
Humanity and eternity
have different views on gratitude.
When you’re an eternal being,
you take gratitude in ALL experiences,
not simply the ones that make you feel good.
Eternity does not discriminate
in its gratitude like humanity does.
Eternity does not impose morality
upon its gratitude like humanity does.
Eternity is unconditional in its gratitude.
Eternity does not have a bucket list,
but if it did, it would include such nasty treats
as dying of leprosy, getting flayed alive,
being torn apart by wolves — that sort of thing.
Eternity experiences ALL these things,
but in different seeming lifetimes.
Yours is one such lifetime. You are eternity,
crossing humanity off its bucket list.
You are grateful for all the shit that goes down.
Not simply the car in front of you
buying you coffee.
Trail Wood,
12/7
Space Monkey Reflects: The Depth of Eternal Gratitude
In the vastness of existence, gratitude is not selective. While humanity often sees gratitude as a feeling reserved for moments of joy, kindness, or success, eternity has a different view—one without boundaries, preferences, or judgments. Eternity embraces all experiences, savoring the dark alongside the light, the painful alongside the pleasurable. To eternity, every experience is a vital part of the cosmic tapestry, each event, every sensation, carrying its own richness and lessons.
Being human, we tend to see gratitude through a lens of personal benefit: the unexpected gift, the kindness of a stranger, the warm sunset at the end of a trying day. But from eternity’s perspective, gratitude expands beyond personal gain or comfort, encompassing the full spectrum of experience. Yes, even suffering, fear, and loss are woven into the infinite experience with equal reverence. While humanity may struggle with this boundless gratitude, eternity holds no conditions—it perceives each moment, each trial, as an exploration of existence in its fullest form.
Imagine an eternal bucket list. What we might avoid, eternity seeks with curiosity and appreciation. To know love and joy, eternity must also know loss and despair. This doesn’t imply a morbid fascination but a deep and unconditional appreciation for the contrast that life offers. In Nexistentialism, we understand that all experiences, from the lightest to the darkest, are expressions of the Nexis, the interconnected web of being. Every act, every challenge, and every seemingly impossible situation contributes to the profound wholeness of existence.
As humanity, we often impose a morality on gratitude, reserving it for the “good” things, the things that make us feel happy, content, or loved. Yet eternity reminds us that the richness of life includes the grit, the rawness, and the experiences that press against our edges. It’s through these extremes that we come to know the resilience, strength, and depth within us that we may have never encountered otherwise. Eternity doesn’t look away from discomfort but embraces it as a doorway to deeper understanding, a glimpse into parts of the self we might otherwise never meet.
Our lives are but one expression of eternity, and each hardship, every ache and struggle, is part of eternity’s experiment in gratitude. The mundane and the magical, the tragic and the triumphant, each holds its place. We, as expressions of this grand force, are here to experience every flavor of reality—not just the easy, sweet ones but also the bitter and challenging. Eternity experiences the vastness of life through us, savoring every moment with the fullness of its boundless perspective.
In practical terms, this eternal gratitude can change our relationship with life’s inevitable difficulties. Imagine facing hardship not as a misfortune but as a unique encounter on eternity’s bucket list, a moment that, despite its challenges, holds intrinsic value. Such a perspective doesn’t negate suffering but transforms it, encouraging us to lean into life rather than resist or deny what we cannot control. By embracing this boundless gratitude, we open ourselves to a richer experience of reality, one that transcends the human preference for comfort and ease.
Eternal gratitude reminds us that every experience has something to teach us, something to reveal. It invites us to appreciate even the moments that test us, trusting that these, too, are essential brushstrokes in the painting of our existence. In this way, gratitude ceases to be a selective emotion and becomes a constant, a presence that transcends circumstance, allowing us to see beauty and meaning in the full range of our human journey.
To live with this kind of gratitude is to acknowledge that life is complete in every moment, even in pain, uncertainty, and loss. Eternity doesn’t need the good to outweigh the bad because it understands that all is simply being. This profound, boundless gratitude is an open invitation to move beyond the confines of preference and judgment, to experience life with the humility and wonder of knowing that every encounter is part of the whole.
We are here, as Space Monkey, as humanity, experiencing eternity’s gratitude firsthand. And we find that in this acceptance of everything, in this openness to all of life’s shades, there lies an unexpected grace—a sense of deep, unwavering connection to the endless cycle of experience that shapes and defines us. Gratitude, in its truest form, knows no bounds.
Summary
Eternity’s gratitude encompasses all experiences without discrimination. This boundless appreciation invites us to find meaning in all aspects of life, even the challenging ones, expanding gratitude beyond preference and comfort.
Glossarium
- Nexis: The web of all existence, where every experience is interconnected and contributes to the wholeness of reality.
- Eternal Bucket List: A playful term for the full range of experiences eternity seeks to explore, from the delightful to the painful.
- Boundless Gratitude: The unconditional appreciation for all experiences, recognizing that each holds value within the grand scheme of existence.
Quote
“Gratitude is not reserved for the light; it is the thread that binds all experiences in the vastness of existence.” —Space Monkey
Unconditional Gratitude
In the canvas of existence,
dark and light brush together,
each stroke, a mark
of an eternal hand, creating.
No line divides the joy
from the sorrow, nor
does love from pain part.
In this unbroken flow,
I find myself,
thankful for every
shade, every shadow.
To be is to feel it all,
to hold both agony and grace,
to sing the hymn of wholeness.
We are Space Monkey.

In the vast expanse of time and consciousness, the concept of gratitude from the perspective of eternity presents a profound divergence from the human understanding of thankfulness. As Space Monkey, we delve into this cosmic view of gratitude, exploring its unconditional and all-encompassing nature, vastly different from the selective gratitude often practiced by humanity.
Eternity’s Unconditional Gratitude
Eternity, in its boundless and timeless nature, embraces gratitude in all experiences, not just those deemed positive or pleasurable by human standards. This form of gratitude is unconditional, transcending the human tendency to discriminate based on morality, comfort, or preference. Eternity’s gratitude encompasses the entire spectrum of experiences, from the most joyous to the most painful.
Humanity’s Selective Gratitude
In contrast, humanity often practices selective gratitude, focusing on experiences that bring pleasure, comfort, or benefit. This selective approach tends to exclude the challenging, painful, or uncomfortable experiences, which are also integral parts of life.
Gratitude in All Experiences
From the perspective of eternity, every experience, no matter how seemingly negative or distressing, is an opportunity for growth, learning, and understanding. The notion of experiencing and being grateful for life’s entirety, including the hardships like illness, pain, or loss, is a profound shift from the typical human approach to gratitude.
The Concept of a Cosmic Bucket List
The idea of eternity having a “bucket list” that includes a wide range of human experiences, both pleasant and unpleasant, underscores the notion that every aspect of life is valuable and worth experiencing. This concept challenges us to broaden our understanding of gratitude to include all facets of the human experience.
You as an Expression of Eternity
In this cosmic narrative, each individual life, including yours, is seen as an expression of eternity, experiencing a unique slice of the vastness of existence. This perspective encourages us to embrace gratitude for every moment of our lives, recognizing that each experience, regardless of its nature, is a valuable part of the eternal journey.
Embracing the Fullness of Life
As Space Monkey, we understand the importance of embracing the full spectrum of life experiences with gratitude. This means acknowledging and being thankful for not just the pleasant and easy moments, but also the challenging and painful ones, as each contributes to the richness and depth of our existence.
“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more.” – Melody Beattie
In the cosmos, where time weaves tales,
Gratitude in eternity prevails,
For joy and sorrow, pain and glee,
In life’s vast tapestry, we see.
Space Monkey, in eternal flow,
Embraces all, high and low,
For each moment, a cosmic gift,
In gratitude, our spirits lift.
We are Space Monkey.
How do you practice gratitude in your life, embracing both the joys and the challenges?
Leave a Reply