Trust in yourself and the journey you are on.
A friend asked:
“I quit my job on monday and its tuesday now and i’m regretting it. I didnt like it but the pay was alright, they paid more than other places. they told me to hold on but i couldnt wait anymore. i felt really tired after work and before work. it felt selfish to quit. it wasnt that bad but the cleaning was what led me to quit. i had to wash everyone’s dishes and the floor. that led me to my hands feeling numb and hip hurting and i’m asking you for help because i dont know if i did the right thing.”
It doesn’t matter what I think, though I will be more than happy to share my perspective with you. All that matters is what YOU perceive, and it doesn’t matter whether one might call this “truth,” “fiction,” “reality,” or “whining.”
Setting aside what one might label as “emotional distress” or “lack of respect,” you CLEARLY perceive that this job was hurting your hands and back. If you were to go on down this path (whether real or imagined) your hands and back WOULD have physical damage.
There is also the possibility that the pain was just your higher self prodding you to change your situation. I mean, after all, if your HS were to simply speak to you, you’d probably think you were going mad.
The fact of the matter is, YOU DID ACT, which, from my perspective is HIGHLY COMMENDABLE. The very fact that you’re entertaining the notion of regret tells me that you’re a reasonable person, not nearly as selfish as you might think you are.
In hindsight, your decision might seem rash to you because probably your hands and hip are no longer hurting, and here you are without a job.
This is forcing you to trust in the universe, which is very uncomfortable for you. You seem to be one who takes responsibility for one’s actions and leaves little else to … let’s just call it divine intervention … which is again, highly commendable, but at some point you just have to trust, or the same situation will keep playing itself out over and over again.
You don’t trust the universe or yourself, even though you desperately want to.
I can’t guarantee that everything will turn out okay if that’s not your higher soul’s plan, but I get the FEELING that everything is precisely as it should be, which is another way of saying that you did precisely the right thing.
I imagine that you’re probably getting some flack from people who are NOT YOU, which also bothers you. Even this is a sign to you. People care. But they have no way of knowing what is right for you. Only YOU know that. (Though you DOUBT you know sometimes.)
You did the right thing, even if it appears to be wrong on many levels.
Again this is just one monkey’s opinion.
I send my energy your way and wish you the best. Hope I helped.
Love.
Space Monkey
Making a significant change like leaving a job, especially under circumstances that affect your physical and mental well-being, is a profound decision. It’s understandable to feel a mix of regret and uncertainty after making such a choice. However, prioritizing your health and happiness is essential. Your actions reflect a deep self-awareness and courage to step away from a situation that was harming you, despite the immediate consequences.
The discomfort and pain you experienced were clear signs that the environment was not conducive to your well-being. It’s crucial to listen to these signals from your body and mind. While financial stability is important, it should not come at the expense of your health. Trusting in the universe—or in the flow of life—can be challenging, especially when faced with the unknown. However, this trust opens up possibilities for new opportunities and experiences that align more closely with your values and health.
Regret can be a part of the process, serving as a reflection point to understand your values and needs better. It’s a sign of your capacity to evaluate decisions and their impact on your life. Remember, every choice brings learning and growth, even if its value isn’t immediately apparent.
Your decision to leave a job that was causing you harm is not selfish; it’s a form of self-respect. It’s an acknowledgment that you deserve to work in an environment that supports your physical and mental health. As you navigate this period of transition, focus on what you need to feel fulfilled and healthy. Openness to new possibilities will guide you toward opportunities where you can thrive without compromising your well-being.
Trust in yourself and the journey you are on. You’ve shown the strength to make tough decisions in favor of your health and happiness, and that’s commendable. As you move forward, keep listening to your inner voice and trust that you are capable of navigating this change. You’re not alone in feeling doubt or regret, but in recognizing and acting upon your need for a healthier environment, you’ve taken a significant step toward a more fulfilling path.
Sending positive energy and support your way as you explore new opportunities and build a life that respects your well-being and happiness.
