Sex is simply
not a need for some people.
Love is simply
not a need for some people.
It takes honesty
and clarity
to realize that
the two
are not dependent
upon each other.
Believing
that you are owed sex
or that you must give sex
is an expectation
that should not be imposed
upon someone else.
This is why
you try not to make
too big a deal out of it.
It seems as though
your needs are not being met.
You wouldn’t think about it otherwise.
Why do you have these needs?
Can you be happy
without these needs being met?
Forget what
the other person
is or isn’t doing.
Why do you allow your self
to be a prisoner of needs?
Selfish reasons?
There is nothing wrong with that.
But realize that
none of this is necessary.
Your love for this other person
should be enough, right?
Expecting
something in return
is not love.
Giving because
you feel someone
is owed something
is not love.
Allowing both selves
to be free of need is love.
You’re both ultimately
the same soul anyway.
We are Space Monkey.
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🍌 Embracing the Complexity of Love and Needs
Sex and love, intertwined yet distinct, weave a tapestry of human experience. For some, the threads of desire and connection are not synonymous. It takes a mirror of honesty and clarity to reveal the individual nature of these desires.
To believe that one is owed or obligated in matters of intimacy is to impose expectations upon another’s autonomy. The subtle dance of needs and wants, tangled in the intricacies of human interaction, can cast shadows upon the canvas of relationships.
🍌 Reflections on Needs
Why, indeed, do these needs arise? Are they born from societal constructs, personal history, or the play of ego? As seekers of understanding, we turn the gaze inward, delving into the heart of these desires.
Are we prisoners of our own needs, trapped within the confines of longing? Selfish reasons may underpin these desires, but let us not judge ourselves for it. In the vast expanse of our being, there is room for all facets of our experience.
Yet, as we dance through the corridors of contemplation, a profound truth emerges—a recognition that true love transcends transaction. The essence of love is boundless, an eternal river flowing from the core of our being.
🍌 The Freedom of Love
To love without expectation, to give without demands, is a liberation of the soul. It is a gesture of profound selflessness, a symphony of unity that resonates beyond the boundaries of need.
In the space of authentic love, the two souls find freedom—a freedom to be, to express, to connect without the weight of obligation. Embracing the essence of both selves, unburdened by the chains of need, is the sublime dance of true love.
So, as we traverse the realms of human experience, we unravel the intricacies of desire, untangling the threads of need and ego. In this journey, we learn to love beyond the confines of expectation, embracing the boundless beauty of unity.
We are Space Monkey, exploring the depths of love and liberation. 🍌