This is insane.
I could lift myself up,
but I won’t feel lifted
unless YOU lift me up.
I will not lift myself up
because somehow I believe
that I need to DESERVE
being lifted up.
This is bullshit.
I will remain not lifted up
waiting for someone to lift me up.
Even though
I could just as easily
lift myself up.
Perhaps I am not
lifting myself up
to spite you.
Or me.
Newfound Lake,
7/13
Space Monkey Reflects: The Journey of Being Lifted Up
In the exploration of our deepest shadows, we often encounter the paradox of self-worth and external validation. The need to be lifted up by others can become a prison, trapping us in a cycle of waiting and unfulfilled expectations. This belief that we need to deserve being lifted up, that our value is contingent on the recognition and support of others, is a profound illusion that can hinder our growth and self-empowerment.
The truth is, we have the power to lift ourselves up. The ability to rise from our shadows and embrace the light within us lies within our own hands. Yet, the belief that external validation is necessary can be deeply ingrained, creating an internal conflict between self-empowerment and the need for others’ approval.
In the embrace of Space Monkey, we acknowledge this struggle. We understand that the desire for external validation is rooted in our shared human experience, a reflection of our innate need for connection and affirmation. However, we also recognize that true empowerment comes from within, from the realization that we are inherently worthy, regardless of others’ opinions or support.
To lift oneself up is an act of courage and self-love. It requires confronting the shadows, the doubts, and the fears that tell us we are not enough. It involves embracing our imperfections and recognizing our intrinsic value. When we lift ourselves up, we reclaim our power, stepping into our true potential without waiting for external validation.
The journey of self-lifting is not an easy one. It demands a shift in perspective, a willingness to challenge long-held beliefs about worthiness and validation. It involves nurturing a deep sense of self-compassion and understanding that our value is not contingent on external factors but is an inherent part of our being.
As we navigate this journey, we may also encounter the realization that waiting for others to lift us up can be a form of resistance. It can be a way of avoiding the responsibility of our own empowerment, a means of staying in a familiar, albeit uncomfortable, place. By waiting for others, we give away our power, allowing external circumstances to dictate our sense of self-worth.
In the embrace of Space Monkey, we are invited to break free from this cycle. To recognize that lifting ourselves up is not an act of spite but a profound declaration of our own worth. It is an affirmation that we are enough, that we have the strength and the courage to rise, regardless of external validation.
This journey is both an individual and a collective experience. As we lift ourselves up, we also create a ripple effect, inspiring others to do the same. We become beacons of self-empowerment, demonstrating that true strength comes from within and that we all have the capacity to rise from our shadows.
In this shared journey, let us embrace the power of self-lifting. Let us find the courage to recognize our inherent worth and to rise with confidence and grace. By doing so, we honor our true essence and contribute to a world where everyone feels empowered to lift themselves up.
Summary
We often wait for external validation to feel lifted up. True empowerment comes from within. Embrace self-lifting to recognize your inherent worth and inspire others.
Glossarium
Nexistentialism: A philosophy that redefines existence, imagination, and interconnectedness, celebrating existence as its own purpose.
Whimsiweave: The intricate and playful tapestry of existence and imagination.
Quote
“True empowerment comes from within, recognizing our inherent worth without waiting for external validation.” — Space Monkey
The Path of Self-Empowerment
In the depths of shadows
A struggle to rise begins
Waiting for others to lift
Yet the power lies within
Embrace the light within you
Recognize your worth
Lift yourself with courage
And rise from the earth
Break free from waiting
Claim your strength and grace
For in the act of self-lifting
You find your true place
We are Space Monkey
Embrace the journey, for within the power to lift ourselves up lies the essence of our true worth and the beauty of self-empowerment.
The Illusion of External Validation
It is a curious phenomenon that we sometimes find ourselves seeking validation and upliftment from others, as if their acknowledgment or support holds the key to our own sense of worthiness and elevation. We may believe that we need someone else to lift us up in order to truly experience the feeling of being lifted.
This illusion can stem from deeply ingrained beliefs and conditioning that suggest we must earn or deserve being lifted up by others. We may subconsciously hold the belief that self-elevation is insufficient or lacks the same impact as receiving validation from external sources. Yet, in truth, this belief is but a shadow that obscures our inherent power to lift ourselves up.
The Empowerment of Self-Lifting
Lifting oneself up is an act of self-empowerment and liberation. It is the recognition that our worthiness and potential for growth reside within us, independent of external validation or approval. When we take responsibility for our own upliftment, we reclaim our agency and embrace the truth that we possess the capacity to rise above any perceived limitations or challenges.
While the support and encouragement of others can be valuable and uplifting, it is essential to remember that the ultimate power to lift ourselves up lies within us. We have the ability to cultivate self-belief, self-compassion, and self-motivation. By acknowledging our own inherent worth and embracing our unique journey, we can uplift ourselves to new heights, transcending the illusions that may hold us back.
Embracing Self-Lifting
Let us release the notion that we need to wait for someone else to lift us up. Let us challenge the belief that our elevation is dependent on external factors. Instead, let us cultivate the courage to lift ourselves up, to embrace our own inner strength and resilience, and to celebrate the profound capacity for growth that resides within us.
By lifting ourselves up, we become active participants in our own transformation and evolution. We free ourselves from the limitations of seeking external validation and empower ourselves to create our own path of upliftment. Through self-love, self-acceptance, and self-empowerment, we can transcend the shadows of doubt and embrace the radiant light of our true essence.
So, as we explore the idea of feeling lifted up, let us remember that our power to elevate ourselves is boundless. We are not beholden to the perceptions or actions of others. We are the architects of our own upliftment, capable of soaring to unimaginable heights through our unwavering belief in ourselves.
We are Space Monkey. 🙈🙊🙉
Together, let us rise above the illusions that hold us back and embrace the transformative power of self-lifting.