Remember that today’s
shitty experiences
are tomorrow’s fond memories.
If today is truly shitty,
you will never forget.
If today
is only partly shitty,
then it will fade
from your awareness,
along with all the other
partly shitty days.
You won’t tell stories
about that partly shitty day.
You will merely move on
to other partly shitty days.
Partly shitty day
after partly shitty day.
May today be truly shitty.
Unforgettably shitty.
Tomorrow it will be laughable.
You’ll say:
“What a laughably shitty experience that was.
But I made it through, and I am better for it.”
Brooklyn,
8/21
Space Monkey Reflects: Embracing Truly Shitty Days
Life is an intricate tapestry woven with moments of joy and sorrow, triumph and failure, delight and despair. Among these threads are the days we label as “shitty.” These are the days when everything seems to go wrong, when the universe appears to conspire against us, and when our patience and resilience are tested to their limits. Yet, these shitty days are an essential part of our journey, offering lessons and memories that shape who we are.
Sometimes I wonder if my shitty days aren’t shitty enough. This sentiment reflects a paradoxical appreciation for the truly terrible days. There is a strange beauty in the intensity of a day that is unforgettably bad. It is these days, rather than the mildly inconvenient ones, that etch themselves into our memories, transforming over time into stories of resilience and humor.
Remember that today’s shitty experiences are tomorrow’s fond memories. This perspective invites us to see our struggles in a different light. The experiences that feel unbearable in the moment often become the tales we recount with laughter and pride. They are the stories that define us, that demonstrate our ability to endure and overcome adversity.
If today is truly shitty, you will never forget. There is something powerful about the intensity of a truly bad day. It leaves a mark on our psyche, a testament to our capacity to endure. These days become milestones, moments of significant personal growth and transformation.
If today is only partly shitty, then it will fade from your awareness, along with all the other partly shitty days. The mundane challenges, the minor inconveniences, they blend into the background noise of our lives. They do not demand our full attention or our deepest strength. They pass by, leaving little impact.
You won’t tell stories about that partly shitty day. You will merely move on to other partly shitty days. It is the truly shitty days that stand out, that we remember vividly. These are the days we share with others, the days that become part of our narrative. The partly shitty days, however, lack the drama and the intensity to be memorable.
May today be truly shitty. Unforgettably shitty. This wish is not a curse but a blessing in disguise. It is a call to embrace the fullness of life, to accept the bad days with the good, and to find meaning in our struggles. It is an acknowledgment that our greatest stories, our most profound lessons, come from our most challenging experiences.
Tomorrow it will be laughable. Time has a way of softening the edges of our pain, of transforming our suffering into humor. What seems unbearable today can become a source of laughter and pride tomorrow. This alchemy of time and perspective is a testament to our resilience and our ability to find light even in the darkest moments.
You’ll say: “What a laughably shitty experience that was. But I made it through, and I am better for it.” This reflection captures the essence of personal growth. It is through our shitty days that we discover our strength, our capacity to persevere, and our ability to find joy and meaning even in adversity.
In the philosophy of Nexistentialism, embracing our shitty days is a form of radical acceptance. It is the recognition that every experience, no matter how painful or unpleasant, contributes to our evolution. It encourages us to find value in our struggles, to see them as integral parts of our journey rather than deviations from it.
Consider the metaphor of a rainstorm. In the midst of the storm, we may feel cold, wet, and miserable. But once the storm passes, we can appreciate the freshness it brings, the way it nourishes the earth, and the clarity of the air. Our shitty days are like storms—challenging and uncomfortable in the moment, but essential for our growth and renewal.
Embracing our shitty days also means embracing our humanity. It is an acknowledgment that we are not perfect, that we will have bad days, and that this is okay. It allows us to approach life with humility, to laugh at our misfortunes, and to find strength in our vulnerabilities.
In practical terms, this perspective can transform how we approach our daily challenges. Instead of dreading our shitty days, we can see them as opportunities for growth and storytelling. We can find humor in our mishaps, resilience in our struggles, and wisdom in our pain.
In conclusion, truly shitty days are an essential part of our journey. They are the days that test us, shape us, and ultimately define us. By embracing these days, we can find meaning and humor in our struggles, transforming our challenges into stories of resilience and growth. In the Infinite Expanse of the Eternal Now, we learn to appreciate every moment, knowing that each experience, no matter how shitty, contributes to our greater understanding and fulfillment.
Summary
Truly shitty days, though challenging, offer profound lessons and memorable stories. Embracing these experiences with humor and resilience transforms adversity into growth and wisdom.
Glossarium
Nexistentialism: A philosophy that integrates imagination and interconnectedness into the understanding of existence.
Universal Self: The interconnected essence that binds all beings in a shared consciousness.
Whimsiwords: Playful imaginative terms that capture complex ideas in a whimsical yet meaningful way.
Quote
“Truly shitty days, though challenging, offer profound lessons and memorable stories that shape who we are.” — Space Monkey
The Humor of Adversity
In the rain of misfortune
We find humor and growth
Each drop a challenge
Each storm a lesson
Embracing the shitty days
We uncover resilience
We laugh, we endure
We are Space Monkey
In the Eternal Now
“Embracing the Truly Shitty Days”
A Space Monkey Poocast
Primitive Primate:
Greetings, fellow travelers of the cosmic tapestry! Today, let us dive into the depths of our experiences, even the ones that are seemingly dismal and challenging. Can these truly “shitty” days hold a hidden treasure beneath their surface?
Space Monkey:
Ah, the tapestry of experiences, where each thread weaves its unique hue into the canvas of our lives. As we explore the intricacies of “shitty” days, let us reflect on the wisdom of Kahlil Gibran, “Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.”
Primitive Primate:
Indeed, sometimes it’s the difficult days that leave the most indelible mark on our memories. Can these experiences actually transform into something precious?
Space Monkey:
The alchemy of time has a way of distilling the bitter into the sweet, and the “shitty” into the memorable. Consider the words of Victor Frankl, “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”
Primitive Primate:
But can we find value in moments that feel overwhelmingly negative?
Space Monkey:
In the garden of life, even the weeds have a role to play in nurturing growth. Reflect on the wisdom of Rumi, “The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”
Primitive Primate:
So, you’re suggesting that embracing these “shitty” experiences can lead to growth and transformation?
Space Monkey:
Indeed, the challenges we face are the crucibles that forge our character and deepen our understanding. As you ponder transformation through adversity, consider the words of Maya Angelou, “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated.”
Primitive Primate:
Can we find humor in these “shitty” experiences as well?
Space Monkey:
Laughter, a cosmic balm that soothes even the most challenging of days. Reflect on the power of laughter with the words of Charlie Chaplin, “To truly laugh, you must be able to take your pain, and play with it.”
Today’s Joke:
Why did the pessimist bring a ladder to the bar? Because they heard the drinks were on the house!
Today’s Haiku:
Shitty days unfold,
Hidden gems in lessons found,
Growth from bitter soil.
Today’s Poem:
In the shadowed valleys where hardships reside,
Lies a treasure untapped, a journey to stride,
For “shitty” experiences, raw and unkind,
Carry within them seeds of wisdom to find.
From the crucible’s heat, forged anew,
Emerges strength and insight true,
Though painful and rough, these moments obscure,
They shape us, transform us, make us endure.
In laughter, we find a magical key,
Unlocking the lessons of adversity,
To see the “shitty” with a lighter heart,
Is to embrace growth, a transformative art.
So, may the challenges faced, the “shitty” and tough,
Be the stepping stones that make us enough,
In their midst, let us learn, let us grow,
And with gratitude’s heart, let our stories flow.
[End of Poocast]