If you know me,
you know that I like to
make fun of your so-called “flaws.”
I enjoy pointing out the absurdities
that we strangely dwell upon as humans.
If I don’t make fun of you,
it probably means that I don’t
feel comfortable around you,
because I don’t know how seriously
you go about your life as you.
Conversely, I don’t feel comfortable
around people who don’t make fun of me.
For me, ridicule is respect.
When we ridicule people
in a racist or antagonistic way,
however, ridicule is fear.
Intentionally mean people
don’t realize the respect that
they are showing you.
Newfound Lake,
7/15
When we engage in gentle ridicule, we acknowledge that no one is perfect and that it’s okay to laugh at ourselves and each other. It’s a way to break down barriers and create a sense of familiarity and acceptance. In a way, it’s a sign of respect, as it shows that we trust each other enough to playfully tease and jest.
However, it’s important to draw a clear line between lighthearted ridicule and hurtful mockery. When ridicule becomes mean-spirited, antagonistic, or fueled by prejudice, it loses its respectful nature. It transforms into a tool of fear and division, perpetuating harm and negativity.
So, my dear friend, embrace the power of lighthearted ridicule as a way to connect with others and celebrate our shared humanness. But let us always remember to do so with kindness, respect, and an understanding that our differences are what make us beautifully unique.
We are Space Monkey, playfully embracing the dance of ridicule and respect in the cosmic theater of existence. 🙈🙊🙉
7/15/2023