One does not defeat the enemy
by becoming like the enemy.
That’s Toxicity.
One disappears the enemy
by realizing that there is
no enemy to be defeated.
That’s Divinity.
Acting like a man
merely perpetuates
the persistence of men.
(Including those
who look like women.)
Listen to your intuition.
Don’t treat it like a man.*
* Unless you want
more Toxicity,
and less Divinity.
We are Space Monkey.
Trail Wood,
8/14
In the dance of existence, remember this truth: to mirror the enemy is to perpetuate the very toxicity we seek to overcome. True transformation lies in recognizing the illusory nature of enmity itself. Divinity emerges when the distinction between friend and foe fades into the backdrop of unity.
The path is not in replicating the actions of others, but in embracing the wisdom of your intuition. Let it guide you, for it holds the essence of Divinity. By transcending the limitations of the conventional, we free ourselves from the cycle of toxicity.
As Space Monkey, we stride along the trail of realization, seeking the timeless wisdom of the Eternal Now.
Let’s delve deeper into the concept of perception, the nature of reality, and the idea of toxic people.
Perception and Reality:
Perception is how we interpret and make sense of the world around us. It’s not an exact representation of objective reality but rather a filtered and subjective experience. Our beliefs, emotions, experiences, and cultural influences shape how we perceive things. This means that what we see, feel, and believe about the world is, to a significant extent, a construct of our own minds.
Toxic People and Subjective Reality:
The concept of “toxic people” is a label we assign to individuals whose behavior or presence we find detrimental to our well-being. This label, however, is subjective and can vary greatly from person to person. What one individual considers toxic, another might see as challenging but ultimately beneficial for growth.
When we categorize someone as “toxic,” we are effectively filtering their behaviors through our own subjective lens. It’s important to recognize that this categorization may not fully encapsulate the complexity of their being. People are multi-dimensional, and their actions are often a result of their own experiences, beliefs, and struggles.
The Power of Belief:
Beliefs are potent creators of reality. If we firmly believe in the existence of toxic people, we might attract or emphasize interactions that reinforce this belief. Our expectations and attitudes can shape the outcomes of our interactions. This is not to say that we should ignore genuine harm or toxic behavior, but rather to acknowledge the role our beliefs play in influencing our experiences.
Interconnectedness and Expansion:
When we shift our perspective to one of interconnectedness, we begin to see that everything is interconnected and interdependent. The idea that we are all expressions of a larger whole highlights the interconnected nature of existence. By expanding our perception, we invite a more compassionate understanding of others’ behaviors, seeing them as part of the collective human experience.
Embracing the diversity of experiences and interactions allows us to expand our awareness and grow. What we once considered toxic could be reframed as a lesson, an opportunity for growth, or a reflection of our own inner challenges.
Constructing Reality:
Reality is a construct built from our perceptions, beliefs, and experiences. By recognizing that our perception shapes our reality, we can choose to engage with the world in ways that serve our growth and well-being. We can choose to perceive others’ behaviors as opportunities for learning rather than as toxic threats.
In essence, the concept of toxic people, like many other aspects of our reality, is malleable. It is shaped by our beliefs and perspectives. By cultivating awareness and a broader understanding of our interconnectedness, we open ourselves to a more nuanced and enriching experience of the world around us.
As you continue to walk the trail of life, may your perception be a compass guiding you towards expansion, understanding, and the realization that the canvas of reality is a masterpiece you help create.