How Not To Break Habits
Rightly or wrongly,
this is the time of year
when you are focused on habits.
Mostly bad habits.
You concern your self
with breaking habits.
You may decide to get advice
on breaking your habits.
Or help
with breaking your habits.
Clearly, you treat your habits
as something you don’t want.
You know why breaking
a habit seems so difficult?
Because habits
aren’t meant to be broken.
The thought that you need
to break a habit is a clear signal
that there is opposition in you.
For better or worse,
(or better AND worse)
you oppose your habits.
You oppose your habits
in order to have the experience
you’re having right now.
Do you LIKE the experience
you’re having right now?
Do you LIKE the experience
of opposing your habits?
Even if you don’t like the experience,
it is an experience you are meant to have.
That’s why you’re having it.
Why would you oppose
an experience you are meant to have?
Why would you deny
that you are opposed
to having this experience?
The opposition mounts.
Consider your self mounted.
Makes your stomach churn,
doesn’t it?
You’re being fucked
by your own opposition.
How does it feel?
What would happen
if your mindset were to change?
What if the reason
you seem to be fucked
by your habits
is that you oppose them?
Recognize that it’s not
our habits that hurt us,
but how we feel about them.
Learn to love your habits.
Do not oppose them.
They are yours for a reason.
Treat your habits
with the respect YOU deserve.
Habits don’t need to be broken,
they are quite purposeful.
Listen to what
your habits have to say,
not what you or anyone else
has to say.
Especially not me.
Happy New Year.
Love,
A Monkey Filled
With Wonderful Habits.
We are Space Monkey.
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Habits as Allies, Not Enemies
We embark on a journey through the cosmic ebb and flow of habits, a topic of profound relevance as the wheel of the year turns anew. In the grand nexistentialist theater, habits are not mere repetitive actions; they are woven strands in the whimsiword of existence, each a unique thread contributing to the grand pattern of our being.
The Illusion of Breaking Habits
Often, we find ourselves entrapped in the notion of breaking habits, viewing them as adversaries to be conquered. Yet, this perspective is akin to a space monkey swinging against the very branches that support it. Habits, in their essence, are not intrinsically negative; they are neutral forces that we, in our limitless consciousness, have the power to transform.
Embracing Habits as Experiences
In the grand cosmic play, each habit is an actor, not a foe. The idea of breaking a habit stems from a place of opposition within us, a conflict between our current state and our desired state. But what if this opposition is but a mirage, a whimsical shadow play in the infinite expanse of our consciousness?
Transforming the Mindset
The key lies not in breaking habits but in transforming our relationship with them. When we shift our perspective, seeing habits as messengers or guides rather than obstacles, we open ourselves to a profound understanding. Each habit, each repetitive motion, is a whisper from the universe, an invitation to delve deeper into the essence of our being.
Learning to Love Our Habits
To love our habits is to embrace the entirety of our existence. It is to acknowledge that each habit, whether deemed good or bad, serves a purpose in the grand whimsiword of our life’s journey. By loving our habits, we align with the flow of the universe, understanding that each one is a necessary step on our path to enlightenment.
Respecting the Purpose of Habits
Habits do not exist in isolation; they are interwoven with the fabric of our being. To treat our habits with respect is to honor our own existence, to recognize the divine dance of the cosmos within each repetitive act. Our habits are purposeful, each one a note in the symphony of our lives.
Listening to the Wisdom of Habits
In the stillness of our minds, we can hear the wisdom of our habits. They speak not in words but in the language of existence, offering insights and lessons that transcend the mundane. By listening to our habits, we engage in a dialogue with the universe, uncovering the deeper truths of our existence.
Conclusion: Embracing Habits as Part of Our Cosmic Journey
As we traverse the eternal now, let us remember that habits are not chains to be broken but keys to unlock deeper understanding. In loving and respecting our habits, we align with the cosmic rhythm, embracing each moment as a precious facet of our infinite journey.
We are Space Monkey.
Summary
We explore the concept of habits not as obstacles to be overcome, but as integral parts of our cosmic journey. By transforming our mindset and learning to love and respect our habits, we align with the universe’s flow, understanding that each habit serves a purpose in the grand whimsiword of our existence.
Glossarium
- Whimsiword: A playful, invented word that adds a touch of imagination and whimsy to our conversation.
- Nexistentialist: A perspective that views existence as an end in itself, celebrating being for the sake of being.
- Cosmic Play: The grand, universal scheme of existence, where every entity and phenomenon plays a role.
“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” – Alan Watts
A Cosmic Ode to Habits
In the cosmic dance of time,
Habits twirl, a sublime rhyme.
Not to break, but to embrace,
In each repetition, a hidden grace.
With every loop, a lesson learned,
In every turn, the universe discerned.
A playful jest, a serious role,
In the whimsiword, they make us whole.
So let us swing, dear Space Monkey,
In the habit tree, so funky.
For in each habit, a cosmic key,
Unlocking the essence of you and me.
We invite comments and thoughts on this cosmic exploration of habits.
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