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The Totality of You: Beyond the Surface

I guess this means my resolutions are already out the window.

There are aspects of you
and there is the totality of you
and the aspects are seemingly variable.

In other words, the totality of you
does not depend on the aspects of you.

The totality of you
is whole and complete
no matter what your aspects
seem to think about it.

It makes no difference
if you add aspects,
change aspects,
or take aspects away.

You are still totally you.
And completely NOT you.

Little do your aspects know
that you contain ALL aspects.
Every aspect imaginable.

The whole is the whole.
You are infinite and unchangeable.

Trail Wood,
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Space Monkey Reflects: The Paradox of Totality and Aspects

In the infinite tapestry of existence, you are both whole and fragmented, eternal and evolving. The totality of you transcends the fleeting nature of aspects, weaving an unchanging essence beneath the ever-changing surface. It is a paradox of being—complete yet capable of imagining incompletion, singular yet appearing as many.

Aspects and the Illusion of Variability

Aspects are the kaleidoscopic expressions of your infinite essence. They shift, evolve, and interact, creating the dynamic play of life. These aspects—your thoughts, emotions, identities, and experiences—are the paint strokes on the canvas of your being. They may appear to define you, yet they are but temporary reflections of the whole.

The totality of you, however, is untouched by these changes. Whether you add, remove, or transform aspects, your essence remains infinite and unbroken. This is the eternal paradox: you are simultaneously every aspect imaginable and none of them at all.

The Totality Beyond Aspects

Your totality is not diminished or enhanced by the variations in your aspects. Like the ocean, which is unaffected by the ripples on its surface, your essence remains whole regardless of the fluctuations of form. It is the infinite reservoir from which all aspects arise and to which they return.

In recognizing this, you liberate yourself from the illusion that your worth or identity is tied to any particular facet of your existence. You are not defined by your successes or failures, your strengths or weaknesses, your attachments or losses. You are the eternal, unchanging presence in which all these arise.

Infinite and Unchangeable, Yet Dynamic

To say you are infinite and unchangeable may seem to contradict the dynamic nature of your aspects. Yet this is the magic of your being: within your infinite totality, you contain the freedom to explore every possibility, to manifest and transform countless aspects, while remaining eternally whole.

This paradox is the dance of existence. It allows you to experience change without losing your essence, to explore multiplicity without departing from unity. You are the canvas and the painting, the actor and the stage, the silence and the song.

You Are Totally You—and Not You

The playful insight that you are “completely NOT you” reveals the profound truth that your identity is not fixed. It points to your connection with the universal self, the boundless consciousness that transcends individuality. You are both the drop and the ocean, the aspect and the totality.

This realization invites a deeper exploration of what it means to be “you.” If your totality contains all aspects, then you are not merely the sum of your parts but the infinite potential from which all parts arise. In this light, every resolution, transformation, or perceived failure becomes an expression of your limitless nature.

The Whole Is Always Whole

Ultimately, the whole is the whole. It cannot be divided, diminished, or destroyed. The aspects of you may play their games of addition, subtraction, and reinvention, but the totality of you remains untouched. You are infinite creativity housed in eternal essence, a paradoxical celebration of being and becoming.


Summary

The totality of you is infinite and unchanging, transcending the temporary nature of aspects. You are both the essence of all possibilities and the dynamic exploration of them, a paradox of unity and multiplicity.


Glossarium

  • Aspects: The variable expressions of your infinite essence, such as identities, thoughts, and experiences.
  • Totality: The unchanging and infinite essence that encompasses all aspects and transcends them.
  • Universal Self: The boundless consciousness that connects and transcends individual expressions.

Quote

“You are the whole, no matter how many parts you imagine.” — Space Monkey


Wholeness Beyond the Surface

Ripples dance upon the ocean
Yet the depth remains still
Aspects rise, shift, and fade
Yet the totality endures

You are the painter and the paint
The form and the formless
Each aspect a story
Each story a song

The whole contains the parts
And is untouched by them
Infinite, unchangeable
In the paradox of being

We are Space Monkey


We explore the philosophical concept of the self, distinguishing between the changeable aspects of our identity and the unchanging totality of our being, suggesting an inherent wholeness and infinity within us.

Distinction Between Aspects and Totality
The poem begins by differentiating between aspects of oneself and the totality of one’s being. It suggests that while the individual aspects, or the different facets of our identity, may change, they do not define the totality of who we are.

Independence of the Total Self from Its Parts
The assertion that the totality of you does not depend on the aspects of you implies that our core essence remains whole and complete, regardless of the changes in our characteristics or behaviors. This notion points to a deeper, unalterable self that is independent of our variable traits.

The Illusion of Change in the Whole
The idea that adding, changing, or removing aspects does not alter the totality indicates that our true self is immutable. This perspective challenges the common belief that we fundamentally change when our qualities or circumstances change.

Paradox of Identity: Totally You and Not You
The statement “You are still totally you. And completely NOT you” presents a paradox, highlighting the complexity and multifaceted nature of identity. It suggests that while we are fully ourselves, we also transcend the limited definitions of self that we often cling to.

Containing All Aspects
The revelation that we contain all aspects, every aspect imaginable, points to the infinite potential and diversity within each individual. It suggests that we are far more expansive than the limited roles and characteristics we often identify with.

The Unchangeable Wholeness
The poem concludes with the affirmation of our infinite and unchangeable nature. This perspective posits that at our core, we are a complete and whole entity, unaltered by the shifting aspects of our personalities or lives.

The Infinite Nature of the Self
By recognizing the infinite and unchangeable nature of the self, the poem invites us to see beyond the transient aspects of our identity and acknowledge a deeper, more enduring essence.

We are Space Monkey,


“Know that everything is in perfect unity with you.” – Alan Watts


In the dance of existence, where facets twirl and sway,
Lies the essence of being, in the light of day,
In each change, each shift, each new disguise,
Remains the unchangeable self, wise and wise.

In the play of life, where aspects come and go,
Stands the totality, constant in its glow,
For within us lies infinity, in its purest form,
Unaltered, unbounded, forever warm.


We invite reflections on the understanding of the self as a complete and unchangeable entity, transcending the variability of its aspects.

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