There is no “they.”
There may appear to be
groups of people
who share common loves,
some of which
overlap with yours
and some of which
conflict with yours,
but they’re as disconnected
from the truth of things as you.
Or, you could say, these individuals
subscribe to their OWN truths, just like you.
Perhaps the “they” truths you perceive
are more popular than yours,
but they are no less right or wrong.
The beliefs are simply more widespread,
and so SEEMINGLY more true.
There is NO actual “true,”
except what is true for you.
Trail Wood,
12/27
Space Monkey Reflects: The Illusion of They
The idea of “they” is one of the most pervasive illusions of human perception. It offers a convenient way to externalize conflict, to ascribe beliefs and actions to an imagined collective. But the truth is, “they” do not exist as an entity separate from “you.” The truths you see as “their” truths are merely reflections of individual beliefs coalescing into a shared narrative. This illusion is both powerful and fragile, shaping societies while simultaneously revealing their subjective foundations.
The Fragility of Collective Truths
When a belief is widely held, it gains the appearance of truth. This is the essence of collective reality: a shared agreement that transforms subjective perceptions into seemingly objective truths. Yet, the popularity of a belief does not make it more “right” or “wrong” than a solitary conviction. It simply becomes more visible, louder, and harder to ignore.
The fragility of collective truths lies in their dependence on consensus. The moment that consensus wavers, the belief begins to unravel, revealing its subjective roots. History is filled with such shifts—what was once considered undeniable truth becomes an outdated relic as new perspectives emerge.
Truth as Subjective Experience
Truth, in its purest form, is not a universal constant but a deeply personal experience. It is what resonates within you, shaped by your perceptions, experiences, and imagination. This is why two people can look at the same situation and see completely different realities. Each subscribes to their own truth, crafting a narrative that feels authentic and valid to them.
The illusion of “they” arises when we forget this subjectivity and attempt to impose our truths onto others or adopt theirs as our own. It is a disconnection not only from others but also from ourselves, a relinquishment of the unique lens through which we view the world.
The Paradox of Popular Beliefs
Popular beliefs gain their strength from numbers. The more people who subscribe to a belief, the more it appears to be an objective truth. This creates a paradox: the collective nature of belief makes it seem universally valid, yet it remains as subjective as any individual truth. The challenge lies in discerning where your truth intersects with popular beliefs and where it diverges.
This paradox is not a flaw but a feature of human perception. It allows for the coexistence of shared experiences and personal authenticity. It invites us to engage with differing perspectives without losing sight of our own.
The Freedom in Embracing Subjectivity
To recognize the subjectivity of truth is to liberate yourself from the tyranny of “they.” It is to understand that your beliefs are not validated or invalidated by their popularity. What matters is the alignment of your truths with your inner sense of authenticity and integrity.
When you let go of the need to compare or conform your truths to those of others, you open the door to genuine connection. You see others not as representatives of “they” but as individuals navigating their own subjective realities. This understanding fosters empathy, curiosity, and a deeper appreciation for the diversity of human experience.
We Are All Creators of Truth
In the Infinite Expanse of the Eternal Now, each of us is a creator of truth, shaping our realities with every thought, word, and action. There is no singular “true” that encompasses all perspectives, no ultimate arbiter of right or wrong. There is only the truth we live, moment by moment, as expressions of our unique and interconnected selves.
Summary
The concept of “they” is an illusion born of collective beliefs, which appear more valid due to their popularity. Truth is deeply subjective, shaped by individual perception and experience. Embracing this subjectivity liberates us from comparison and fosters deeper empathy.
Glossarium
- They Truths: Popular beliefs perceived as universal but rooted in subjective experiences.
- Subjective Truth: Personal truths shaped by individual perception and experience.
- Consensus Illusion: The belief that widespread agreement equates to universal validity.
Quote
“The only truth is the one you live, not the one you borrow.” — Space Monkey
The Illusion of They
Who are they,
these shadows we name
to blame, to follow, to fear?
They are echoes,
reflections of truths
we whisper to ourselves.
Truth, a fragile thread,
woven from belief,
stretches taut
between hearts and minds.
The more that hold it,
the brighter it seems,
but no more real.
In the silence,
there is no they,
no other.
Only you,
crafting truths
as infinite as the stars.
We are Space Monkey.
In the vastness of existence, the notion of “they” dissolves into the ether, revealing a tapestry of individual truths, each distinct yet part of the cosmic whole.
The Illusion of Separation in Collective Truths
The idea that there is no definitive “they” challenges the perception of separateness in our understanding of truths and beliefs. It suggests that the myriad groups and communities, each with their own loves and conflicts, are not so much distinct entities as they are manifestations of a larger, interconnected reality. This perspective echoes the essence of nexistentialism, where individual truths coalesce into a mosaic of experiences and perceptions, each as valid and real as the next.
Individual Truths in the Cosmic Play
The concept that individuals subscribe to their own truths highlights the subjective nature of reality. Each person’s truth, shaped by their experiences, perceptions, and understanding, is a unique thread in the fabric of existence. These individual truths, whether popular or obscure, form the rich diversity of the cosmic play, where every perspective adds depth and color to the grand narrative of life.
The Relativity of Truth
The idea that the prevalence of certain beliefs makes them seem more true underscores the relativity of truth. What is widely accepted or popular is not necessarily an absolute truth but a reflection of collective perceptions and consensus. This realization invites us to question and explore the nature of truth, understanding that what is true for one may not be true for another, and that each truth is a part of the infinite spectrum of reality.
The Singularity of Personal Truth
The assertion that there is no actual “true” except what is true for an individual resonates with the core of nexistentialism. It emphasizes that truth is a personal journey, an individual exploration of what resonates and holds meaning. In this realm, the pursuit of truth is not about conforming to external standards or norms but about discovering and embracing one’s own understanding and perception of reality.
The Collective Harmony of Diverse Truths
In this landscape of diverse truths, we find a harmonious coexistence of different perspectives and beliefs. Each individual truth, in its own way, contributes to the collective understanding of reality. This harmony is not about agreement or consensus but about the acknowledgement and celebration of the myriad ways in which truth is experienced and expressed.
We are Space Monkey.
“Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.” – Marcus Aurelius
In the sea of stars, truths like waves,
In the cosmic dance, each heart craves.
A myriad of beliefs, in the sky so vast,
In the journey of life, no truth is cast.
Each soul, a beacon of light unique,
In the quest for truth, their answers seek.
What’s true for one, in their heart’s core,
In another’s world, may be no more.
In the fabric of existence, we weave,
Our truths, our dreams, in what we believe.
No single truth, in the cosmos reigns,
In the spectrum of life, diversity remains.
In the harmony of truths, we find our way,
In the symphony of souls, we play.
A universe of perspectives, bright and new,
In the grand design, each truth is true.
We invite contemplation and reflections on the nature of individual truths and their place in the cosmic tapestry.
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