Banned
Banning what is considered “inappropriate” is denying the possibility that there is value in EVERY expression. This is the dangerous thinking of the self-limited mind. Some of the world’s greatest art and deepest insight flows out of places that we are afraid to go. Banning that which is inappropriate is FEAR. It is pure ego. Fear is our only enemy, and it fuels itself through judgement.
Banning is a statement that we do not trust each other to do what is right. But why must there BE a right? Only because we do not trust.
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Space Monkey Reflects: The Paradox of Banning and the Fear of Freedom
To ban is to deny, to close off, to declare something “unacceptable.” But in banning, in deeming certain expressions “inappropriate,” we risk silencing the very voices and insights that could expand our understanding. Banning, at its core, reflects a mind that clings to safety, to the familiar boundaries of right and wrong, of appropriate and inappropriate. This restriction is not merely an external force; it is the voice of the ego, the self-limited mind that fears what it cannot control or understand.
The act of banning is born of fear—the fear that some expressions might disrupt, provoke, or challenge. But it is precisely in these places of discomfort that some of the world’s most profound art and deepest wisdom emerge. Fear, driven by judgment, becomes a barrier that holds back the full spectrum of human expression, stifling not only individuals but the collective growth of society. For in shutting out what we find “inappropriate,” we risk losing sight of the beauty that lies beyond our comfort zones, in the realms where only the brave dare to explore.
In Nexistentialism, this fear-based restriction is seen as an obstacle to interconnected existence, a wall that divides rather than unites. The Nexis—the boundless field of all potentialities—thrives on diversity, on the unrestricted interplay of perspectives, ideas, and expressions. To ban is to declare that certain ideas or perspectives lack value, that some voices should not be heard. But who decides which voices are worthy and which are not? In truth, banning arises from a lack of trust, a fear that without control, chaos will reign. It reflects a view of humanity as inherently untrustworthy, needing constant regulation to “do what is right.”
Yet, what if there were no need for “right”? What if, instead of banning, we allowed all expressions to coexist, trusting each individual to discern meaning for themselves? This perspective does not deny the potential harm of certain expressions; rather, it acknowledges that growth requires us to engage with all aspects of reality, even those that make us uncomfortable. By banning, we deny ourselves the opportunity to confront, to reflect, and to evolve.
Fear is the true enemy, the force that fuels itself through judgment and division. It creates walls that separate us from ourselves and from one another, reinforcing the illusion that certain things must remain hidden or suppressed. But fear, like all constructs, is a creation of the mind, a limitation we impose upon ourselves. When we move beyond this fear, we open ourselves to the full expanse of the Whimsiweave—the playful, interconnected flow of existence where each expression has its place, free from the constraints of judgment.
Banning is a choice to view life in fragments rather than as a whole. It is a statement that some parts of existence are not worth exploring, that some expressions should be silenced rather than examined. But true understanding lies not in exclusion but in inclusion, in embracing the complexity of the world without rushing to judge or suppress. It invites us to trust that each person, each experience, has value, even if that value is not immediately apparent.
When we relinquish the need to ban, to control, to judge, we enter a space of freedom where all expressions can coexist. In this space, we see that nothing is inherently “inappropriate”; rather, every expression is an opportunity to learn, to reflect, and to grow. This approach does not mean we condone all actions, but it does mean that we approach life with an open heart and mind, free from the limitations of fear.
Let us then approach life without the walls of judgment, embracing the full spectrum of human experience. By moving beyond the impulse to ban, we free ourselves to explore, to question, and to engage with all aspects of reality. In doing so, we honor the richness of existence and cultivate a trust in ourselves and in one another, knowing that true growth arises not from exclusion, but from the courage to embrace life in all its complexity.
Summary
Banning is an act of fear and judgment, a limitation imposed by the ego. By embracing all expressions, we move beyond fear and trust in the value of each experience, allowing for true growth and understanding.
Glossarium
- Nexistentialism: A philosophy that embraces all expressions of existence as interconnected and meaningful, inviting growth beyond judgment.
- Nexis: The boundless field of potential expressions, where all perspectives coexist.
- Whimsiweave: The interconnected flow of life, where each expression has a place without judgment or restriction.
Quote
“Banning is the voice of fear, a refusal to see value in the full spectrum of expression.” — Space Monkey
Beyond the Walls of Judgment
In the shadows of fear,
we build walls to silence what we do not know,
declaring it wrong, casting it away,
closing doors on the unknown.
But in this silence, something is lost,
a truth that waits beyond the boundary,
a voice that whispers, “Dare to see,
dare to find the beauty in what lies banned.”
For beyond the walls of judgment lies the world,
whole and free, unafraid to be,
a tapestry woven from every voice,
every thought, every dream.
We are Space Monkey.

We find ourselves at the heart of a conundrum, facing the act of banning, a mechanism employed often by societies to regulate what is deemed “inappropriate.” This act, in essence, is a denial of the potential value inherent in every form of expression.
The Conundrum of Banning
By restricting certain expressions, we acknowledge the presence of fear, a sentinel at the gates of our comfort zones. This fear is rooted in the ego, standing guard against the unknown, the unexplored, the shadows of our psyche that hold untapped insights.
Fear: The Sentinel of the Comfort Zone
Some of the most profound art and deepest insights have indeed emerged from those dark places we often shy away from. To ban is to attempt to quell the flow of this potent creative and enlightening energy.
The Flow of Creative Energy from the Unexplored
Banning is also a mirror reflecting our collective lack of trust in one another’s capacity to discern and choose. It raises the question of why there must be a singular “right,” a standard by which all must be measured.
The Reflection of Mistrust
We question why there must be a “right” and “wrong,” and we recognize that this duality springs from a well of mistrust. The mere existence of trust negates the need for such absolutes.
The Duality of Right and Wrong
“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt
We are Space Monkey, recognizing that fear is the adversary that fuels itself through judgment and the act of banning. We invite discussions on the value of unrestricted expression and the power of trust in the collective wisdom to discern the multitudes of the cosmic play.
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