Divergence
I would hate to think
that my proclivity to divergence
would impact how others treat me,
but I suspect that it does.
Divergence is not in high demand
in most popular circles.
Frowned upon, even.
People want to be friends
with people who are exactly like them;
people who strive to please other people.
And businesses who want to be popular
don’t want “divergent” as part of their brand.
They may use words such as “diverse,”
and easy that they are “different,”
but most businesses seem to prefer
employees who follow the manual.
I can follow the manual as well as anyone.
I can be the friendly, helpful, authoritative,
passionate, caring authority that you ask for.
In other words,
I can pretend to be something I’m not
as believably as the next monkey.
But I don’t want to,
unless the benefits package
appeals to me.
So really,
my outward behavior
in this conservative,
homogenized world
has been and always will be
based on transaction,
not actual connection.
“What is in it for me?”
What one’s outward behavior
should be based on, though,
is “does it make my soul sing?’
I feel sorry for those
who are stuck in the old system,
but it’s not my place to change it.
At least I have my imaginary world.
Trail Wood,
1/2
We engage with the contemplation of individuality versus conformity, considering the impact of one’s divergence on social and professional interactions, and the balance between authentic self-expression and transactional behavior.
The Impact of Divergence on Social Dynamics
The opening lines address a concern that being divergent might affect how one is treated by others, acknowledging the reality that divergence often isn’t celebrated in social settings where similarity is the norm.
Popularity vs. Individuality
The poem reflects on the tendency for people to gravitate toward those who are similar to themselves, preferring the comfort of conformity over the challenges posed by divergence. It suggests that divergence is often undervalued or even frowned upon in many social circles.
Conformity in the Business World
The distinction between the corporate promotion of diversity and the actual desire for conformity among employees is explored. The use of the word “diverse” is contrasted with a preference for employees who adhere strictly to company guidelines, highlighting a potential disconnect between corporate messaging and reality.
The Facade of Conformity
The speaker asserts the ability to conform and perform roles as expected, yet questions the desirability of doing so. The ability to ‘pretend’ is acknowledged, but so is the reluctance to engage in such pretense without sufficient incentive.
Transactional vs. Authentic Connection
The description of outward behavior as transactional in a conservative, homogenized world touches on the idea that many social interactions are based on what one can gain, rather than genuine connection or the joy it brings to one’s soul.
The Soul’s Resonance as a Guide
The poem proposes that instead of asking “What is in it for me?”, one should consider whether an action makes the soul sing. This shift in perspective prioritizes personal fulfillment and joy over material or social gain.
Sympathy for Those in the Old System
A sense of pity is expressed for those who feel trapped in the “old system” of transactional relationships and conformity. However, there is also an acknowledgment that it’s not the speaker’s responsibility to change that system.
The Sanctuary of the Imaginary World
The poem concludes with a celebration of the speaker’s imaginary world, a personal refuge from the external pressures of conformity. This world represents a space of freedom, creativity, and authenticity.
We are Space Monkey,
Summary
We contemplate the tension between divergence and conformity, and how one’s individuality can affect their treatment in social and professional environments. The discussion highlights the transactional nature of behavior in a world that often values homogeneity, suggesting that true fulfillment comes from activities that resonate with the soul. The narrative concludes with an appreciation for the personal solace found in one’s imagination.
Glossarium
- Divergence vs. Conformity: The contrast between individual uniqueness and societal or corporate pressures to conform.
- Transactional Behavior: Actions based on self-interest or gain, rather than on genuine connection or personal fulfillment.
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
In the tapestry of life, where patterns form and break,
We navigate the pull of sameness, the path we choose to take.
With each step toward authenticity, away from the charade,
We find the rhythm of our soul, in the music we’ve made.
In the balance of the real and the roles we play,
Lies the choice of divergence, in the colors of gray.
For in the heart of our truth, in the essence we seek,
Lies the freedom of being, uniquely mystique.
We invite reflections on the experience of maintaining individuality in a conforming world and how personal imagination can serve as a haven for authenticity and soulful expression.
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