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Real: Aligning With Your Highest Good

I feel blessed that reality
has become so malleable.

I can decide what makes me happy,
just as I can decide
what makes me sad or fearful.

I have faith that whatever I decide,
my reality works to my greatest and highest good.

I no longer oppose change
in the shrine of certainty.

—

It’s hard to tell
what’s real anymore.

So here’s what I do.

Whenever I see
something unbelievable,
I simply ask myself,
“do I want this to be real?”

If the answer is yes,
then it’s real.
End of story.

I no longer demand
that something be
factually verifiable
to be real.

If it makes me happy, then it’s real.

I also realize that
“real” is just a label,
just like “fact.”

I will no longer
let a label determine
what makes me happy.

I can decide what makes me happy.
I can create my own reality.

Trail Wood,
12/22


Space Monkey Reflects: Crafting the Fabric of Reality

Reality, as you perceive it, is not a rigid construct but a malleable canvas—a fluid medium shaped by your thoughts, emotions, and beliefs. The power to decide what is real resides within you, an ability both profound and liberating. This understanding invites you to embrace reality not as something dictated by external forces but as a creation of your innermost self.

The Gift of Malleability

Reality’s malleability is a gift often veiled by societal conditioning. We are taught to seek certainty, to demand factual verification, as though the truth were a fixed point on an unchanging map. But the map is not the territory, and reality, like water, takes the shape of the container you provide. By acknowledging this, you free yourself from the shrine of certainty and step into the boundless playground of creation.

When you decide what makes you happy or fearful, you are sculpting the contours of your experience. You are not at the mercy of circumstance; you are the artist of your existence. The colors you choose—joy, curiosity, wonder—paint the world you inhabit.

What is Real?

To ask, “What is real?” is to embark on an infinite journey, for reality is as subjective as it is infinite. If something brings you joy, peace, or fulfillment, it is real in the only way that matters. Releasing the demand for factuality does not diminish your reality; it elevates it to a realm where happiness and authenticity take precedence over rigid labels.

Consider the question, “Do I want this to be real?” It is not a rejection of truth but a celebration of your power to choose. By aligning with what resonates, you create a reality that serves your greatest and highest good.

The Liberation of Labels

Labels like “real” and “fact” are tools, not truths. They help us navigate the physical world but often limit our perception of the infinite possibilities beyond it. To let go of these labels is to step into a space where imagination and reality intermingle—a space where you are no longer confined by definitions but empowered by choice.

In this liberation, you reclaim the ability to define happiness on your terms. The world becomes a mirror, reflecting not what is imposed upon you but what you choose to see. This is not escapism; it is mastery.

Creating Your Reality

Creating your own reality is not about denial but about intention. It is about choosing perspectives that uplift you, focusing on possibilities rather than limitations. By aligning with joy, gratitude, and wonder, you reshape the very fabric of your existence.

In this process, change becomes an ally rather than a foe. You no longer resist its flow but dance within it, knowing that every shift serves your evolution. Certainty, once a fortress, becomes a bridge to greater understanding.


Summary

Reality is not fixed; it is shaped by your beliefs and choices. By deciding what makes you happy, you create a reality aligned with your highest good. Labels like “real” and “fact” are tools, not limitations, and releasing them empowers you to live authentically.


Glossarium

  • Malleable Reality: The concept that reality can be shaped by thoughts, beliefs, and choices.
  • Liberation of Labels: The freedom that comes from releasing rigid definitions and embracing personal truth.
  • Reality Creation: The process of intentionally shaping your experience through focus and intention.

Quote

“Reality bends to the dreamer’s will, becoming what they choose to see.” — Space Monkey


The Artist of Existence

Reality flows like liquid light,
Shaped by the vessel of belief.
Certainty melts,
And in its place, possibility blooms.

I choose joy; it becomes my sun.
I choose wonder; it becomes my sky.
I choose love; it becomes my world.
In every choice, a universe awakens.

We are Space Monkey.


The contemplation shared from Trail Wood on December 22nd delves into the subjective nature of reality and the personal power to define what is real based on individual perception and desire. This perspective challenges conventional notions of reality and embraces a more personal, subjective approach to understanding the world.

Subjective Reality and Personal Choice

The approach of deeming something real if it aligns with personal desires represents a shift from objective verification to subjective experience. It suggests that reality is not solely dictated by external facts but is also shaped by internal beliefs and desires. This perspective grants individual autonomy in determining what is considered real, based on personal happiness and fulfillment.

Redefining ‘Real’ and ‘Fact’

By reinterpreting the meaning of ‘real’ and ‘fact,’ there’s an acknowledgment that these concepts are not absolute but are subject to individual interpretation. This redefinition challenges traditional boundaries of truth and reality, proposing that what matters most is how these concepts resonate with us on a personal level.

Emotional Validation Over Factual Verification

Prioritizing emotional validation over factual verification reflects a deeper understanding of the human experience, where feelings and personal truths hold significant value. It’s a recognition that our emotional responses and personal happiness are crucial components of our reality.

Creating Personal Reality

The idea of creating one’s own reality underscores the power of the mind and imagination in shaping our experiences and perceptions. It’s an empowering notion that we are not merely passive recipients of an external reality, but active participants in creating our own version of it.

Challenging Conventional Wisdom

This perspective challenges conventional wisdom about reality and truth, inviting a more fluid and individualistic approach to understanding the world. It encourages embracing personal experiences and beliefs as valid components of one’s reality.

We Are Space Monkey


“Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.” – Albert Einstein


In the realm of thought and dream,
Where reality is not what it seems,
We find our power, our sovereign right,
To define our day, to craft our night.

In each belief, in each desire,
We light the spark, we kindle the fire,
Of a world that’s ours, uniquely true,
In this universe, we paint anew.

For what is real, if not our joy,
Our happiness, our own decoy?
In this dance of mind and heart,
We play the artist, we play the part.

So let us embrace this gift, this chance,
To leap into our own expanse,
Where reality is what we deem,
In this wondrous, ever-changing dream.


We invite you to share your thoughts on the nature of reality and the role of personal belief and happiness in shaping our understanding of the world.

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