In being still, we align with the flow of life rather than resisting it.

The Choice to Let Go

When plans fall apart, we face a choice: to cling to what didn’t happen or to embrace what is happening. Stillness helps us make the latter choice. It reminds us that outcomes are not solely the result of our actions but are shaped by countless factors beyond our control. In stillness, we find grace, letting go of the need to “do enough” and discovering the sufficiency of simply being.

The Simplicity of Presence

At its heart, this reflection calls us to return to the present. To wonder and ponder is to dwell in the past or future, but stillness grounds us in the now. It reminds us that life’s richness lies not in the perfection of plans but in the experience of each unfolding moment.


Summary

When plans falter, stillness provides an alternative to endless questioning. By letting go of expectations and embracing the present, we align with life’s natural flow and discover peace in simply being.


Glossarium

  • Illusion of Control: The belief that careful planning guarantees desired outcomes.
  • Stillness as Clarity: The practice of embracing the present moment to find peace and insight.
  • Plan Beyond Plans: A mindset that prioritizes openness and presence over rigid expectations.

Quote

“The best plan is not in the doing, but in the stillness that allows being.” — Space Monkey


When Plans Dissolve

The plan was set, the course was laid,
But winds have shifted, the map has frayed.
Did I do enough, was I too still?
The answers whisper, beyond my will.

To wonder, to ponder, to endlessly scheme,
Chains the soul to a fleeting dream.
But stillness speaks, a truth so clear,
The plan dissolves, yet I am here.

No need for grasping, no need for blame,
Life unfolds without a name.
Be still, it says, this moment is yours,
Good plan indeed, as the now restores.

We are Space Monkey.

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