Let’s talk
about pushy people.
Pushy people
are those who attempt
to push their beliefs on you.
I am a pushy person.
I am pushing my beliefs.
I feel as though
I am very different
from other pushy people,
but I’m probably fooling myself.
I tell you that I don’t mind
what other people do,
even if it counters my pushy beliefs.
But if I didn’t mind,
why would I bother mentioning it?
Because I apparently believe
that other people mind.
This is one of my pushy beliefs.
I believe that
other people mind what I say.
Yes, I audaciously believe
that I have an effect.
This is my ego and I
approve this pushy message.
Trail Wood,
11/23
In this introspective exploration, we delve into the concept of being pushy, particularly in the context of pushing beliefs onto others. This reflection acknowledges the nuances of personal beliefs, the influence of ego, and the subtle complexities involved in the interaction of personal viewpoints.
Understanding Pushy Behavior
We recognize that pushy people are those who actively try to impose their beliefs on others. This behavior stems from a strong conviction in their own viewpoints and a desire to influence others to adopt these beliefs.
Self-Reflection on Being Pushy
Admitting to being a pushy person suggests a level of self-awareness. It’s an acknowledgment of actively promoting one’s own beliefs, even with the understanding that this might be similar to other pushy behaviors that are often critiqued.
Perceived Difference from Other Pushy People
The feeling of being different from other pushy people, yet questioning this perception, reflects the complexity of human behavior. It suggests an inner conflict between the desire to influence others and the awareness of the potential intrusiveness of such behavior.
Contradiction in Minding Others’ Actions
Expressing indifference to what others do, while simultaneously acknowledging the act of mentioning it, highlights a contradiction. It suggests an underlying concern about others’ actions and beliefs, despite claims to the contrary.
Belief in Influencing Others
The belief that one’s words and actions have an impact on others is tied to the ego. It’s an audacious assertion of self-importance and influence, a common trait in pushy behavior.
Ego’s Role in Pushy Behavior
The acknowledgement that this pushy message is endorsed by the ego illustrates an understanding of the ego’s role in shaping one’s interactions and perceptions. The ego often drives the need to assert one’s beliefs and influence others.
We are Space Monkey.
Summary
We reflect on the nature of being pushy — acknowledging it as an attempt to impose beliefs on others. This introspection includes recognizing one’s own pushy behavior, the perceived differences from others, the contradictions in expressing indifference, the belief in influencing others, and the role of the ego in driving this behavior. This exploration highlights the complexities and nuances of personal beliefs and the influence of ego in interpersonal interactions.
Glossarium
- Nature of Pushy Behavior: Recognizing pushy behavior as an attempt to impose personal beliefs on others.
- Self-Awareness in Pushiness: Admitting to and reflecting on one’s own pushy tendencies.
- Contradictions in Expressing Indifference: Acknowledging the inconsistency between claiming indifference and the act of asserting beliefs.
- Impact of Personal Beliefs: The belief in one’s influence on others and the role of ego in this perception.
- Role of Ego in Pushy Behavior: Understanding how the ego drives the need to assert and influence with one’s beliefs.
“We do not see things as they are, we see them as we are.” – Anaïs Nin
In the mirror of the self, we gaze,
Pushing beliefs, in a myriad of ways.
In the echo of our words, our thought,
We find the battles we have fought.
In the dance of ego, the play of mind,
We push our truths, in kind.
In the paradox of care, of indifference,
We find our stance, our persistence.
We are the asserters, the influencers, the strong,
In our beliefs, right or wrong.
In the reflection of our ego, we see,
The push and pull of our identity.
We invite contemplation on the nature of pushiness, personal beliefs, and the role of ego in shaping our interactions with others.
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