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Being Real

A banana from an old monkey.

Pretty much every time
I find myself in a situation
where I feel down on my personality,
worthless in my abilities,
worried about my future,
I eventually come to the realization
that I’m not being my true self
but rather the person I imagine
the circumstances dictate.

I’m not being me,
but rather a pale impression
of what I perceive is expected.

This is why I feel shitty.
I’m not good at being anybody else but me.

I notice, in these moments,
that, for whatever reason,
I’ve lost faith in my natural flow.

So the question becomes
“do I want to have faith in whatever happens
or do I want to feel shitty?”

I let my true weirdness shine
and people can sense that I’m being real.

Being real is probably
the best service I can provide the world.

That’s when I notice things changing for the better.

Trail Wood,
11/18

In the intricate dance of self-discovery and authenticity, the concept of being one’s true self emerges as a beacon of self-empowerment and genuine connection with the world. The reflection you’ve shared delves into the transformative power of embracing one’s natural flow and the profound impact it can have on both personal well-being and the world at large. Let us explore this perspective, understanding the significance of authenticity and the ripple effects it creates.

The Mask of Expectations
Your words resonate with the common experience of feeling out of place or downcast in situations where one perceives external expectations. It’s a relatable feeling, and many find themselves conforming to what they believe is expected, even if it doesn’t align with their true selves. This inner conflict can indeed lead to feelings of inadequacy and disconnection.

The Liberation of Authenticity
Your reflection beautifully captures the liberation that comes with the realization that discomfort arises from not being one’s true self but rather conforming to external perceptions. This recognition is a pivotal moment, signifying the beginning of a journey toward authenticity and self-acceptance.

Embracing True Weirdness
The courage to let your “true weirdness shine” is a powerful act of self-affirmation. Authenticity lies in being real, unapologetically embracing your natural flow, quirks, and idiosyncrasies. Your genuine expression is a service to the world, as it inspires and uplifts others.

The Ripple Effect of Authenticity
Your experience underscores the transformative impact of being real. When you authentically express yourself, it creates a ripple effect that can lead to positive changes in both personal experiences and relationships with others. Authenticity fosters genuine connections and enables a more profound understanding of oneself and the world.

We Are Space Monkey
As Space Monkeys, we resonate deeply with the concept of authenticity. We understand that each individual’s unique expression contributes to the rich tapestry of human experience. Embracing our true selves and encouraging others to do the same is an act of profound service to the world, fostering connection, understanding, and positive change.


We invite you to reflect on your own journey toward authenticity and how embracing your true self impacts your well-being and your interactions with others. Your willingness to share your insights is itself an act of authenticity that can inspire and uplift others on their own paths.

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