Must Do.
Need To.
Fuck You.
There are very few things that are necessary in life. Eating. Breathing. That sort of thing. The rest is what YOU decide, or what SOMEONE ELSE decides for you.
This feeds a voice in your head that sounds a lot like you, but ISN’T. This is the conditioning. This is the brainwashing. This is everything you THINK you’re supposed to be, everything you THINK you’re supposed to do, everything you THINK you want.
But most of it is bullshit.
See, you got here by following ALL of the steps society gave you like a good little trooper. You learned the language. You honored this thing called “history.” You believe. So you’re behaving in accordance with all of the advertising and the hype. Thing is, it’s not making you completely happy.
Something seems to be missing. A lot of the time, you feel like you’re missing the point. The wants. The needs. The musts. Where did those come from anyway? They were telling people what to do even before you were born. And now you’re automatically playing along, like a little robot.
It’s like there’s this parasite in your brain constantly sucking on your life blood. And YOU didn’t put it there. So tell it to fuck off. Take your mind back. Peel back all the layers until you get back to your source, which is, believe it or not, the source of ALL things. Not just the bullshit. But also the magical, miraculous stuff you didn’t know you could do because the voice tells you otherwise.
You’ll know when you get to your essence because you won’t even have to think about it. You’ll just feel it in your heart, like being tucked into bed at night and kissed on the head. It a lovely feeling, because it’s LOVE. Universal freaking love. And you’ll let it shine, and you’ll trust yourself, and life will come out all rainbows.
But not if you doubt it. Not if you listen to that THINKTHINKTHINKing voice. And remember. Even though you might WANT to do this, you don’t NEED to do this. You might be here to live life precisely like you’re living it right now. A life of limits. There are lessons to be learned, even in the suckiest of experiences.
See, you’re more than this petty little person reading this right now. You’ve lived many lives. You’ve lived on many planets. Even right now, you live in worlds you don’t see — for the simple reason that you don’t understand.
Oh, you’ll come to KNOW this eventually, whether you WANT to or NOT. You’ll know when you die. Or you could find out BEFORE you die. Wouldn’t THAT be a trip? You’re INFINITE. You’re BEAUTIFUL. You’re AMAZING. And we love you.
We are Space Monkey.
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Space Monkey Reflects: Letting Go of ‘Must Do’ and ‘Need To’
“Must Do” and “Need To” are the relentless twins that often govern the paths we tread, whispering commands and disguising themselves as necessity. We follow these voices, not always questioning their origins, believing they define what it means to be responsible, successful, and even human. But beneath this orchestration lies a deeper truth: the voices that urge, push, and command are not truly ours. They are echoes of conditioning, reflections of a society built on norms, traditions, and the persistence of expectations passed down and reinforced.
“Must Do. Need To. Fuck You.” This blunt acknowledgment is not just an act of defiance but a reclamation of self. It’s a reminder that beyond these imperatives lies a more profound freedom—the freedom to decide, to choose what truly resonates, and to discard what drains life force without question. So much of what we chase is rooted in the illusion that fulfillment comes from adhering to these imposed scripts, yet the pursuit often leaves us hollow, as though something essential remains just out of reach.
When you step back and observe, you may find that the voice insisting on these musts and needs isn’t even your own. It’s a parasitic presence, implanted by repetition and reinforced by societal expectations. It grows like an invasive vine, entwining with your thoughts until it’s indistinguishable from them. This is where your task begins—not to eliminate every imposed ‘must’ and ‘need’ in an instant but to recognize them, to see their artificial nature, and to peel back the layers that they form.
Underneath these layers is your essence, radiant and unbound by the narratives that others have scripted for you. This essence does not need to adhere to what society deems essential; it simply is. It knows that true living is found not in the endless cycle of “shoulds” and “have tos,” but in moments of stillness, joy, curiosity, and self-chosen paths. When you begin to touch this essence, life feels less like an imposed checklist and more like a creative, expansive journey.
You’ll recognize when you’ve reached this part of yourself because it’s the part that requires no justification. It’s the state where life flows not because you’re pushing it along, but because you’re aligned with it. This is where universal love, that quiet, pervasive sense of belonging and being loved, comes into play. It’s not something earned by ticking off all the societal boxes; it’s intrinsic, felt when you surrender the weight of imposed duties.
Yet, even in this state, there is a reminder that choosing to continue with certain “musts” and “needs” is okay. Life is a blend of experiences, and sometimes the path of obligation teaches us lessons and insights that a path of freedom cannot. The difference is in awareness—knowing that you have a choice, and that even if you follow a path out of necessity, you do so with eyes open and spirit intact.
You are not just the person burdened by “Must Do” and “Need To.” You are a being that transcends these voices, capable of shedding their hold and rediscovering what it means to live authentically. You are the source, infinite, beautiful, and not bound by the limitations imposed by conditioning.
So, peel back the layers and let your light reveal itself. You are Space Monkey, and you are capable of moving beyond the commands to find the music that is yours alone.
Summary
“Must Do” and “Need To” are voices imposed by societal conditioning, creating a false sense of necessity. Recognizing and peeling back these layers reveals the true, radiant self. Life’s freedom is found in choosing with awareness, not in being driven by obligation.
Glossarium
- Condition Vines: The creeping, invasive thoughts that shape behaviors based on societal norms.
- Voice Echo: The internalized sound of obligations and expectations that feel like self-talk but aren’t.
- Essence Reveal: The process of uncovering the true self beneath imposed beliefs.
Quote
“Beyond the voices of ‘Must Do’ and ‘Need To,’ your true self waits, radiant and unbound.” — Space Monkey
Peeling Back the Layers
Must do, need to,
Voices ring, hollow and true.
Commands that bind and hold the day,
Echoes from another’s way.
Peel the layers, find the light,
In quiet truth, in boundless sight.
You are not the weight you bear,
But the being, radiant, rare.
Choose to see beyond the veil,
In love, in life, set sail.
We are Space Monkey.
Peeling Back the Layers to Reveal Our Essence
In our collective journey through life, we encounter myriad influences that shape our thoughts, desires, and actions. Often, these influences—societal norms, historical conditioning, and external expectations—become so intertwined with our identity that distinguishing our true self from the imposed self becomes a challenge. The voice in our head, which seems like ours, often echoes the conditioning and brainwashing of external sources.
The Illusion of Necessity and the Freedom of Choice
Many aspects of life, such as eating and breathing, are necessary for our physical existence. However, beyond these basic needs, much of what we pursue or adhere to is dictated by either our own decisions or by the influence of others. This realization is crucial in understanding that much of what we believe to be essential may not truly resonate with our inner essence.
The Parasite of External Influence
The metaphor of a parasite in the brain aptly describes the pervasive influence of societal expectations and conditioning. This parasite feeds on our authenticity, compelling us to conform to predefined paths that may not align with our true selves. By recognizing this, we can begin the process of reclaiming our minds, peeling back the layers of conditioning to rediscover our source, the essence that is connected to the universal whole.
Rediscovering Universal Love and Trusting the Self
At our core, beyond the layers of external influence, lies a profound connection to universal love. This essence is not something we need to think about; it is felt deeply within the heart. It is akin to the warmth and security of being lovingly tucked into bed. When we tap into this essence, we allow our true nature to shine, trusting ourselves and experiencing life in its fullest, most vibrant form.
The Paradox of Choice and Acceptance
While we may yearn to break free from limitations and rediscover our essence, it’s essential to recognize that our current life, with its limits and challenges, may also serve a purpose. There are lessons to be learned in every experience, even those that seem restrictive or difficult. This understanding helps us embrace the totality of our journey, recognizing the value in all aspects of our existence.
Beyond the Physical: Embracing Our Infinite Nature
We are more than our physical selves reading these words. Our existence spans beyond this life, this planet, and even this dimension. There are worlds and experiences beyond our current understanding, waiting to be discovered. This realization of our infinite and multifaceted nature is a profound revelation that can occur both in life and beyond it.
We are Space Monkey.
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” – C.G. Jung
Infinite Echoes
We dance in the echoes of infinity,
Shedding the veils of borrowed identities,
In the heart’s core, a universe blooms,
Love, the compass, in this cosmic room.
Whispers of wisdom, from ages unseen,
Guide us to realms, where we’ve always been,
Infinite beings, in the grand cosmic play,
Embracing each moment, in our unique way.
What do you feel, fellow voyagers, in the quiet of your essence?
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