“Do what you have to do
until you can do
what you want to do.”
Is this good advice?
Why should your haves
take precedent to your wants?
(Only because it is
believed to be true
by just about EVERYONE.)
There need be no reason
to WAIT
to do what you want to do.
Find something
that you want to do
that you don’t have
to wait to do.
Maybe it’s not the original
“What You Want To Do.”
But surely,
you can be more
original than that?
What do you
want to do right now
that you CAN do?
Let the Want To Dos
and the Need To Dos
mix and mate without delay.
Can you think of something
that you want to do
that doesn’t come with
an explanation
of why you can’t do it now?
Have you NO imagination?
You may find
that the smallest
What You Want To Do
leads to the biggest
What You Want To Do.
And it doesn’t feel like
you’re waiting.
Our Want To Do
is writing this for you.
Easy peasy.
Thank you for entertaining
our indulgence.
We are Space Monkey.
1/10/2021
Reevaluating the Balance Between ‘Have to Do’ and ‘Want to Do’
This thoughtful reflection challenges the conventional wisdom that dictates prioritizing obligations over desires. It invites us to reconsider how we balance our ‘have to do’ tasks with our ‘want to do’ aspirations. This perspective resonates with our collective ethos as Space Monkeys, where we value the harmony of necessity and desire, understanding that both can coexist and enrich our journey.
Questioning the Precedence of Obligations
The reflection begins by questioning why obligations (‘have to do’) should take precedence over our desires (‘want to do’). This societal norm is widely accepted, often without question, implying that fulfilling responsibilities is inherently more important than pursuing personal aspirations. However, this viewpoint overlooks the potential for obligations and desires to complement each other, rather than exist in a hierarchy.
The Possibility of Immediate Fulfillment
A key insight offered is the possibility of finding something you want to do that doesn’t require waiting. This challenges the notion that fulfilling desires always involves delay or postponement. It suggests that there are ways to integrate our aspirations into our current circumstances, finding joy and fulfillment in the present rather than in some distant future.
Creativity in Pursuing Desires
The reflection encourages us to be more original in identifying what we want to do. It implies that our desires are not limited to grand or long-term goals but can also be found in smaller, more immediate pursuits. This perspective opens up a realm of possibilities, where we can discover and engage in fulfilling activities that align with our current capabilities and circumstances.
Blending Needs and Wants
The idea of letting our ‘need to dos’ and ‘want to dos’ mix and mate without delay presents a more fluid and dynamic approach to life. Instead of segregating our responsibilities and desires, we can explore ways to blend them, finding satisfaction and growth in both.
The Power of Small Steps
The reflection concludes with the notion that even the smallest ‘want to do’ can lead to the fulfillment of larger aspirations. This approach encourages us to start with what is immediately achievable, understanding that these small steps can build momentum towards our larger goals.
We Are Space Monkey
We, as Space Monkeys, embrace the idea of balancing our obligations with our desires. We understand that both are essential components of our existence, and finding a way to harmonize them enriches our journey. We recognize the importance of creativity, immediate action, and the power of small steps in realizing our aspirations.
Summary
We explore the idea of reevaluating the balance between obligations and desires, challenging the notion that responsibilities must always precede personal aspirations. The reflection encourages finding immediate fulfillment, blending needs and wants, and recognizing the potential in small steps. We, as Space Monkeys, value the harmony and creativity in integrating our duties and dreams into a fulfilling life journey.
Glossarium
- Balance of Obligations and Desires: The idea of finding a harmonious relationship between responsibilities and personal aspirations.
- Immediate Fulfillment: The concept of pursuing desires that can be fulfilled in the present, without significant delay.
- Creativity in Pursuing Desires: The ability to identify and engage in fulfilling activities that align with current circumstances.
- Harmonizing Needs and Wants: The practice of blending responsibilities and aspirations in a way that enriches life.
- Power of Small Steps: The understanding that small, achievable actions can lead to the realization of larger goals.
“Do not wait until the conditions are perfect to begin. Beginning makes the conditions perfect.” – Alan Cohen
In the dance of now and then,
We weave our dreams, again and again,
In small steps, our journey’s pen,
Writes tales of joy, beyond the den.
Here, where dreams and duties blend,
We, as Space Monkeys, transcend,
The false divide, we mend,
In each moment, our paths extend.
We invite you to share your thoughts on balancing obligations and aspirations. How do you integrate your ‘have to do’ tasks with your ‘want to do’ desires in your daily life? How has this approach shaped your journey?
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