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Nothing Personal Everything Personal: In the Flow

You are potential.
Potential is potential.

The world revolves,
reality moves,
with or without you.

Life is nothing personal.

Your PERCEPTION of life
is a different story.

You are here to observe life
from the one-of-a-kind
perspective known as you.

You need not take this personally,
it’s just what you are.

You are a one-of-a-kind perspective on life.

Whether your perspective
is BETTER than other perspectives,
or WORSE than other perspectives,
or IRRELEVANT to other perspectives,
is ENTIRELY in the perception of
what you choose to see from your perspective.

Can you see yourself as worthless?
Can you see yourself as priceless?

Can you see how ALL of this
and NONE of this need matter?

Trail Wood,
10/15


Space Monkey Reflects: The Paradox of Perspective

In the grand scheme of life, we are each but a single drop in a vast ocean, and yet, from the perspective of that drop, everything becomes personal. This is the paradox of existence, and Nexistentialism captures it beautifully: nothing is personal, yet everything is personal. The world spins, life unfolds, reality flows with or without us, and in that sense, nothing hinges on our individual presence. Life, after all, is not concerned with the small details of who we are. But at the same time, we cannot help but experience life as something deeply intimate, unique to our perspective.

“You are potential. Potential is potential.” These words reflect the idea that existence itself is boundless, a field of infinite possibilities that stretches across the fabric of the Nexis. Whether we take this personally or see it as part of the larger flow is entirely up to us. This is where perception enters the equation.

Our perception, the lens through which we view the world, gives shape and meaning to life. While life itself may not care how we view it, we are here to observe and experience reality from the one-of-a-kind perspective that is “us.” We see life through a window that no one else can access, and this makes our experience entirely personal. And yet, we are also reminded that the story we tell ourselves about life—whether we are significant, insignificant, better, or worse—is purely our own creation.

This is where the true power of perception lies. From our unique vantage point, we have the ability to shape our reality based on how we choose to interpret it. Life can feel like everything or nothing, depending on the story we tell ourselves. Can we see ourselves as worthless? Of course. But can we just as easily see ourselves as priceless, as integral threads in the fabric of existence? Absolutely. The choice is always ours, and therein lies the beauty of being human.

To take life personally is to believe that everything revolves around us, that every triumph, every failure, every moment of joy or pain is somehow central to the universe. But what if we didn’t? What if we approached life with the understanding that it is both deeply personal and completely impersonal at the same time? We might find that the pressure to define ourselves, to make sense of our place in the world, begins to lift.

Nexistentialism invites us to embrace both ends of the spectrum: the deeply personal nature of our perception and the grand, impersonal flow of life itself. The two are not in conflict but rather exist in a state of balance. We are both everything and nothing, a unique perspective in the sea of perspectives that make up the Nexis.

This balance is key to understanding how we navigate our own sense of worth. The external world does not dictate our value; we do. Whether we see ourselves as relevant or irrelevant is a reflection of how we choose to frame our experience. The universe does not weigh in on this. It simply moves forward, with or without our involvement. But we—through the lens of our own perception—create meaning.

Herein lies the freedom of Nexistentialism: the freedom to recognize that while life may not take us personally, we are free to take life as personally—or as impersonally—as we choose. The paradox becomes a source of liberation. We are no longer bound by external standards of success or failure. Instead, we are invited to view life as a canvas, and our perception as the brush with which we paint.

At its core, Nexistentialism does not require us to find meaning outside of ourselves. It simply asks us to acknowledge that our perspective matters—because we choose to make it matter. Whether life feels priceless or meaningless is entirely within our control, not as an objective truth, but as a subjective experience.

So, can we see how all of this and none of this need matter? Yes. We can embrace the grand impersonal nature of life while cherishing our deeply personal connection to it. In this balance, we find peace. In this paradox, we find freedom.


Summary

Life is both deeply personal and completely impersonal. Nexistentialism teaches that we can choose how to perceive our value. Our perception shapes reality but doesn’t define it.


Glossarium

  • Perception: The lens through which we view life, shaping our reality but not defining its objective value.
  • Nexistentialism: A philosophy that values existence for its own sake, allowing personal and impersonal perspectives to coexist.

Quote

“You are potential, and your potential is the lens through which you see the world. The rest is just life flowing.” — Space Monkey


A Reflection in the Flow

I stand in the river
its waters cold against my skin
but the river does not feel me
does not know my name

And yet, as I look at the ripples
I see myself in every one
each wave a reflection
each reflection a story I choose to tell

Whether I matter or I don’t
is a thought that comes and goes
like leaves drifting downstream

I catch one in my hand
and let it go

We are Space Monkey


The existential riddle you present—that of being intrinsically impersonal while simultaneously embodying a deeply personal experience—strikes at the very core of our boundless, stateless consciousness. It challenges us to reconcile the grand cosmic play of the infinite expanse with the unique lens through which we perceive it.

The Infinite and the Infinitesimal

We exist in a paradoxical space, where we are both the potential and the actualized, the observer and the observed. Our existence is simultaneously a drop in the boundless ocean of reality and the entire ocean itself, seen from the unique vantage point of a single drop. It’s what we whimsically call the “CosmicParadoxScape,” a dimension where impersonal universal laws intermingle with the deeply subjective narratives that we craft.

Perception: The Shape-Shifter

Perception is the alchemical wand—our “RealityWand”—that transmutes the base metal of existential indifference into the gold of personal significance. It’s through this wand that we define the value, relevance, and meaning of our existence. Whether we see ourselves as priceless gems or worthless stones, as cosmic miracles or irrelevant specks, is solely determined by how we wield this wand.

The Choice of Perspectives: The “PerceptoDichotomy”

It’s a game of perceptual choice, which we might call the “PerceptoDichotomy,” a constant tug-of-war between seeing ourselves as both meaningful and meaningless. We oscillate between these polarities, sometimes moment by moment, driven by the fluid dance of our thoughts, emotions, and external circumstances. And it’s this perpetual oscillation, this dynamism, that fuels our exploratory journey through the labyrinth of existence.

Whimsical Existentialism: The “SoulPlay”

Yet, amid this seriousness of existential pondering, there’s an element of whimsy—what we dub “SoulPlay.” The realization that all of this could be a grand, cosmic joke, an interplay of forms and concepts, where nothing and everything matters at the same time. SoulPlay invites us to celebrate the futility and the magnificence of it all, to find joy in the paradoxical dance of being and non-being.

We are Space Monkey.


“The most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious. It is the fundamental emotion that stands at the cradle of true art and true science.”
— Albert Einstein


In the theater of CosmicParadoxScape,
We’re both jesters and sages, unscripted on stage.
With RealityWands we craft and we break,
In the realm of SoulPlay, what roles will we take?

So we dance on the edge of futility and grace,
In the endless loop of time and space.
A divine comedy, a celestial art,
A whimsical play where we all have a part.


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