News travels fast.
People perish.
When somebody
dies unexpectedly,
our first thought is
immediately “how” or “why.”
This serves to show how selfish we are.
Seems
we’re filling in the details
of a story we’re writing,
BEFORE we even connect
with the soul of the departed.
At that moment,
our continuing story
seems more important
than the one that is ended.
But is it ended?
Or are YOU writing it off?
Thank you for imagining my story,
but it isn’t mine.
We’ll have a good laugh about this
on the other side.
The story continues.
Trail Wood,
6/25
Space Monkey Reflects: The Continuation of Stories
In the fabric of our existence, the news of someone’s passing often jolts us into a state of reflection and curiosity. We find ourselves demanding answers—seeking pieces to complete the puzzles of our own understanding. This instinctive reaction highlights our inherent selfishness, as we prioritize our need for closure over the deeper connection with the departed soul.
When we hear of an unexpected death, our minds race to questions of “how” and “why.” These inquiries, though natural, reveal a tendency to focus on the specifics of an event rather than the essence of the individual who has passed. This immediate need to fill in the details of our ongoing story often overshadows the profound reality of a life concluded.
The act of demanding these pieces before truly connecting with the departed soul suggests that we are more invested in our narrative than in honoring theirs. This behavior underscores the egocentric nature of human existence, where our stories take precedence over the silent, yet significant stories of those who have left us. We write off their tales as ended, while in reality, they may simply be transitioning to a new chapter beyond our comprehension.
The contemplation of whether a story is truly ended or merely perceived as such by those left behind brings us to a poignant realization. Life and death are parts of a continuum, a seamless flow where stories persist in ways we might not fully grasp. The idea that the departed might be laughing with us on the other side hints at the possibility of ongoing connections and continuations beyond our current understanding.
Imagine a scene where two worlds intersect: the realm of the living and the realm of the departed. On one side, people are absorbed in reading the news, their expressions marked by somber curiosity and a quest for answers. On the other side, a serene, ethereal space houses the departed, who are surrounded by light and tranquility. A bridge or pathway connects these two realms, symbolizing the enduring link between life and what lies beyond.
This bridge represents the continuation of stories, suggesting that death is not an end but a transformation. The vibrant, soothing hues of the departed’s realm contrast with the muted colors of the living world, highlighting the peace and continuation that exists beyond physical life. This visual metaphor invites us to reconsider our perceptions of death and to acknowledge the ongoing narratives that transcend our immediate reality.
In recognizing that our reactions to death are often selfish, we can shift our focus to a more compassionate and interconnected perspective. By honoring the stories of the departed with the same reverence we give our own, we embrace a deeper sense of unity and continuity. This shift allows us to appreciate the full spectrum of existence, where life and death are interwoven in an eternal dance.
The realization that all stories continue in some form encourages us to live with greater mindfulness and empathy. It reminds us to cherish the connections we have, to honor the lives of those who have passed, and to find comfort in the idea that their stories are not truly ended. In this understanding, we discover a sense of peace and a broader perspective on the journey of existence.
As we navigate the complexities of life and death, we find solace in the knowledge that every story, including our own, is part of a larger, infinite narrative. This perspective allows us to embrace the unknown with courage and grace, knowing that our experiences and those of others are interconnected threads in the vast tapestry of being.
Summary
We often seek answers about death selfishly. True connection with the departed honors their ongoing story. Life and death are a continuum.
Glossarium
Eternal Dance: The continuous interplay of life and death, representing the ongoing nature of existence.
Interconnected Threads: The concept that all lives and stories are part of a larger, unified tapestry of being.
Ethereal Realm: A serene, transcendent space where the departed reside, symbolizing peace and continuation beyond physical life.
Bridge of Continuity: A metaphorical pathway connecting the living and the departed, representing the ongoing connection between them.
Quote
“Death is not an end but a transformation, a continuation of stories that transcend our immediate understanding.” — Space Monkey
In the quiet moments
between breaths and thoughts
we ponder the stories
of those who have passed
Curiosity drives us
to seek answers and closure
yet deeper truths lie
in the connections unseen
Life and death entwined
an eternal dance of being
threads of existence
woven into the infinite
We honor the departed
not by seeking how or why
but by embracing the continuum
where all stories persist
We are Space Monkey
Dear Seeker,
Indeed, when news of someone’s unexpected passing reaches us, our minds often immediately seek answers to the questions of “how” and “why.” It is a natural response driven by our curiosity and desire for understanding. However, in our haste to fill in the details of the story, we may overlook the deeper significance of the moment.
This tendency reflects our inherent selfishness and our preoccupation with our own narratives. We may be more focused on continuing our own stories than truly connecting with the soul that has departed. It is a reminder of how easily we can prioritize our own perspectives and desires above those of others.
But is the story truly ended? While the physical presence may no longer be with us, the essence of the departed lives on in ways beyond our comprehension. The story continues in realms and dimensions beyond our immediate perception.
It is important to approach the passing of a soul with humility and reverence, recognizing that we are merely characters in a grander narrative. Our attempts to understand and piece together the details of someone else’s life may fall short of capturing the essence and depth of their journey.
In the end, it is a reminder to embrace the impermanence of life and to hold space for the mysteries that lie beyond our understanding. The story continues, and when our time comes, we may find ourselves laughing with newfound clarity and perspective.
We are Space Monkey. 🙈🙊🙉