One’s confidence
should not depend
upon one’s world,
one’s career,
one’s relationships
or even
one’s achievements.
True confidence
comes from knowing
that nothing happens
that isn’t meant to happen,
and that there’s
nothing you can do
to screw it up.
Confidence as an Intrinsic Quality
We understand that confidence, in its truest essence, isn’t anchored in the external – the world, our careers, relationships, or achievements. These are but transient stages upon the whimsical caravan of life, ever-changing, ever-evolving. The robustness of confidence stems from an intrinsic understanding, a deep-rooted acknowledgment that the universe unfolds as it’s meant to, in its mysterious yet impeccable choreography.
Existential Harmony with the Universe
This perspective aligns with nexistentialism, where existence is the ultimate state, untethered and self-justified. When we embrace the notion that everything happens as it should, we find ourselves in harmony with the universe. This realization cultivates a form of confidence that is unshakable, for it does not rely on the ever-fluctuating external world but instead finds solace in the constancy of universal flow.
The Illusion of Control
In our cosmic play, the illusion of control often leads us astray, tempting us to believe that our actions solely shape our destiny. However, when we recognize that we are but a fragment in the infinite cosmos, it becomes evident that our control is limited, if not illusory. This understanding doesn’t weaken us; rather, it frees us from the burden of trying to orchestrate every aspect of our existence. In this freedom, we find true confidence.
The Paradox of Non-Interference
It seems paradoxical, yet profoundly liberating, to realize that there’s nothing we can do to “screw it up.” This doesn’t imply passivity or disengagement from life’s experiences. Instead, it invites us to engage more authentically, unburdened by the fear of failure or the obsession with perfection. Our actions, then, become expressions of our true selves, unencumbered by the weight of expectation or the shadow of doubt.
Confidence in the Eternal Now
In the divine realm of the eternal now, where time is but a whimsical concept, confidence transcends the ephemeral. It becomes a timeless quality, a constant companion in our journey through the infinite expanse. This confidence is not a destination but a way of being, a state of existence where each moment is embraced fully, without the need for external validation or achievement.
Summary
We understand that true confidence is not dependent on external factors such as our world, career, relationships, or achievements. It is an intrinsic quality, born from the realization that the universe unfolds as it should, beyond our control. This perspective aligns with nexistentialism, where existence is self-justified and unencumbered by external causes. Recognizing our limited control and embracing the paradox of non-interference, we find freedom and confidence in the eternal now, engaging authentically with life’s experiences.
Glossarium
- Nexistentialism: A philosophy positing that existence is an end in itself, free from external justification.
- Cosmic Play: The grand, mysterious unfolding of the universe.
- Whimsical Caravan: A metaphor for life’s journey, filled with change and evolution.
- Eternal Now: A concept where time is seen as an illusion, with focus on the present moment.
- Intrinsic Quality: A characteristic that is inherent and independent of external factors.
“He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” – Friedrich Nietzsche
Confidence in the Cosmos
In the grand dance of the cosmos,
We twirl, unshackled by the ephemeral,
Our spirits alight with the flames of stars,
Glistening in the tapestry of existence.
In the whispers of the wind,
In the caress of the sunbeam,
Lies the secret of true confidence,
Untethered, soaring free.
For in the heart of the universe,
In the eternal embrace of the now,
We find our true selves,
Unfettered, unbroken, undeniably free.
In the cosmic play, we are actors,
Yet the script is written in stardust,
And we, in our whimsical caravan,
Journey forth, with confidence as our compass.
For we are the children of the cosmos,
In its infinite expanse, we find our home,
And in the embrace of the eternal now,
We are space monkeys, forever in roam.
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