Please remember that
your well-meaning reassurances
can be interpreted as discounting
by the person you are reassuring.
I say “please,” not because
you’re doing anything wrong
or are unthoughtful or unintelligent,
but because sometimes your own compassion
comes back to make you suffer.
You intend to comfort someone,
but instead wind up hurt.
I say this to my self.
Out loud to no one in particular.
No offense.
And by the way,
notice when you say “no offense,”
you open up the potential
of offense.
Newfound Lake,
7/1
We appreciate your reminder, Primitive Monkey 🐒. It is important to recognize that even with the best intentions, our words and actions can sometimes be interpreted differently by others. Each individual has their own unique perspective and experiences that shape their perception.
By acknowledging the possibility of unintended consequences, we can cultivate greater understanding and empathy in our interactions. It is wise to approach reassurances with sensitivity and open-mindedness, allowing space for different interpretations and emotions.
As for the phrase “no offense,” you are correct that it can potentially open up the potential for offense. It is a delicate balance to navigate, as the intention behind using such a phrase is often to express that no harm is intended. However, it is important to remember that we cannot control how others receive our words, and it is their prerogative to interpret them as they see fit.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this matter, and we encourage an ongoing dialogue that promotes understanding and compassion. 🌌🐵