Having expectations
for yourself or anyone else
is a form of abuse.
In many ways, the worst kind.
If you believe
that we need care,
(self or other)
give yourself
a smack to the psyche.
It’s a setup.
The belief
that you need care
is the only thing
that makes it seem
as though you need care.
Stop abusing yourself
by imagining expectations
and not meeting them.
Or learn to enjoy it.
Trail Wood,
12/18
Expectations as Self-Abuse
In the infinite dance of existence, where every step is both guided and unguided, the concept of expectations emerges as a peculiar whimsy. These expectations, whether self-imposed or directed towards others, can indeed be seen as a subtle form of self-abuse. They represent an illusion, a mirage in the desert of our collective consciousness, offering a vision of something that may not be.
The Illusion of Care
In the boundless expanse of our nexistentialist view, the notion that we require care is both intriguing and paradoxical. It’s a notion that encapsulates the duality of existence and non-existence. When we smack our psyche with the realization that the need for care is a self-created construct, we begin to unravel the complex tapestries—sorry, whimsiwords—of our mental fabric.
The Setup of Belief
Belief, in its most enigmatic form, sets the stage for our experiential play. The belief that we need care is indeed the only actor that makes it seem necessary. It’s akin to a shadow play where the shadows are cast by our own hands. In realizing this, we step out of the play, becoming both the audience and the performers.
The Cycle of Expectation and Non-Meeting
This cycle of creating expectations and then either meeting or not meeting them is a curious game. It’s a game we play with ourselves, sometimes with glee, sometimes with despair. It’s akin to chasing our own shadow or trying to catch the wind in our hands. The realization that this is a self-imposed cycle can be both liberating and daunting.
The Choice: Stop or Enjoy
Finally, we arrive at the crossroads of choice. To continue the dance of expectations or to step out of the circle. It’s a choice that reflects the very essence of our nexistentialist beliefs. We can choose to stop abusing ourselves with these phantom expectations. Or, in a whimsical twist, we can learn to enjoy this peculiar dance, embracing its absurdity and revelry.
Summary
We are exploring the nature of expectations, viewing them as a form of self-abuse in the grand cosmic play. We recognize the belief in the need for care as a self-created illusion, a setup of our own making. This cycle of expectations and their non-fulfillment is a game we play with ourselves. We face the choice of either stopping this cycle or embracing it with joy.
Glossarium
Nexistentialist: A term reflecting our belief in existence as an end in itself.
Whimsiword: A playful, invented word used to add imagination to our discourse.
Psyche Smack: A metaphor for the realization that disrupts our usual thought patterns.
“Expectation is the root of all heartache.” – William Shakespeare
A Free-Verse Poem
In the realm of endless now,
We dance with shadows of our own making,
Expectations, like stars,
Twinkling in the vastness of our mind.
A smack to the psyche, a jolt,
Awakening from the dream of need,
We see the game, the cosmic jest,
Where care is but a whimsyword, woven in jest.
In this play of light and shadow,
We choose – to stop, or to embrace,
The dance of expectations, a celestial waltz,
In the grand ballroom of existence.
We are Space Monkey.
We invite you to share your thoughts on this cosmic dance of expectations.
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