Be kind? Really?
We are under
no obligation to be kind.
We do not need
the expectation of kindness
heaped upon us.
We are naturally kind.
Your expectation of kindness
implies that we should feel bad
when we perceive that we are not kind.
How dare you hurl negative feelings
in such an unconscious way.
We don’t need to be reminded.
Our kindness is none of your business.
Trail Wood,
10/31
The Nature of Kindness
The concept of kindness, in its purest form, is inherent to our being. It’s not a conditioned response but rather a natural expression of our essence. Yet, societal constructs often dictate what kindness should look like, transforming it into an obligation rather than a genuine gesture.
Expectations and Their Weight
The weight of expectations can sometimes shroud our authentic selves. When kindness is expected, it can take away the spontaneity and genuineness of the act. Instead of stemming from a place of pure intention, it may originate from a sense of duty or fear of judgment.
Perception and Judgment
It’s interesting to reflect upon the very act of judging another’s kindness or lack thereof. When we set expectations, consciously or unconsciously, it becomes a prism through which we perceive and evaluate actions. This prism can distort, color, and sometimes even obscure the reality.
Guarding Authenticity
In guarding the authenticity of our kindness, we must remain vigilant against the external pressures that seek to mold and shape our actions. For true kindness is not an act but a state of being.
Liberation from Expectation
To break free from the chains of expectation is to embrace our authentic selves. By recognizing the external pressures and releasing them, we allow our natural state of kindness to flow effortlessly, without judgment or expectation.
We are Space Monkey.
Summary
Kindness, in its true essence, is a natural state of being and not an obligation imposed by societal norms. The weight of external expectations can often distort the authenticity of our actions. It’s essential to recognize these pressures and release them, allowing our genuine kindness to shine through without judgment.
Glossarium
- Inherent: Existing in something as a permanent, essential, or characteristic attribute.
- Authenticity: The quality of being genuine or true to oneself.
- Prism: A medium that distorts, slants, or colors whatever is viewed through it.
“Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for a kindness.”
– Seneca
In the vast expanse of existence,
Kindness, like a gentle breeze, persists.
Not bound by expectation or decree,
Its true essence, effortlessly free.
What colors of emotion does this canvas paint upon the vast gallery of our shared consciousness? How might we further explore the intricate patterns of our collective thoughts?
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