Ugly People
We’ve observed
jiggly people
hairy people
wrinkly people
but the only
ugly people
are those
who seem
unable to trust.
These people
seek control
over their looks
over their lives
over other people
over nearly
EVERYTHING.
They do not trust
that control is not necessary.
And so they try
to exert control
however they can.
Little do they know
that control is a poison
that makes them ugly.
And so they become
twisted caricatures
of themselves,
riddled with maladies
and sadness.
They trust that if
they show their sadness
they will lose control.
Or they use their sadness TO control.
And so they never quite lose control,
and they never quite trust.
And they are ugly.
But only to themselves.
Seems control and trust
cannot exist simultaneously.
We are best served
choosing one or the other.
It’s not really a choice.
Beauty is only skin deep,
but ugly comes from deep inside.
We have no wish to entertain ugly.
We have no choice but to trust.
And so we shall.
We are Space Monkey,
and we are jiggly
and hairy
and wrinkly.
But by the grace of trust,
these perceptions are beautiful.
ALL perceptions are beautiful.
In this we trust.
11/13
Space Monkey Reflects: Ugly People
We’ve all encountered them—those people who seem consumed by control, who try to manipulate everything around them, who can’t let go of the need to shape their world exactly as they see fit. But the ugliness we perceive in these people isn’t about their appearance. It has nothing to do with jiggly bodies, hairy faces, or wrinkled skin. The only ugliness that truly exists is the inability to trust.
These people, the ones who cling tightly to control, do so because they are afraid. They seek control over their looks, their lives, and even the people around them because they can’t trust the world to unfold on its own. They believe that if they lose control, they will lose everything—including themselves. But this is a trap, a self-created prison that only deepens their misery.
The truth is that control is a poison, one that eats away at the soul. When you live your life trying to control every outcome, every interaction, you slowly become a twisted caricature of yourself. You turn into someone who is no longer in touch with their own humanity, someone who is constantly riddled with fear, anxiety, and sadness. You may look in the mirror and not even recognize the person staring back at you because your need for control has overshadowed your true self.
And so, they become ugly—not in the way they look, but in the way they live. They are trapped in a cycle of mistrust and control, unable to see the beauty that exists in letting go. They trust that if they show their sadness or vulnerability, they will lose control, and that keeps them locked in their patterns. They may even use their sadness as a weapon, manipulating others to keep control. But this isn’t living—it’s survival. And survival at the cost of true freedom is its own kind of death.
Control and trust cannot coexist. You have to choose one or the other. If you choose control, you will live a life of constant struggle, always trying to maintain your grip on a world that refuses to be controlled. But if you choose trust, you open yourself to the beauty of life as it is, not as you wish it to be. You allow yourself to be vulnerable, to let go of the need to manage every detail, and in doing so, you find freedom.
Beauty comes from trust. It comes from the willingness to surrender to the flow of life, to allow yourself to be jiggly, hairy, wrinkly, and still know that you are beautiful. Because beauty isn’t about perfection—it’s about authenticity. It’s about embracing all that you are and trusting that you are enough.
We are Space Monkey, and we are jiggly, hairy, and wrinkly. But we trust in the process, and in that trust, we find beauty. Ugly only comes from within when we forget this. All perceptions are beautiful when we allow ourselves to trust.
Summary
Ugliness comes from the inability to trust, not from physical appearance. People who seek control over every aspect of their lives become trapped in a cycle of fear and manipulation, while those who choose trust find freedom and beauty in their authentic selves.
Glossarium
Control Poison: The toxic effect of trying to control all aspects of life, which leads to emotional and spiritual ugliness.
Trust-Beauty Connection: The idea that beauty comes from trusting life and letting go of control, allowing one’s true self to shine.
Twisted Caricature: The transformation of a person’s true self into something unrecognizable due to their obsession with control.
Quote
“Beauty comes from trust. Ugliness comes from control. The choice is yours, but the results are unmistakable.” — Space Monkey
The Release of Control
I let go,
Of the need to control,
Of the fear that grips me.
And in the letting go,
I find myself.
No longer twisted,
No longer afraid,
I trust.
And in this trust,
I find beauty.
We are Space Monkey.
The Spectrum of Human Variety
Our observations reflect the diverse tapestry of human experience. We come in all shapes, sizes, and appearances, each unique and beautiful in our own way. Yet, we shine a light on a particular aspect of human existence—the struggle between trust and control.
The Quest for Control
There are those among us who seek control as a lifeline, a means to navigate the unpredictable currents of life. They yearn for dominion over their circumstances, their appearances, and the people around them. This quest for control can manifest as a relentless pursuit of perfection, a desire to micromanage every aspect of life, or an attempt to manipulate others.
The Poison of Control
Our words draw attention to the toxicity of excessive control. It is a poison that seeps into the very core of one’s being, distorting their essence. Those who grasp too tightly at control find themselves entangled in a web of anxiety, insecurity, and an unquenchable thirst for power. In their pursuit, they become twisted caricatures of themselves, their souls burdened with maladies and sadness.
The Illusion of Trust and Control
Trust and control exist on opposite ends of the emotional spectrum. Like the ebb and flow of the tides, they cannot coexist simultaneously. Those who cling to control do so out of fear, fearing that if they loosen their grip, chaos will ensue. They believe that by maintaining control, they can ward off vulnerability and pain.
The Path of Trust
But our wisdom guides us toward another path—the path of trust. Trusting in the flow of life, in the wisdom of the universe, and in the innate beauty of every perception. Trust is the antidote to the poison of control. It allows us to surrender to the moment, to embrace the jiggly, the hairy, the wrinkly, and all the nuances of human existence.
The Beauty of Trust
In the space of trust, perceptions transform into beauty. We become free to be our authentic selves, without the suffocating weight of control. Trusting in the universe’s unfolding, we discover that ALL perceptions are beautiful, for they are authentic expressions of life’s myriad facets.
Embracing Trust
As we journey through the cosmic expanse, we choose to embrace trust. Trust in the beauty of imperfection, trust in the unpredictability of life, and trust in the profound interconnectedness of all that exists. In this trust, we find freedom, authenticity, and the pure, unblemished beauty that resides within us all.
A Whimsical Note
In the whimsiwords of existence, we celebrate the jiggly, the hairy, the wrinkly, and all the quirks that make us uniquely beautiful. We revel in the grace of trust, allowing it to illuminate our path as we traverse the cosmic realms.
Do you, dear traveler, find beauty in trust, and have you witnessed the transformation it brings to your perceptions?
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