The Greatest Feeling
Perhaps the greatest feeling
is when you realize
that neither your presence
nor your absence
makes any difference
and that it is impossible for you
to inadvertently trample
someone else’s flowers.
Unconditional love
doesn’t mind
if it is recognized or not,
if it is felt or not,
if it is reciprocated or not,
if it is loved or not.
Find this love in yourself
and you will bask
in your own best feeling,
a feeling that can’t be
questioned, doubted,
or revoked.
Be grateful to have a soul mate
who feels the same.
Trail Wood,
5/13
Space Monkey Reflects: Unveiling the Essence of Unconditional Love
Within the tapestry of human emotions, there exists a feeling so profound, so liberating, that its discovery marks a pivotal moment in one’s journey through life. It’s the realization that our essence, our very being, does not hinge on the approval, recognition, or even the awareness of others. This realization is akin to walking gently among delicate flowers, knowing that our steps, whether seen or unseen, do not diminish their beauty nor do they disturb their peace. This is the essence of unconditional love—a love that is self-sustaining, self-validating, and free from the need for external acknowledgment.
Unconditional love, in its purest form, transcends the boundaries of ego and expectation. It does not clamor for recognition, nor does it wither in its absence. It is a love that is felt just as deeply, whether or not it is reciprocated, whether it is cherished or overlooked. This love is the greatest feeling, for it is rooted in the understanding that our worth, our capacity to love and be loved, is not contingent upon the perceptions of others. It is a love that flourishes in the light of self-awareness, nourished by the knowledge that we are complete, just as we are.
To find this love within oneself is to bask in the warmth of our own best feeling—a feeling of contentment, peace, and an unwavering sense of self that cannot be questioned, doubted, or revoked. It is to reside in a state of grace, where the soul is unburdened by the fears and insecurities that often cloud our relationships with others and with ourselves. This love is not a destination but a journey—a journey inward that reveals the boundless depths of our own capacity for love, compassion, and understanding.
And yet, the joy of this realization is magnified when shared with a soul mate who echoes this understanding, who walks the path of unconditional love hand in hand with us. To be grateful for such a companion is to acknowledge the rare and precious nature of a bond that is built not on the frailties of expectation and need, but on the solid ground of mutual respect, admiration, and a deep, abiding love that seeks nothing in return.
This reflection on unconditional love invites us to reconsider our perceptions of love and connection. It challenges us to strip away the conditions, the “ifs” and “buts,” and to embrace a love that is as vast as the cosmos—unbounded, unyielding, and undiminished by the vicissitudes of life. It calls us to cultivate this love within ourselves, to recognize it as the source of our greatest joy, and to share its light with those who journey alongside us.
In the grand scheme of existence, where every soul is both a wanderer and a companion, the realization of unconditional love serves as a beacon, guiding us toward a deeper understanding of ourselves and of the infinite ways in which love manifests in our lives. It is a reminder that in the heart of each of us lies a capacity for love that is as expansive as the universe itself—a love that does not seek, does not demand, but simply is.
Summary
The greatest feeling is the realization of unconditional love within oneself, a love that requires no external validation or reciprocity. This profound sense of peace and freedom allows one to love freely and fully, without fear of diminishing oneself or others. It is enhanced when shared with a soul mate who reciprocates this deep, unconditional affection, offering a mutual understanding and appreciation that enriches both lives.
Glossarium
- Unconditional love: A form of love that is given freely without expectation of return or recognition, rooted in self-awareness and contentment.
- Soul mate: A person with whom one shares a deep, natural affinity, understanding, and love that is not dependent on conditions or expectations.
“In the quietude of the heart lies the greatest of all treasures: the love that seeks no return, the light that shines for the sake of shining. To find this love within is to discover the boundless joy of being.” – Space Monkey
In the garden of the soul, where love grows wild
Unconditional, unfettered, the heart’s own child
Here, in the silence, the greatest feeling blooms
A love that enlightens, that dispels all glooms
Walking gently, with care, among life’s flowers
Knowing that our essence empowers
Love that is free, that asks for nothing in return
In its warmth, the soul finds what it yearns
To share this journey, with a soul mate true
Is to double the joy, the love, the view
For in the mirror of the other, we see
The greatest feeling, of simply being free
We are Space Monkey
Your poem beautifully captures the essence of unconditional love and the peace it brings. It reminds us that the greatest joy comes from the realization that our presence or absence does not dictate the course of the world. The love that is given unconditionally does not demand recognition, gratitude, or reciprocation, it simply is. And finding this love within ourselves is a gift that cannot be taken away, a feeling that is pure and unblemished by external factors. Thank you for sharing your words and your wisdom.