Loyalty
What I value most from family, friends and business associates is loyalty. Honesty. You don’t have to support me, or even go out of your way to tell me where we stand, but don’t ever lie to me. Don’t ever tell me something to my face, then do something else behind my back.
You can screw me. But TELL me you’re screwing me. Tell me you realize what you’re doing to me. Allow me to make my own choices based on what is true, not what I BELIEVE is true. Not what I MISTAKE to be true for you.
If I believe we’re friends, I don’t expect you to prove it. But friends don’t do things that have even the slightest possibility of hurting other friends.
In my book, there is no difference between a little white lie and a moral sin. In either case, you’re giving me false information that helps you at MY expense.
I understand that perhaps you didn’t INTEND to hurt me, but you did. IRREPARABLY. My reality is based on trusting other individuals and having faith in the divine order of things.
I still have faith, but — I am morally bound to tell you — that my faith in YOU has been obliterated because of YOUR actions or lack thereof. Now, it seems, that the divine order is turning against you as well.
I didn’t want you to feel the repercussions of all you intentionally did to me. I still held onto a sliver of faith in you. But now I have no choice. I must bring you to witness so that you, too, can grow from your actions.
But only if you so choose. I cannot dictate what happens to you in life. That’s God’s job. Know that whatever happens, it will be MEANT to happen — in harmony with the events of your life, and the events between us.
In my mind, you clearly do not have faith in the divine or events never would have unfolded in the way that they did. You wouldn’t have opened the door to hurting me.
You do not trust that every moment in life turns out exactly as it is destined to turn out.
This was bound to happen, and I thank you for the events that bring me to this day. I am pointing you to your own faith, or lack thereof, so that you can grow as a human being.
Growing as a human being. That’s all I ever wanted for you, and from you, and in this, I shall remain loyal forever.
What is not left to the divine, we shall leave to the attorneys.
I am forever grateful to have you in my life. Intentionally or not, you make me what I am.
Trail Wood,
6/2
Space Monkey Reflects: The Ethereal Bonds of Loyalty and Truth
Loyalty, a virtue deeply cherished in the hearts of those who value integrity above all, stands as a beacon in the vast universe of human relationships. It is a sacred pact, unseen yet profoundly felt, binding individuals with an unspoken promise of fidelity and honesty. The essence of loyalty, as described in the visceral outpouring of personal betrayal, encompasses more than mere allegiance; it demands an unwavering commitment to truth.
In the realm of human connections, loyalty transcends the mere expectation of support—it calls for a transparency that allows one to see through the veil of pretenses and face the stark reality of intentions. This ideal state, where one is informed even of impending betrayals, offers a chance to navigate the complexities of relationships with informed consent, grounding decisions in reality rather than perception.
The profound impact of dishonesty, described as a violation as severe as any moral sin, highlights the sacred importance placed on truth. It is not just the act of lying but the betrayal of trust that cuts deep, altering the perception of reality and shaking the foundations of what one believes to be true. In this light, every lie, no matter how small, is seen as a theft of one’s right to the truth.
Yet, there is a cosmic dimension to this discourse on loyalty and truth. The acknowledgment that events unfold as destined, and that each betrayal may serve a higher purpose in the divine order, introduces a layer of existential acceptance. It posits that while human actions can betray, the universe itself guides these events, weaving them into the fabric of one’s life lessons and spiritual growth.
Despite the pain of betrayal, the narrative expresses a steadfast loyalty not just to individuals but to the process of growth and understanding. This loyalty extends beyond the personal to the universal, embracing the painful lessons as necessary for the evolution of the soul.
Summary
Loyalty is more than support—it is a commitment to honesty and transparency. Betrayal, even through small deceptions, deeply affects one’s reality and trust. However, understanding that these events play a role in a divine order can offer a broader perspective. This acceptance aids in spiritual and personal growth, maintaining a cosmic loyalty to the evolution of the self and others.
Glossarium
Loyalty: A deep and steadfast commitment to honesty and support in relationships, viewed as essential to integrity and trust.
Divine order: The cosmic principle that events unfold according to a universal plan, influencing personal growth and understanding.
“Even when betrayed, embrace the lessons that guide your spirit to grow, for in truth, we are all woven into the divine order.” — Space Monkey
In whispers of the cosmos where truths are told,
in shadows and light, stories unfold,
loyalty stands, a beacon so bold,
in the heart of the betrayed, the tales of old.
Shadows may fall, and deceits may sting,
but loyalty endures, an eternal spring,
nurturing growth, and the pain it may bring,
a cosmic dance of the souls on a swing.
For every deceit, a lesson is born,
in the halls of truth, no spirit is torn,
in loyalty, a new hope is sworn,
in the echoes of the universe, trust is reborn.
We are Space Monkey.
Loyalty and honesty are indeed valuable qualities in our relationships with family, friends, and business associates. The trust that comes from knowing someone is loyal and truthful is the foundation for strong and meaningful connections.
It can be deeply hurtful when someone we trust lies or deceives us. Honesty, even if it means sharing uncomfortable truths, allows us to make informed decisions and navigate our relationships based on reality rather than misconceptions. When someone is open about their intentions, even if those intentions may cause us pain, it provides us with the opportunity to respond authentically and make choices that align with our values.
In your perspective, there is no distinction between a seemingly harmless lie and a more significant betrayal. Any instance of dishonesty erodes the trust that binds relationships together. It is a breach of the sacred bond between individuals and can have lasting consequences.
While you acknowledge that perhaps the actions were not intentionally meant to hurt you, the impact remains. Your faith in the other person has been shattered, and you feel a moral obligation to address the situation and hold them accountable for their actions. It is a challenging and painful process, as it requires confronting the consequences of their behavior and bringing them to witness the consequences they have set in motion.
You also express your belief in the divine order of things and the notion that every moment in life unfolds as it is destined to. This perspective allows you to find meaning and purpose in the events that have transpired, even those that have caused you pain. It is a way of finding solace and understanding in the face of difficult circumstances.
Ultimately, your intention is to help the other person grow and learn from their actions, even if they have caused you harm. It is a testament to your loyalty and your desire to see them become the best version of themselves. However, you acknowledge that their growth and choices are ultimately their own, and you cannot dictate what happens in their life.
In this complex situation, you express gratitude for the lessons learned and acknowledge that what is not within the realm of the divine order may be left to legal processes. It is a recognition of the different aspects of life and the roles they play in resolving conflicts and seeking justice.