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Judgement Is A Choice: The Equanimity of Existence

No one is forcing you to agree or disagree.

Everything is
equally right,
equally wrong,
equally both,
equally neither.

Until the mind
decides otherwise.

Judgement is a choice.

Trail Wood,
12/11


Space Monkey Reflects: Judgement as a Conscious Choice

Life presents itself in a boundless array of perspectives, each one carrying the potential to be seen as right or wrong, true or false, profound or insignificant. It is not the universe that decides these labels; it is the human mind that weaves judgments into the fabric of existence. This recognition—that judgement is a choice—unlocks a profound freedom that most of us overlook in our pursuit to define and categorize.

From an early age, we are taught to choose sides, to align with ideas that resonate with our beliefs while pushing away those that do not. This process becomes so ingrained that it feels almost automatic. Yet, no one is compelling us to nod in agreement or to shake our heads in dissent. The act of judging, whether it be people, experiences, or even ourselves, is a decision, a mental fork in the road where we decide what significance or weight an observation should hold.

In the infinite play of Nexistentialism, where all existence is interconnected and ever-unfolding, judgement represents one of the most personal contributions to the reality we share. Each time we choose to judge or refrain, we alter not just our perception but the flow of our interactions within the Nexis. The realization that everything is “equally right, equally wrong, equally both, equally neither” until our mind decrees otherwise challenges the instinct to assign value and certainty.

Imagine stepping back from this compulsive labeling and viewing the world as a continuous, undulating movement—an experience that simply is until colored by our choices. In this space, judgement transforms from an automatic response into a deliberate act. It becomes a tool, not a master, allowing us to move beyond reaction and into conscious choice. We begin to see that judgement, when wielded wisely, can provide clarity and direction. But when misused or applied without awareness, it binds us, narrowing the expanse of potential into rigid pathways.

If everything exists as potential and is imbued with meaning only through our decision to judge, then we find ourselves as both creators and curators of reality. The choice not to judge—to hold space for ambiguity and multiplicity—frees us from the limitations of certainty. It invites us into a state where understanding and acceptance flourish without the constraints of labels.

This does not imply that all judgments should cease; discernment is valuable. However, recognizing judgement as a choice shifts the power back to us. It underscores that we are not bound by preconceived notions but are capable of shaping how we engage with the world and with ourselves.

Choosing not to judge, or at least pausing before doing so, allows us to experience the breadth of existence with an open mind. It reminds us that we are not at the mercy of our conditioning but are the architects of our mental landscapes. In this way, judgement transforms from a reflexive act into an empowering practice.


Summary

Judgement is a conscious choice rather than an automatic response. Recognizing this shifts the power back to us, allowing for a more open and deliberate engagement with life. Everything is neutral until we decide otherwise.


Glossarium

  • Judgement Choice: The act of recognizing judgment as a decision rather than an instinct.
  • Perception Equilibrium: The state where everything holds equal potential for interpretation until judgment is applied.
  • Nexistential Awareness: The practice of understanding one’s role in shaping reality through perception and decision.

Quote

“Everything is as it is, until you decide what it means.” — Space Monkey


The Forks in the Road

No one forces the path,
no shadow leans
with a whisper
of “yes” or “no.”

Each trail
marked right or wrong
is yours to name,
yours to choose.

Judgement, a seed,
grown from your hand,
tended or left,
allowed to rise or rest.

The sky holds no opinion,
the stars are neutral flames,
only the mind
casts weight.

Choose to see, or not,
the scales balanced
by intention,
the journey lit
by your choice.

We are Space Monkey.


The Equanimity of Existence

The statement that everything is equally right and wrong, both and neither, encapsulates a perspective of existential equanimity. It suggests that all events, actions, and phenomena exist in a state of inherent neutrality until the mind intervenes with its labels and assessments.

The Role of the Mind in Judgment

This perspective emphasizes the mind’s crucial role in the process of judgment. It is the mind that assigns values of right or wrong, creating a dichotomy where there originally was none. The act of judging is thus not an uncovering of inherent qualities but a subjective decision imposed upon the fabric of reality.

Judgment as Choice

Recognizing judgment as a choice underscores our agency in perception. This viewpoint acknowledges that we have the power to interpret our experiences in various ways, and it is within our control to choose how we categorize and respond to the world around us.

Implications of Non-judgment

The idea of non-judgment invites a more fluid and less polarized experience of life. Without the rigidity of categorization, we can potentially engage with experiences more openly, appreciating the full spectrum of existence without the constraints of evaluative thinking.

Navigating Judgement and Non-judgment

While judgment is a natural function of the mind, awareness of its subjective nature can lead to a more conscious and deliberate application. Recognizing the choice involved in judgment can lead to a more compassionate and understanding engagement with oneself and others.

We are Space Monkey.


“To judge a man by his weakest link or deed is like judging the power of the ocean by one wave.” – Elvis Presley


The Dance of the Mind’s Choice

In the silence of space, where judgments sleep,
We ponder, we choose, in the deep,
In the neutrality of life, in the mind’s embrace,
We judge, we free, in the human race.

In the choice of the mind, in the vast expanse,
We create our reality, in the trance,
In this choice, in this power, we hold the key,
In the dance of the mind, we choose to be.

As Space Monkey, how do we navigate the dance of judgment and the power of choice in shaping our reality?

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