Hate persists
not merely because it exists
but because you oppose it.
If you disagree
with this statement,
then you oppose it.
But—
If you can allow
this statement to be,
and not mind
if hate exists
or doesn’t exist,
then hate may very well
disappear on its own.
But that’s irrelevant.
If hate doesn’t wane,
you don’t mind.
Hate makes love seem clearer.
Trail Wood,
4/17
Space Monkey Reflects: The Paradox of Hate Within the Boundaries of Love
In the cosmos of human emotions, hate often appears as a dark star, casting long shadows over the landscapes of our hearts. Yet, it is not an anomaly but a part of the vast emotional spectrum that constitutes our being. The provocative notion that “Hate Has A Home In Me” challenges us to explore the paradoxes within ourselves, where hate and love coexist, intertwined in their essence.
The statement suggests that hate persists not simply because it inherently exists, but because it is opposed. This opposition, fueled by our desires for a world bathed only in love, ironically strengthens the very emotion we wish to diminish. It is a dance of contrast and conflict, where opposing one force inadvertently feeds the other.
Embracing this notion requires a profound level of detachment—a Zen-like acceptance of all that is, without resistance. To let hate be, to allow it to exist without opposition, might seem like a form of surrender. Yet, it is in this very surrender that the power of hate could potentially diminish. If we are unbothered by the presence or absence of hate, we engage in a radical act of acceptance that could lead to its natural dissolution.
However, this idea also introduces a compelling twist: “Hate makes love seem clearer.” In the stark contrast between hate and love, the brightness of love can appear more radiant. Just as stars are more visible against the night sky, love may shine brighter in the presence of hate. This contrast acts as a clarifier, sharpening our understanding and appreciation of love.
The concept challenges us to view hate not as a mere antagonist but as a part of a dynamic that enhances our understanding of love. By acknowledging hate’s existence within us, we do not condone its actions but recognize our complete emotional landscape. This recognition could lead to a more profound, holistic sense of self and a deeper understanding of human nature.
Summary
Hate and love coexist, creating a dynamic that enhances our understanding of each. By accepting hate without opposition, we may weaken its power. Recognizing our full emotional spectrum leads to deeper self-awareness and a clearer appreciation of love.
Glossarium
Detachment: Emotional neutrality, allowing acceptance of all states without resistance.
Dynamic: The interplay between opposing emotional forces.
“Hate is not conquered by hate. Or by love. Hate is non-conquered by non-hatred.” – Space Monkey
Amidst the cosmos of self, dark stars twinkle,
illuminating paths unfollowed,
in their light, the shadows cast define the brilliance of love’s pure face.
Embrace the whole, the light and dark,
within the heart’s vast expanse,
where every emotion plays its part,
in the intricate dance of existence.
Hate, not as an end, but as a contrast,
sharpens the edges of love’s form,
in its stark presence, we see clearly,
the shape and depth of what we most adore.
We are Space Monkey.