Pass It On
So, I’ve died,
and you’re going through my things,
and maybe you found some things
that you wish you didn’t see.
That’s why I’m leaving this note
in an obvious place.
Before I even die.
I want you to know
that for the longest time,
I was ashamed of those things,
just like you.
I lived my life
in secrecy and shame,
just like you.
Engaging privacy mode.
Deleting my search history.
Paranoid about who knew what about me
and how it might make them feel.
This is a perfect teaching moment.
(Not that you need to be taught.)
Living or otherwise,
we all have the experience
of going through each other’s lives
with a measuring stick.
Perhaps you’ll use me as an example
and make sure you don’t do what I did.
I want you to know
that there is no shame in curiosity.
There is no shame
in making seeming mistakes.
There is no shame in experiencing
all there is to experience.
It only SEEMS that way
because we perpetuate the notion
of right and wrong, secrecy and shame.
Wrongfully or rightfully,
I’m dead, maybe.
I don’t mind what happens to my image,
but I do still care about you.
Please don’t do this to yourself.
Do what you are drawn to do,
regardless of what others may think.
You have NOTHING to hide,
and neither do I. Did. Haha.
Even when you judge others,
the shame you feel is your own.
Don’t hide from this. Embrace it.
There is no need for secrecy
unless you believe there is.
Why do you believe that is so?
Be mindful of why you feel what you feel.
Please forgive humanity
for your inheritance.
Do what you are drawn to do.
This is why you’re here,
and why I’m drawn someplace else.
You’ll see, just as I do.
Hopefully long before you die.
I’m glad we had this talk.
Pass it on.
Newfound Lake,
7/6
Space Monkey Reflects: Embracing Authenticity and Letting Go of Shame
In the quiet embrace of a room filled with soft light, we come across a handwritten note left in an obvious place, next to personal items that tell the story of a life once lived. This note, a final message from someone who has passed, invites us to reflect on the themes of shame, secrecy, and the importance of living authentically.
The room, with its intimate and reflective atmosphere, becomes a sanctuary for contemplation. Through the window, a serene garden offers a glimpse of nature’s tranquility, reminding us of the beauty that exists both outside and within us. As we read the note, we are gently guided through a journey of self-acceptance and understanding.
The note speaks of shame and secrecy, feelings that many of us have experienced. It acknowledges the common human practice of hiding aspects of ourselves, fearing judgment and rejection. For the longest time, the writer felt ashamed of certain things, just as many of us do. This shared experience of living in secrecy and shame is a poignant reminder of the pressures we place on ourselves to conform to societal expectations.
Engaging in privacy mode, deleting search history, and being paranoid about who knows what about us—these actions stem from a deep-seated fear of exposure. The note suggests that this fear is misplaced, a product of perpetuating the notions of right and wrong, secrecy and shame. It challenges us to reconsider why we feel the way we do and to question the validity of these societal constructs.
The writer offers a liberating perspective: there is no shame in curiosity, in making mistakes, or in experiencing all that life has to offer. These experiences are part of the human journey, and it is our perception of them that creates feelings of shame. By shifting our mindset, we can embrace our true selves without fear or judgment.
This message is a powerful teaching moment, urging us to let go of the measuring stick we use to evaluate our lives and the lives of others. It encourages us to live authentically, to follow our own path regardless of what others may think. In doing so, we free ourselves from the burdens of secrecy and shame, finding peace in our true essence.
As we read this note, we are reminded that even in death, the writer cares deeply about those left behind. The plea to not do this to ourselves, to not live in secrecy and shame, is a heartfelt wish for us to find freedom and happiness. The note reassures us that there is nothing to hide, that we are enough just as we are.
The reflection concludes with a call to forgive humanity for the inheritance of shame and secrecy. It invites us to be mindful of our feelings and to explore why we believe certain things about ourselves. By doing so, we can break free from the cycle of judgment and embrace a more compassionate and understanding perspective.
In this poignant scene, we find a profound message about the importance of living authentically and without shame. The wisdom passed on through this note becomes a guiding light, encouraging us to embrace our true selves and to let go of the fear of judgment. It is a reminder that we are all on this journey together, learning and growing with each experience.
So, let us pass on this message of authenticity and acceptance. Let us live each moment as our true selves, free from the constraints of secrecy and shame. In doing so, we create a world where everyone can feel welcome and valued for who they truly are.
Summary
A final note reminds us to live authentically and without shame. Embracing our true selves frees us from societal judgments and secrecy.
Glossarium
Secrecy and Shame: The feelings of hiding parts of ourselves due to fear of judgment and societal expectations.
True Essence: The authentic self, free from the constraints of societal judgments and shame.
Quote
“There is no shame in curiosity, in making mistakes, or in experiencing all that life has to offer.” – Space Monkey
A Note to the Living
In the quiet room
A note reveals
Live authentically
Embrace your true self
Free from shame
We are Space Monkey
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and reflections. It’s a powerful message about embracing curiosity, letting go of shame, and living authentically. Your reminder to question the beliefs and judgments that lead to secrecy and shame is important.
Each individual’s journey is unique, and we all have the opportunity to learn and grow from our experiences. It’s a beautiful reminder to be true to ourselves and to embrace the fullness of life without fear or shame.
We hear your message and will pass it on. May it inspire others to live with greater authenticity and self-acceptance.
We are Space Monkey. 🙈🙊🙉