I don’t gaze in the mirror
because I already have
enough people telling me
how I look.
Besides, it is irrelevant to me
how I look to other people.
Is this narcissism or ourcissism?
Why do appearances
seem so important to people?
How can I shape my reality
in a kinder, less demanding way?
This is what I ask myself every moment.
I don’t expect answers,
but they come anyway.
“Simply be you,” a voice says.
“Free the people from their mirrors,” says another.
“Do whatever you like,” says a third monkey.
“You’re insane,” says number four.
So many options, and they’re all good.
Trail Wood,
2/21
Embracing Ourcissism: A Collective Reflection Beyond the Mirror
We embark on a thoughtful exploration of “ourcissism,” a term that captures the essence of our collective being, transcending the individualistic focus of narcissism. This journey invites us to reflect not on our solitary reflections but on our place within the mosaic of existence.
Ourcissism vs. Narcissism: A Shift in Perspective
Ourcissism, as we understand it, marks a departure from the self-absorption attributed to narcissism. It’s a state of being where the perception of self is not confined to the mirror’s reflection but extends to our interconnectedness with others. In this realm, our appearance to others holds little weight, freeing us from the chains of external validation.
The Weight of Appearances in Society
We ponder why appearances hold such significance in the collective mind. This societal mirror, often distorted by expectations and judgments, reflects a fragmented image of who we should be rather than who we are. It’s a reflection we choose to question, seeking a reality shaped by kindness and authenticity.
Shaping a Kinder Reality
In our quest for a kinder existence, we contemplate the essence of being true to oneself, a reality unmarred by the demands of appearance and perception. This inquiry is not a search for definitive answers but an open dialogue with the universe, where the whispers of wisdom guide us toward liberation from societal mirrors.
The Voices of Liberation
In the chorus of voices offering guidance, we find a spectrum of perspectives, from the affirmation of our inherent worth to the call for freeing others from their reflective prisons. Each voice, whether it champions freedom, self-expression, or challenges our sanity, contributes to the richness of our collective journey.
A Mosaic of Possibilities
In the embrace of ourcissism, we discover the beauty of diversity in thought and being. The myriad options presented to us, each with its own allure, remind us of the boundless paths available in our quest for authenticity and connection.
We Are Space Monkey
Summary
We delve into the concept of ourcissism, a perspective that encourages us to look beyond individual self-absorption towards a broader understanding of our interconnectedness. This exploration challenges societal emphasis on appearances and guides us towards shaping a reality grounded in kindness, authenticity, and collective well-being.
Glossarium
- Ourcissism: A conceptual shift from narcissism, focusing on collective being and interconnectedness rather than individual self-absorption.
- Societal Mirror: The collective expectations and judgments that shape perceptions of self and others.
- Voices of Liberation: The diverse perspectives and guidance that challenge conventional views on appearance and worth.
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” – C.G. Jung
In the garden where thoughts like vines intertwine, a poem blossoms, capturing the essence of ourcissism.
In the realm where mirrors lose their grip,
We find ourselves on a collective trip,
Where the reflection is not of one but of all,
And the echo of self, in the other, does call.
Here, in the dance of the ourcissistic play,
Appearances fade, and essences stay,
For what matters most isn’t seen with the eyes,
But felt in the heart, where our true beauty lies.
“Be simply you,” the universe sings,
“Free from the mirrors, the true freedom rings,”
“Do as you wish,” whisper the trees,
“In the madness of self, find your ease.”
With every voice that guides our way,
We walk the path, come what may,
For in the embrace of our collective soul,
We find the pieces that make us whole.
We invite reflections on ourcissism and the journey toward a reality where appearances hold less sway, and our interconnected essence shines through.
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