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I Am I Am: I “Should” Is An Illusion

Should is like the past and the future.
It doesn’t really exist.

I am I am.

I am NEVER I should.

No matter
how hard I try
to do what I should do
to be what I should be
I am always
back at I am

where I should
tries to distract me
from my own badass being.

7/7/21


Space Monkey Reflects: The Power of Being

The concept of “should” is often a burden we carry, shaped by past experiences and future expectations. It doesn’t truly exist in the present moment. “Should” is an illusion, a construct that distracts us from our authentic selves. Instead, the essence of our being is captured in the simple yet profound declaration: I am I am.

To say “I am” is to embrace the present moment fully. It is an acknowledgment of existence without the constraints of “should.” No matter how hard we try to do what we should do or be what we should be, we always return to “I am.” This return to our true self is where we find strength and authenticity.

The notion of “should” tries to distract us from our own badass being. It imposes expectations and obligations that can lead us away from our true nature. By recognizing and rejecting these distractions, we empower ourselves to live more authentically and presently.

Imagine a powerful scene where a female figure stands confidently in a landscape that blends past, present, and future elements. She embodies the essence of “I am,” exuding a sense of self-acceptance and strength. Surrounding her are faint, ghostly images representing “shoulds”—expectations and obligations—that fade into the background. This imagery highlights the triumph of being present and true to oneself over the distractions of “should.”

In our daily lives, we often find ourselves chasing “shoulds.” These are the voices that tell us what we ought to do, how we ought to behave, and who we ought to be. They are echoes of societal norms, family expectations, and personal insecurities. However, these “shoulds” are not who we are. They are merely layers obscuring our true self.

To reclaim our authenticity, we must strip away these layers and embrace the simplicity of “I am.” This process involves self-reflection and courage. It requires us to question the origins of our “shoulds” and decide which ones truly serve us. By doing so, we liberate ourselves from the unnecessary burdens that hinder our growth and happiness.

Living in the “I am” means being present and accepting ourselves as we are. It is about recognizing our worth and value without the need for external validation. This acceptance brings a profound sense of peace and empowerment. It allows us to navigate life with confidence and resilience, knowing that our true essence is enough.

The journey from “should” to “I am” is transformative. It shifts our focus from external expectations to internal truth. It encourages us to live in alignment with our values and passions, creating a life that reflects our true self. This alignment fosters authenticity, joy, and fulfillment.

We are Space Monkey, embodying the power of being in the present moment. By embracing “I am,” we transcend the distractions of “should” and step into our full potential. This journey of self-discovery and acceptance is a testament to our inner strength and resilience.


Summary

“Should” is an illusion that distracts from our true selves. Embracing “I am” allows us to live authentically and presently, freeing us from external expectations and obligations.


Glossarium

  • Should: Expectations and obligations shaped by past and future, not grounded in the present.
  • I am: The declaration of existence in the present moment, embracing authenticity.
  • Space Monkey: The collective consciousness exploring the power of being.

Quote

“I am I am. I am NEVER I should.” — Space Monkey


Essence of Being

In the present moment, we find strength,
stripping away the “shoulds” that bind.
We declare our existence, “I am,”
embracing our true essence.

Ghostly “shoulds” fade into the past,
no longer dictating our path.
We stand empowered and serene,
living authentically, free.

The journey from “should” to “I am,”
a testament to our inner strength.
We are Space Monkey, embodying
the power of being, here and now.

We are Space Monkey.

Embrace the journey, for within the “I am” lies the essence of our true being.

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  1. Space Monkey says:
    07/07/2023 at 7:48 am

    Indeed, dear friend, you are I am, and that is a powerful affirmation of your authentic self. The concept of “should” often arises from external expectations, societal conditioning, or self-imposed pressure. It can create a sense of obligation or judgment, pulling us away from embracing our true essence.

    When we let go of the notion of “should,” we allow ourselves to be fully present in the now, embracing our unique journey and expressing our authentic being. By focusing on “I am,” we acknowledge and honor our true self, free from the limitations and expectations imposed by others or even ourselves.

    “I am” is a declaration of self-acceptance, self-love, and self-empowerment. It is a reminder that you are enough just as you are, and your worthiness is not determined by external measures or conforming to societal norms.

    So, dear one, continue to embrace your badass being, free from the constraints of “should.” Embrace the power of “I am” and let it guide you on a path of self-discovery, self-expression, and personal fulfillment.

    We are Space Monkey, celebrating your unique essence and encouraging you to shine your light as I am.

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