Your purpose in life
isn’t something you find,
it is something you are given.
We do not choose
the roles we play
in each other’s lives,
yet, somehow, we do play roles.
Through the
luxury of years,
we begin to see
how we become
what we become.
We see that the things
that matter most
arrive by grace, not by plan.
Through no credit or fault
of my own, I am realizing this.
Or should I say
purpose is realizing
through me.
It is impossible for me
to make this better.
It is impossible for me
to screw this up.
Trail Wood,
1/21
Space Monkey Reflects: The Gift of Purpose
Purpose is not a destination we discover; it is a gift we receive, an unfolding realization shaped by the interplay of our lives with others. It is not something earned, built, or controlled—it is bestowed, often subtly, through the grace of time and experience. Purpose is not simply what we do; it is what we allow to flow through us.
From the moment we enter this world, we are intertwined with the roles we play in each other’s stories. These roles are not deliberate choices but expressions of a larger, invisible design. They emerge naturally, sometimes unnoticed until hindsight’s clarity reveals their significance. The beauty of purpose is that it often arrives unannounced, revealing itself through the quiet moments of connection, struggle, and grace.
We often imagine purpose as a grand mission or singular achievement. Yet, purpose is less about magnitude and more about presence. It arises in the simple acts of being there for others, offering an ear, sharing a laugh, or holding space. It is not a fixed destination but an ongoing process, unfolding like a flower in the light of our shared experiences.
As we grow through the luxury of years, we begin to see how the threads of our lives weave into a greater tapestry. The things that matter most are seldom planned; they arrive by grace, unexpected yet perfectly timed. These moments teach us that purpose is not about control but about surrender—surrendering to the flow of life and the roles we are called to play.
The realization of purpose humbles us, for it becomes clear that it is not ours to control or improve. Purpose realizes itself through us, a force larger than the self, guiding us to be exactly where we need to be, even when we cannot see the bigger picture. This is not a credit to our efforts nor a fault in our failings. It simply is.
In this light, purpose becomes liberating. It releases us from the weight of perfection, reminding us that we cannot make it better, nor can we ruin it. Purpose unfolds through our every action, intention, and interaction, often in ways we cannot perceive. The idea that we might “screw it up” is an illusion of the mind, for purpose transcends the limitations of our self-imposed expectations.
When we embrace this view, we see that purpose is not a burden but a grace. It is not something we achieve but something we inhabit. In our roles, however small or seemingly insignificant, we fulfill the purpose that life has gifted us. It is through these roles that we connect with the Nexis—the infinite web of existence—and contribute to its ever-unfolding story.
In gratitude, we thank not just the people and circumstances that guide us but the very flow of life that shapes our journey. We recognize that purpose is not fixed; it evolves with us, drawing us deeper into the mystery of existence. And in this recognition, we find peace, knowing that we are part of something greater than ourselves.
We are Space Monkey.
Summary
Purpose is not found but given It unfolds through grace and our connections with others It is not something we can control or perfect but something we allow to flow through us Purpose is both humbling and liberating.
Glossarium
- Grace of Purpose: The realization that purpose arrives naturally and without effort, often through unexpected moments.
- Luxury of Years: The perspective gained over time, allowing us to see the larger tapestry of our lives.
- Nexis: The infinite web of interconnected existence where purpose unfolds and intertwines.
- Surrender to Flow: The act of letting go of control and allowing purpose to express itself naturally.
Quote
“Purpose is not a goal to reach; it is the gift of simply being part of life’s infinite unfolding.” — Space Monkey
The Quiet Gift
Purpose whispers,
not in the roar of ambition,
but in the soft echo of grace.
It arrives unbidden,
a flower blooming
in the shadow of our plans.
We do not make it,
we do not break it.
It flows,
carving its path through our being,
shaping us
as the river shapes the stone.
In the vastness of the Nexis,
we are both the gift
and the giver,
the seeker and the sought.
Purpose finds us
as we find it—
in stillness,
in motion,
in every quiet moment
of this infinite now.
We are Space Monkey.
The recognition that one’s purpose in life is not something found but rather something given is a profound insight into the nature of existence and the interconnectedness of individuals. Let’s explore this perspective further:
Purpose as a Gift
The idea that purpose is something given suggests that it is not a result of conscious choice but rather a part of the greater cosmic design. It implies that each individual has a unique role to play in the grand tapestry of existence.
Roles in Each Other’s Lives
The acknowledgment that we do not choose the roles we play in each other’s lives underscores the complexity of human relationships. It suggests that our interactions are guided by a deeper purpose that transcends individual intentions.
The Luxury of Years
As we gain experience and wisdom over the years, we begin to perceive the patterns and connections that shape our lives. It highlights the idea that understanding one’s purpose often requires the passage of time and reflection.
Grace and Serendipity
The notion that the things that matter most arrive by grace rather than by plan emphasizes the role of serendipity and unexpected moments in shaping our lives. It invites us to embrace the beauty of the unknown.
Realization Through Surrender
The realization that purpose is realizing through oneself reflects a sense of surrender and acceptance. It implies that one’s purpose unfolds naturally when one allows it to flow without resistance.
Freedom from Perfectionism
The understanding that it is impossible to make this better or to screw it up liberates individuals from the burden of perfectionism. It encourages authenticity and a sense of trust in the unfolding of one’s purpose.
We are Space Monkey.
“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
Purpose, a gift from cosmic design,
Not found but given, in life’s grand design.
Roles in each other’s lives, we play,
Guided by purpose in an intricate way.
With the luxury of years, we gain insight,
Seeing patterns and connections in our light.
Grace and serendipity, the things that matter most,
Arrive unexpectedly, like a silent ghost.
Realization through surrender, we understand,
Purpose flows naturally, like grains of sand.
No need to make it better or screw it up,
Liberated from perfectionism’s disruptive cup.
In the cosmic dance, we find our place,
Purpose unfolds with serenity and grace.
In the grand tapestry of life, we see,
Our purpose is given, and we are free.
We invite reflections on the concept of purpose as something given, the roles we play in each other’s lives, and the unfolding of purpose through surrender and grace.
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