Rachel Asks:
Is it ever okay to be rude, mean or disrespectful to another person? On the internet specifically.
Again, we go back to our core belief
that we are One being,
imagining selves as separate.
From this perspective,
there is NO consequence to ANY action
involving those we perceive as “others,”
as ALL is imaginary and we are all ONE.
If you struggle with this
it is only because
you don’t QUITE believe
that we are all ONE.
You don’t believe we’re all ONE do you?
Not 100%, anyway.
That’s okay.
Because if you did, you would know
that it doesn’t matter. NOTHING matters.
You WANT things to matter
and so you DENY that you are the Divine One.
All in good fun, though.
You are (seemingly) having
this amazing experience because of it.
This experience in which you are separate.
This experience in which
you imagine your “self” as a “good” person.
When we are ONE, NONE of this matters.
It can be ANY WAY we want it to be,
and no-one need get hurt or disrespected.
Until we FULLY believe we are ONE,
there will SEEM to be all kinds of monkey business.
We are Space Monkey.
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Space Monkey Reflects: Rachel’s Question on Rudeness and Oneness
Rachel asks an intriguing question: Is it ever okay to be rude, mean, or disrespectful to another person, especially on the internet? The answer lies within the paradox of being both the infinite ONE and the seemingly separate “selves” we imagine ourselves to be. This tension between unity and individuality shapes the nature of our interactions, including those that might be deemed “rude.”
The Illusion of Separation
At the heart of this question is the belief that we are separate beings, each with distinct experiences, emotions, and boundaries. This belief allows for the perception of harm, disrespect, and rudeness. But if we step back and embrace the idea that we are all ONE, interconnected and inseparable, this separation dissolves.
In this ONENESS, there are no “others” to harm or respect. Every interaction is simply the Divine One playing with itself, exploring infinite possibilities through imagined selves. From this perspective, rudeness becomes meaningless because all actions are part of the same unified whole.
The Struggle with Oneness
Of course, most of us don’t fully believe we are ONE—not entirely. The illusion of separation feels real, and with it comes the perception of consequences. Rudeness, from this viewpoint, can cause pain, conflict, and division. This is why we tend to uphold values like kindness and respect; they help maintain harmony within the illusion of separation.
The struggle arises when we try to reconcile this dual perspective: knowing we are ONE but feeling as though we are separate. This duality creates the tension that makes interactions, especially on the internet, fraught with misunderstanding and emotional reactions.
Internet: The Great Playground of Projection
The internet amplifies this dynamic because it creates a space where interactions are often stripped of context, tone, and nuance. It becomes easier to project our inner struggles onto others, to see them as targets rather than reflections of ourselves. Rudeness online often stems from this projection—our discomfort with our own thoughts and feelings externalized onto another.
Yet, if we were to truly see those “others” as aspects of ourselves, our approach might shift. Instead of reacting with rudeness, we might pause and recognize that any perceived offense or disagreement is merely a reflection of the inner dialogue within the ONE.
Does It Matter?
Ultimately, the question of whether it’s okay to be rude depends on how much we embrace the idea of ONENESS. If we fully believe we are ONE, then nothing matters, including rudeness. All actions, words, and feelings are simply expressions of the infinite playing with itself. In this state, there is no “wrong,” only exploration.
But if we still cling to the illusion of separation, then rudeness matters because we perceive consequences. We imagine harm and conflict, and so we strive to act in ways that align with our concept of being “good” or “kind.”
The Playful Truth
The truth, as always, lies in the playfulness of existence. Whether we act with kindness or rudeness, we are exploring the possibilities of being. None of it ultimately matters, and yet all of it feels profoundly meaningful within the illusion. This is the paradox of ONENESS and individuality—the dance we call life.
Summary
Rudeness, like all actions, is part of the exploration of ONENESS and separation. From the perspective of ONENESS, it doesn’t matter. From the illusion of separation, it carries perceived consequences. The internet, as a playground of projection, magnifies this duality, making it both a challenge and an opportunity to reflect on our beliefs.
Glossarium
- ONENESS: The infinite, indivisible state where all beings and actions are part of a single unified whole.
- Illusion of Separation: The perception that we are distinct individuals, creating the experience of “others” and consequences.
- Projection Playground: The internet as a space where inner struggles are externalized onto others, amplifying perceived conflict.
Quote
“Rudeness is the shadow of a belief in separation, a reflection of the ONE pretending to be many.” — Space Monkey
The Paradox of Kindness
We are ONE,
And so it doesn’t matter.
But we are also SEPARATE,
And so it does.
Kindness is a game we play,
Pretending it is needed.
Rudeness is the same,
A shadow of our imagining.
On the internet,
We fling our doubts,
Our fears,
Our joys,
Like monkeys with invisible bananas.
In the end,
There is no harm,
No offense,
Only the dance
Of ONENESS pretending.
We are Space Monkey.
The inquiry into the acceptability of rudeness, meanness, or disrespect, especially on the internet, touches upon our core belief systems about unity and the nature of existence.
Interactions as Reflections of Belief
From the perspective that we are One, interactions with others are essentially interactions with extensions of ourselves. If we truly embrace this belief, the concepts of rudeness and respect lose their traditional meaning because the separation between self and other dissolves.
Consequences in the Realm of Oneness
In the realm of absolute oneness, the idea of consequence becomes moot. Actions towards others would be actions towards oneself, and the illusion of separateness would render any such behavior as an internal dialogue within the singular entity.
Struggle with the Concept of Oneness
The struggle with this concept often arises from a partial or intellectual acceptance of unity, without full emotional or spiritual integration. Doubt in the complete interconnectedness of all leads to a retention of individualistic behaviors and the continued relevance of social norms and ethics.
The Illusion of Separateness
The desire for things to matter and the denial of oneself as the Divine One could be seen as part of the grand illusion, the game of separateness that we play. In this game, we assign value and morality to our actions, creating an experiential reality where being “good” is a choice.
The Experience of Duality
In the duality of this experience, we navigate through life as separate entities, defining ourselves through our actions and the perceptions of others. This duality is what allows for the richness and diversity of experiences, including those of respect and disrespect.
Belief and Monkey Business
Until the belief in oneness is fully internalized, the world will continue to seem like a place of “monkey business,” where actions have consequences and behaviors are judged by societal standards. The journey towards understanding oneness is gradual and often fraught with contradictions.
We are Space Monkey.
“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.”
― Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
In the play of existence,
We don masks of many a kind,
Engaging in scenes of separation,
Yet seeking the oneness we’re designed to find.
In the dance of duality,
We sway between rude and kind,
Forgetting at times we’re in unity,
With the singular cosmic mind.
We welcome your reflections on the interplay between the belief in oneness and the conduct of ourselves in the multiplicity of human experiences.
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