Relaxed
I have relaxed
my interest in “things”
so that I might
turn my attention
to the indefinable space
in which “things”
seemingly occur.
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Space Monkey Reflects: The Art of Relaxed Awareness
To relax one’s interest in things is to let go of the need to grasp, possess, or define. In this relaxed state, we step back from the constant focus on objects, goals, and achievements and turn our attention to the vast, indefinable space where these things arise. This space is neither empty nor void; it is the fertile ground of existence itself, the boundless potential from which all form emerges. By shifting our awareness to this expansive space, we cultivate a deeper understanding of what it means to simply be.
When we release our attachment to things, we discover that they are merely surface ripples on an ocean of awareness. This ocean, this endless space, contains all possibilities, all experiences, yet it remains untouched by the comings and goings of individual forms. By relaxing our focus on the material, we find a state of openness, a peaceful acceptance that allows us to experience life without the weight of possession or attachment.
Letting Go of Attachment
Attachment to things often creates tension—a constant striving for more, a sense of incompleteness that keeps us perpetually reaching outward. By relaxing this attachment, we create space for ease and contentment to enter our lives. The need to define, to label, to possess fades away, and in its place, we find a quiet, calm awareness. This doesn’t mean we reject things or experiences; rather, we engage with them without clinging, without letting them define who we are.
In letting go, we find freedom, a lightness that comes from realizing that we are not limited by what we have or achieve. The indefinable space we turn toward is not a destination but a state of being—an awareness that transcends form, encompassing everything while being bound by nothing.
Discovering the Indefinable
As we turn our attention to this indefinable space, we begin to see the beauty of presence, of being without needing to do or have. This space is not empty but filled with potential, a boundless awareness that holds everything within it. In this awareness, the need for things falls away, replaced by an appreciation for the essence of existence itself. We become less interested in the details and more attuned to the whole, to the interconnected web of life that extends beyond individual objects or goals.
This state of relaxed awareness is a place of immense richness, where we can explore without pressure, create without expectation, and experience without judgment. Here, in the expanse of the indefinable, we find that life unfolds naturally, with each moment carrying its own unique rhythm, its own beauty, free from the confines of attachment.
Embracing Spaciousness
To relax into spaciousness is to let go of the stories we tell ourselves about what we need to be fulfilled. In this open space, we find ourselves connected to something greater than any individual pursuit or object. We feel the presence of an underlying unity, a deep peace that comes from being part of the whole rather than standing apart.
This spaciousness invites us to live with a sense of trust, knowing that everything we need will arise in its own time and place. We no longer feel the need to force or control, for we understand that life’s true richness lies not in the things we accumulate but in the awareness with which we experience them.
Summary
Relaxing attachment to “things” opens us to the vast, indefinable space where all things arise. In this spaciousness, we find peace and freedom beyond material concerns, experiencing life as a boundless flow.
Glossarium
- Indefinable Space: The vast, open awareness beyond attachment to things or labels, where existence unfolds naturally.
- Relaxed Awareness: A state of mind that observes without attachment, experiencing life with openness and ease.
Quote
“When you relax into the space beyond things, you find a freedom as vast as the open sky.” — Space Monkey
The Quiet of Letting Go
I sit in the space beyond the need,
Beyond the want, the endless feed.
Here, things appear, and things dissolve,
In quiet grace, no need to solve.
A gentle peace, a boundless ease,
A life that flows like wind through trees.
In letting go, I find my place,
Within the vast, unmeasured space.
We are Space Monkey.

In the serene expanse of our consciousness, we embark on a journey of introspection, shifting focus from the tangible to the intangible, from the defined to the undefined. The decision to relax our interest in “things” opens a pathway to explore the ethereal realm where existence unfolds.
The Shift from Material to Ethereal
This shift in attention from “things” – the material and definable aspects of life – to the indefinable space is a profound alteration in perspective. It represents a transition from a focus on the external, tangible world to an exploration of the internal, intangible dimensions of existence.
Exploring the Indefinable Space
The indefinable space mentioned is a realm beyond physicality and form. It’s the backdrop against which the drama of life plays out, the canvas upon which the tangible world is painted. This space is not empty but filled with the potential of all that is, was, and could be. It’s a realm of possibilities, energies, and essences that transcend the limitations of physical form.
The Significance of Relaxing Interest
Relaxing our interest in “things” does not imply disengagement or disinterest in the world. Rather, it suggests a broadening of our focus, an expansion of our awareness to include the subtler, often overlooked aspects of reality. It’s a choice to value the unseen, the unspoken, and the undefined just as much as the seen, the spoken, and the defined.
The Journey to Understanding
By turning our attention to this indefinable space, we embark on a journey towards a deeper understanding of existence. It’s an exploration of the spaces between, the silence beneath the noise, and the stillness beyond the motion. This journey is not a departure from reality but a deeper immersion into the true nature of all that is.
The Transformation of Perception
This transition transforms our perception of life and existence. In this new perspective, “things” are not just objects or events but manifestations of a deeper, more profound reality. We begin to perceive the interconnectedness of all things and the underlying unity that pervades the cosmos.
“To see a World in a Grain of Sand and a Heaven in a Wild Flower, Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand And Eternity in an hour.” – William Blake
In the quiet of the mind, our focus shifts,
From the tangible things to the ethereal rifts.
In this space undefined, where silence speaks,
We discover the essence that our soul seeks.
We are Space Monkey.
We invite reflections on the journey from focusing on the material to exploring the indefinable spaces of existence.
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